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I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.
I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wont travel, would only meet locally and I'm not having strangers in my home.
Not sure why it's difficult to understand tbh. I've said previously, I think it should be 'wont' instead of 'cant'. |
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By *heelerMan
over a year ago
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I used to have can accommodate one day a guy part of a couple messaged me beings i can accommodate is it ok if i bring another male so we can fuck his partner.I had had no contact the guy previously. You can guess my reply to him ended with off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.
I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone "
I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.
I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger. |
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over a year ago
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I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.
Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different. |
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"I have it on there because I'm not having strangers in my home nor am I interested in travelling to meet randoms.
I meet in clubs. If I like them enough they might be allowed at my home. But it's certainly not an accommodation offer for everyone
I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.
I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger. "
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Can't travel can mean they don't have their own transport so meet locally or limited by public transport.
Most of people on this site can't accom
A lot that do have accom if you message them start making excuses why they can't just now.
family visting or having work done etc.
When i meet i can accom more or less anytime but in the past i have put i can't just to stop messages from people who can't that assume accom means its open invite to anyone rather than who i wanted to invite to my house.
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"I would assume meeting at the club means that you can travel.
I can accommodate and travel but that does not mean i will with just one line of message with a stranger. "
Travelling via public transport is time, planning and money. I don't drive, nor intend to travel to meet anyone from here. So choosing the can't travel option makes more sense to me. Because I won't. I am perfectly capable of accommodating, but I won't. |
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"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.
Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different. "
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"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.
Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different. "
Yes. People think "can travel" means "will go anywhere with no notice for a blank profile" and "can accommodate" means "anyone can show up" |
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"Wondering how one would reach out and what's others take on this.
Or are those sort of online only and best avoided? "
It simply means they will only fuck their neighbours or maybe someone this side of that new estate over the road, but not at their place, got to be yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can travel and accommodate. Doesn’t mean I’m going to travel to Glasgow 2am to give sone guy a bj, doesn’t mean guys can ‘pop by’ when they have an hour free. But that’s what I get in messages. So I’m tempted to say no to both and be done with it.
Everyone’s situation, and perspective, will be different.
Yes. People think "can travel" means "will go anywhere with no notice for a blank profile" and "can accommodate" means "anyone can show up""
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