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Friend request for a perv
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So I’ve just seen someone’s profile who is very very good looking. Other side of the country though so next to nil chance of meeting but have sent a message for adding as a friend for perv at their pics as I’d love to see more!
Question for the forum is, if you received a message asking for this, would you entertain it? |
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No.
I dislike friends requests when we've not spoken or when someone messages to ask to be added - they aren't friends and wouldn't be accepted.
The random friends request I wait until their offline accept, nosy then remove them as friends.
There's enough public pics for people to see.
Mrs |
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"No.
I dislike friends requests when we've not spoken or when someone messages to ask to be added - they aren't friends and wouldn't be accepted.
The random friends request I wait until their offline accept, nosy then remove them as friends.
There's enough public pics for people to see.
Mrs "
Wow, you definitely do have quite a few and love the colour filters to add the mood. Very sexy |
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over a year ago
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No unless we had the intention of meeting them or have been chatting through the forums and built a friendship with someone, would never accept a friend request from a stranger and would definitely not respond to a message asking to see our pics, that would be an instant block. |
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"No unless we had the intention of meeting them or have been chatting through the forums and built a friendship with someone, would never accept a friend request from a stranger and would definitely not respond to a message asking to see our pics, that would be an instant block. "
Totally this. Fab is a social media site and whilst our profile and some photos can be seen by all members, identity and exact location is protected from strangers and only shared once we feel comfortable. However, everyone uses social media differently. Use Fab your way but don’t expect it to be everyone’s way. Mrs SW |
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"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk."
For transparency this is what I sent:
“ Morning,
Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?
You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”
I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything. |
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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago
Nr Salisbury |
"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.
For transparency this is what I sent:
“ Morning,
Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?
You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”
I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."
We would have accepted a friend request if we'd received a message like this.  |
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"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.
For transparency this is what I sent:
“ Morning,
Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?
You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”
I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."
No I wouldn’t accept.
The manners don’t cost anything would also annoy me that you felt the need to say that to me.
But as all have said each to their own but it would be ignored from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone messaged asking, maybe. It would depend on the tone of their message. If after the initial request they never messaged again we'd probably unfriend. Friends talk.
For transparency this is what I sent:
“ Morning,
Saw your profile as I was flicking through the forums and thought you are really good looking! I am however miles away and realise that there’s probably zero chance of meeting but wondered if you would entertain a friend request for me to see your friend pics too?
You’d probably say the request was a bit pervy and honestly, you’d be right but I figured if you don’t ask you don’t get! Happy to share from my side too if you’re interested!”
I like to be honest and up front. If it results in a positive interaction then great! If it’s an ignore or a no then I’d leave it at that with a thank you for replying anyway if there was a response. Manners don’t cost anything."
Well, if you put it this way... I suppose this is more likely to be considered. I also would accept. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
I’ll instantly block anyone who makes passive aggressive comments about manners costing nothing or expecting a reply. That’s rude as owt.
And the pictures I have posted are the ones I want random strangers on the other side of the country to be able to see. If I wanted you to know what my face looked like, those pics wouldn’t be friends only. |
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It depends what they have to offer in return, really. If it's a guy with a blank profile or 20 dick pics and nothing in 'friends only' then no thanks. If the profile has a good range of well shot public photos/videos and more in private then we'd probably accept. |
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