"No one can own anyone but if you like to pretend that's cool "
Legally no-one can be owned. However, emotionally one can be owned, that is not pretense and the emotional connection is what counts. A marriage may have the force of law but if there is no real relationship that is pretense.
The part that most people don't understand (even some of those claiming to be owners) is that in modern D/s commitments run both ways. The owner has obligations as well as rights, as does the owned. |
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By *ebbie69Couple 52 weeks ago
milton keynes |
"Just intrigued how many other single women are out there are owned by a couple"
I (Debbie) am sort of but not all the time if that makes sense. I meet a Dom couple and when I'm with them I am 100% their toy. They do sometimes introduce others but only when I'm actually with them. Outside of our meets I am free to play or not as I wish so maybe not truly owned |
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By *azs OP Woman 27 weeks ago
hoddesdon |
"Have met a few people into this within clubs. Wouldn't appeal to us as it's a lot and someone being Mr's submissive even if we shared may trigger me lol
Yes, it is a lot and you have to be prepared for it, but also lots of fun
Cali "
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"Have met a few people into this within clubs. Wouldn't appeal to us as it's a lot and someone being Mr's submissive even if we shared may trigger me lol
Yes, it is a lot and you have to be prepared for it, but also lots of fun
Cali " its not something you can play at. They are your responsibility and its like a relationship...so no.. wouldn't be for us... probably more for me but the same goes for a regular lady to meet up with full stop. X |
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By *rBobbMan 27 weeks ago
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"Have met a few people into this within clubs. Wouldn't appeal to us as it's a lot and someone being Mr's submissive even if we shared may trigger me lol
Yes, it is a lot and you have to be prepared for it, but also lots of fun
Cali its not something you can play at. They are your responsibility and its like a relationship...so no.. wouldn't be for us... probably more for me but the same goes for a regular lady to meet up with full stop. X"
This is very true. It is a 24/7 commitment. There is much involved to being owned or owning someone. I always find interesting when people talk about collars but don't really know the significance of them.
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By *azs OP Woman 27 weeks ago
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"We had this form of relationship for 5 years but our caring responsibilities meant we couldn't give her the care and time she needed. It is a lot of hard work and takes a huge commitment from all." that’s a shame
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"Have met a few people into this within clubs. Wouldn't appeal to us as it's a lot and someone being Mr's submissive even if we shared may trigger me lol
Yes, it is a lot and you have to be prepared for it, but also lots of fun
Cali its not something you can play at. They are your responsibility and its like a relationship...so no.. wouldn't be for us... probably more for me but the same goes for a regular lady to meet up with full stop. X
This is very true. It is a 24/7 commitment. There is much involved to being owned or owning someone. I always find interesting when people talk about collars but don't really know the significance of them.
" its a huge commitment and takes a lot of time. Time I'm not prepared to give from our relationship.. and yes people don't seem to understand the significance |
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