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Abstaining from wanking before a meet.
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I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so? |
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I do this myself ha, it give me a more intense orgasm and it can make it easier for it to happen, with a new playmate it can be elusive it's just my brain being a twat. |
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"I do this myself ha, it give me a more intense orgasm and it can make it easier for it to happen, with a new playmate it can be elusive it's just my brain being a twat. "
My play partner next weekend is going to be doing so for the very same reason.
Also helps if the pent up need can propel people through that first meet-up nerves too. |
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If I know I'm going to be meeting a woman or couple I always make sure I've not had a want within 24 hours........and if I'm meeting an existing play partner I tell her not to as well especially if we're planning to attend a party.
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"
Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!! |
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?
Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!"
Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak?  |
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?
Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!
Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak? "
I’m on the sex ban, well it’s actually a cumming ban!! Not without good reason as I take quite a long time so it is best I have a couple of days rest!! But I offer a helping hand (or fingers) to Mrs R so she’s happy.... |
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?
Mrs R always tells me I’m on a sex sabbatical leading up to a meet.... she on the other hand gets horny so has to be satisfied daily!!!
Does she take matters into her own hand during these periods, so to speak?
I’m on the sex ban, well it’s actually a cumming ban!! Not without good reason as I take quite a long time so it is best I have a couple of days rest!! But I offer a helping hand (or fingers) to Mrs R so she’s happy...."
Good to hear you’re still being put to good use while you build up your load  |
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"
From experience of our meets with bulls in the past those that have saved themselves up for the meet are usually able to perform 2-3 times easily in a session. |
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"Some of us have to abstain otherwise we wouldn't manage to cum at all. One effect of prostate cancer treatment for me was to reduce the amount of cum significantly."
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?
From experience of our meets with bulls in the past those that have saved themselves up for the meet are usually able to perform 2-3 times easily in a session."
I tend to recover and sustain quite well anyway (luckily); we both just want her to be coated on my ejaculation with her. Just for the visual and debauchery of it all  |
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"Yes..lol not sure how much difference it makes but a few days of edging not cumming before a meet for me!"
I would say ‘just to take the edge off’, but that is poor wordplay and not strictly true.  |
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After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
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I'm sure that a really good squeeze of the balls will ensure a massive ejaculation.
Everyone (on here at least) knows that testicles work just like the rubber bulb on an old fashioned water pistol.
I'm sure that a really good squeeze of the balls will ensure a massive ejaculation.
Do all you bollocks bursting guys feel the surge of the spunk going through all those tubes from the scrotum? |
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"I have an exciting meet next weekend, and I know she wants to get a very large initial load from me at our first encounter.
After today, I am going to abstain from wanking so my balls can be full to the brim.
This got me wondering; do others guys do this and do women have an expectation or a hope that they do so?"
Get cleaned your shaft in case if there is any blockage and hindered the shooting
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Pretty sure I read somewhere that abstinence only works up to a point as your body absorbs any excess sperm as there is only so much held in stock as it were.
However I always seem to produce a lot if I build up to climax but stop moments before, and repeat a few times. Then when I do blow, its a pretty sizeable amount, for sure a hell of a lot more than if I dont. |
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Smart strategy OP.
The first time I arranged to meet a couple on here I was so excited and horny about it that I wanked myself silly, 5/6 times a day for a week leading up to the meet. This led to me not being able to perform on the night in question and ruined the meet for the couple and was a humiliating experience for me. Fortunately I have learned from the experience! |
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But I understand too what your plan is....she just wants lots & lots of cum....& I'm sure she's smart enough to know you more than likely won't last actively long in the proposed sex session.... 
