Having been on the site for a while now, I've finally decided how to see who's genuine and who isn't. Ask for a fem to fem phone chat. If they run their fake!!! It's happened to me once this week. Why do people waste theirs and my time if they only want to whatsapp or txt? To me that proves its not gonna happen.
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I understand why you require that safeguard, we never chat on the phone but we are verified as a couple and we always ALWAYS meet socially only first with no exceptions....that usually sorts the sheep from the goats |
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over a year ago
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"I understand why you require that safeguard, we never chat on the phone but we are verified as a couple and we always ALWAYS meet socially only first with no exceptions....that usually sorts the sheep from the goats"
Glad we not only ones who don't chat on phone. We are genuine and that's obvious by our veris. If that's not good enough then pass us by. |
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Totally always easy to have a quick phone chat,i don't see the problem with it.
I never give my home number out and mobile wise you can choose who and when you speak to someone and numbers are blocked easily if you don't want to speak again. |
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"I understand why you require that safeguard, we never chat on the phone but we are verified as a couple and we always ALWAYS meet socially only first with no exceptions....that usually sorts the sheep from the goats
Glad we not only ones who don't chat on phone. We are genuine and that's obvious by our veris. If that's not good enough then pass us by. "
Yep! Just as verifications can be faked so can phone conversations. However this all boils down to the same thing...personal preference in the way we conduct ourselves, we are more than happy to forgo a meet with people who insist on something we're not comfortable with just as they should forgo meeting us if a phone conversation is what they insist on. |
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"I understand why you require that safeguard, we never chat on the phone but we are verified as a couple and we always ALWAYS meet socially only first with no exceptions....that usually sorts the sheep from the goats
Glad we not only ones who don't chat on phone. We are genuine and that's obvious by our veris. If that's not good enough then pass us by.
Yep! Just as verifications can be faked so can phone conversations. However this all boils down to the same thing...personal preference in the way we conduct ourselves, we are more than happy to forgo a meet with people who insist on something we're not comfortable with just as they should forgo meeting us if a phone conversation is what they insist on."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having been on the site for a while now, I've finally decided how to see who's genuine and who isn't. Ask for a fem to fem phone chat. If they run their fake!!! It's happened to me once this week. Why do people waste theirs and my time if they only want to whatsapp or txt? To me that proves its not gonna happen.
Rant over!!!!"
ive never swapped numbers with anyone on here, i dont do phone chat, and ive met loads of people so thats your theory out the window 
Some people just dont want to hand their numbers out, and im not willing to use all my minuits on people on here calling them everytime so i can withhold my number  |
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Why would a quick chat on the phone be an issue if u want to meet socially and possibly go further? As a single woman if I were to meet a couple alone I would want a quick chat before a social even I think, even though I have a safety plan in place whenever I meet |
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while we're on the subject  .
If I see a profile or get a message saying we insist the "girls" chat on the phone first I take my sky high stilletoes off and run as fast as my little legs will carry me for the hills. I am NOT a girl, haven't been since I was about 20 I'm very much a woman  |
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"Why would a quick chat on the phone be an issue if u want to meet socially and possibly go further? As a single woman if I were to meet a couple alone I would want a quick chat before a social even I think, even though I have a safety plan in place whenever I meet"
I can understand why you would do that and possibly as part of a couple I feel I don't need that safety measure in place. However if someone is prepared to falsely verify someone they might also be prepared to fake a phonecall for them |
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OP: I assume you mean that this is your approach if someone has ASKED you for a meet?
I get loads of people asking for my phone number, and in 99% of cases it's an automatic "no". I don't have a Play Phone, and I don't see why I should get one. So I restrict my phone number to friends and those I have arranged to meet.
If anyone else wants to check that I'm genuinely female, they can come and chat in the ChatRooms. |
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Thanks for your thoughts on that. It's true verifications can be fake so can phone calls I surpose. I always have a social meet first with everyone I wanna meet to see how we get on. But I was stood up a few wks ago too!
I only asked the question because I was asked if I was on whatsapp and you need to give your number out to chat on that anyway so a quick hello wouldn't hurt and the couple in question didn't have verifications too. |
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"Totally always easy to have a quick phone chat,i don't see the problem with it.
I never give my home number out and mobile wise you can choose who and when you speak to someone and numbers are blocked easily if you don't want to speak again."
How can you block numbers on mobile phones? I need to do it fast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes there r loads of wasters on here pretending to be bi gems etc , one way to sort is ask for number ,or usr chatroom another is to use kik if don't want to give a number xx its easy to use ,for chat pics or vid xxx |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I don't meet a lot of couples, but would prefer to have a fem/fem chat - if the lady of the couple doesn't want to do that, then it's not a problem, I just don't carry on the conversation - it's up to each individual how they conduct their profiles. Same for single guys/girls, if they don't want to talk to me on the phone then I'm not going to arrange a meet |
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Dont give out my number to men and couples, not had any problem with meets.
When I 1st joined the site, I gave number out to one or two people and was pestered to death! Never again!
If anyone wants to see I'm a woman, then They can see me on cam on chat here and not performing either!  |
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I insist on a phone chat as the voice is a turn on for me. An "average" looking man with a deep voice wins over an Adonis with a squeaky voice as I found out when I met the Daniel Craig look a like who sounded like Joe Pasquale! 
If they don't want to talk on the phone it's not a problem: I just don't meet them. We all decide what works for us. |
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