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Whos fed up with time wasters all i want is a good fuck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your right, there is shit loads of distance between you.................
1hr max journeys do tend to drain people.
At least you are putting the effort to meet people in though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your right, there is shit loads of distance between you.................
1hr max journeys do tend to drain people.
At least you are putting the effort to meet people in though."
oooooooooooooooo who's a liccle bit tired then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree with that and id like to know why sum women talk horny with ya flirt and say they want ya then ignore u,timewasters a simple not interested woud do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"damn the distance. hard to find people near myself. if you fancy a trip to mildenhall  id have to sign you on base though haha"
Great for a honeypot trap that statement.... |
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Yes 'time wasters' why to people have to waste yout time I have sent a number of messages to others on this site just to see they have ben read but dont get a reply, if not interested dont take long to say 'no thanks' am not asking them to give details as to why not ? & yes have heard about people get so many dont have time to reply to all thats crap sorry |
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"Yes 'time wasters' why to people have to waste yout time I have sent a number of messages to others on this site just to see they have ben read but dont get a reply, if not interested dont take long to say 'no thanks' am not asking them to give details as to why not ? & yes have heard about people get so many dont have time to reply to all thats crap sorry "
just cos they don't reply doesn't make them timewasters! probably just the opposite - if they don't reply they aren't interested - it's not rocket science! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just cos they don't reply doesn't make them timewasters! probably just the opposite - if they don't reply they aren't interested - it's not rocket science!"
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I may be an odd ball in that I reply to all messages, even if it is just a "No thank you!", as I believe it is rude not to reply.
But then I don't get hundreds of messages like some folks do though  |
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"just cos they don't reply doesn't make them timewasters! probably just the opposite - if they don't reply they aren't interested - it's not rocket science!
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I may be an odd ball in that I reply to all messages, even if it is just a "No thank you!", as I believe it is rude not to reply.
But then I don't get hundreds of messages like some folks do though "
I also reply to all my messages but some don't - hardly makes them time wasters - as i said - just the opposite! |
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you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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"you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all "
but as most cpls and single ladies can get over 60 messages a day to reply to all of them would take to long.
it`s genaraly acsepted that no reply means no thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all
but as most cpls and single ladies can get over 60 messages a day to reply to all of them would take to long.
it`s genaraly acsepted that no reply means no thank you "
I agree. My profile is quite specific. If the person contacting me is not in London, much younger than the age I'm looking for, starts hi hun etc etc I delete without reading as it's obvious they haven't read my profile so why should I answer? Make sure you are what people are looking for and recognise that even though our talking mirrors tell us we're the fairest in the land, others may disagree x |
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"you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all "
Get over it - this has been done to death - how can a non reply be wasting your time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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funny how you get all the old chestnuts at christmas........
i dont reply if im not interested pretty simple!!
profile hidden at moment cause im a moody stroppy git!
said it once said it a hundred times a wee bit patience goes a long way on here good luck to all and hope you all find what your looking for!!
think im goin back to the old fashioned pull at the pub!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all
but as most cpls and single ladies can get over 60 messages a day to reply to all of them would take to long.
it`s genaraly acsepted that no reply means no thank you "
Ive never had 60 messages a day what am i doing wrong old lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whos fed up of time wasters all i want for xmas is a good fuck and a playmate."
Here Here lol I think the fakers ruin the site a little.some of them are really sad pretending to be a women or couple when your a dirty old man lol it's pathetic beyond belief
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"Whos fed up of time wasters all i want for xmas is a good fuck and a playmate.Here Here lol I think the fakers ruin the site a little.some of them are really sad pretending to be a women or couple when your a dirty old man lol it's pathetic beyond belief"
Nah, it's good fun to wind them up! |
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By *wabbitMan
over a year ago
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There does seem to be too many armchair swingers around nowadays.Willing to chat but never seem to meet anyone.One thing always puzzles me.How can anyone be verified as a genuine swinger by cam or phone.When the term swinger is associated with sex ie the act of and I dont mean cyber sex.I am on about good old fucking, shagging ,hiding the pork sausage, feeding the beever what ever you want to call it.It never fails to surprise me on how many people forget they have to run their brother,sister,aunt,uncle to the airport. But alway remember at the last minute or the stuffed parrot has died. I will drive an Hour for an evening /night of fun.But only if I know they have played before.Usually by checking the profile and seen that they have actually met and played and not by pone or cam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There does seem to be too many armchair swingers around nowadays.Willing to chat but never seem to meet anyone.One thing always puzzles me.How can anyone be verified as a genuine swinger by cam or phone.When the term swinger is associated with sex ie the act of and I dont mean cyber sex.I am on about good old fucking, shagging ,hiding the pork sausage, feeding the beever what ever you want to call it.It never fails to surprise me on how many people forget they have to run their brother,sister,aunt,uncle to the airport. But alway remember at the last minute or the stuffed parrot has died. I will drive an Hour for an evening /night of fun.But only if I know they have played before.Usually by checking the profile and seen that they have actually met and played and not by pone or cam "
Thanks for the chuckle and well said!
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By *on52ukMan
over a year ago
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Good one this, i feel the same, give up i think. Sent more than a few messages, and nothing, not even a no thanks kiss my arse...!! wishful thinking...!! nothing. I'm here for the same reason we all are, well thats what i thought, but now i'm begining to wonder. The ones i have met, ive had a great time with and still say hello now and then, thats how it should be.
All i'm after is make a few friends and have some good mutual fun, is that asking to much, maybe it is...!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you say if they dont reply dont make them time wasters,( its because they are not interested ? ) sorry to me they are Why put a Add/profile on this site then not reply to a message thats the idea of a Add to get them so if one dont reply back thats being rude & wasted one time.. ( a no thank you would be fine ) Please before one says to me 'get over it' I have I just like to make a point thats all
but as most cpls and single ladies can get over 60 messages a day to reply to all of them would take to long.
it`s genaraly acsepted that no reply means no thank you
Ive never had 60 messages a day what am i doing wrong old lol "
LOL..it cracks me up..as a single bi girl....I never got any thing like 60 mails a day..and now get even less as a couple...maybe peeps count mails from their mates saying hi..and chewing the fat in these numbers...no one I know gets anything like that number of cold call mails...!!!!
Simple if peeps dont reply to your messages they are NOT interested...
Clubs ..brilliant way to meet peeps that DO play....timewasters are a pain in the ass fact of life on sites...but very easy to spot...wont list the tell tale givaways ..because cant be bothered with peeps ranting how they fit the profile of a timewaster but they are still genuine swingers...just my 2p...mwah..xx |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Good one this, i feel the same, give up i think. Sent more than a few messages, and nothing, not even a no thanks kiss my arse...!! wishful thinking...!! nothing. I'm here for the same reason we all are, well thats what i thought, but now i'm begining to wonder. The ones i have met, ive had a great time with and still say hello now and then, thats how it should be.
All i'm after is make a few friends and have some good mutual fun, is that asking to much, maybe it is...!!!
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Do what I do - stick to the ones you know and can rely on, be they 2 or 20 in number, everyone else need to show they're worth the effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good one this, i feel the same, give up i think. Sent more than a few messages, and nothing, not even a no thanks kiss my arse...!! wishful thinking...!! nothing. I'm here for the same reason we all are, well thats what i thought, but now i'm begining to wonder. The ones i have met, ive had a great time with and still say hello now and then, thats how it should be.
All i'm after is make a few friends and have some good mutual fun, is that asking to much, maybe it is...!!!
Do what I do - stick to the ones you know and can rely on, be they 2 or 20 in number, everyone else need to show they're worth the effort"
Yep..better the devil you know.. Fancy a shag ????...  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"Good one this, i feel the same, give up i think. Sent more than a few messages, and nothing, not even a no thanks kiss my arse...!! wishful thinking...!! nothing. I'm here for the same reason we all are, well thats what i thought, but now i'm begining to wonder. The ones i have met, ive had a great time with and still say hello now and then, thats how it should be.
All i'm after is make a few friends and have some good mutual fun, is that asking to much, maybe it is...!!!
Do what I do - stick to the ones you know and can rely on, be they 2 or 20 in number, everyone else need to show they're worth the effort
Yep..better the devil you know.. Fancy a shag ????... "
Mmmmm how fast can you get here? I'll get the kettle on! |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
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We don't reply to all people who contact us, again not because we are timewasters, just because some people cannot read. It clearly states on our profile what we are looking for, so why do people continue to contact us when they do not meet these requirements.Surly these people are just wasting their own time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe there should be an automated msg,saying no thanks when you press the delette button,or maybe a famous auction site feedback rating.
maybe i should lookin to my own site for swingers,just maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd certainly travel the distance. The real problem is so many people experience time wasters (see oral delight who is near to me) that they don't meet the genuine ones and genuine people like me and oral get let down......
Peterborough.... Watford..... No problem
James |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love |
"hate it wen my girl goes to all that trouble geting ready,then bingo they carnt make it  "
WE have had that done to us a couple of times you just but it down experience and move on and don't let the bastards get you down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree with that and id like to know why sum women talk horny with ya flirt and say they want ya then ignore u,timewasters a simple not interested woud do"
Because women have the absolute power on any sex site and their the ones virtually everyone’s trying to meet. Therefore you do get one or two who really play on it and who do flirt and say their going to meet you when they have no intention of doing so.
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LOL..it cracks me up..as a single bi girl....I never got any thing like 60 mails a day..and now get even less as a couple...maybe peeps count mails from their mates saying hi..and chewing the fat in these numbers...no one I know gets anything like that number of cold call mails...!!!!"
Personally I don’t believe a lot of what I read on here and I do think quite a few people exaggerate about how many emails they get. Some still insist that they receive hundreds each and every week! You usually find these are also the ones who say they can’t be arsed to reply to emails and just delete them on en masse and just shows how some people get so complacent. Why they don’t hide their profiles until they sort out the emails is beyond me because leaving it up just invites even more messages! Maybe it’s the attention people like?
I have also noticed that everyone seems to have done and experienced all the same things which I find hard to believe. Someone starts a thread describing some really odd and unique thing that has happened to them, then a flood of people comment saying it’s happened to them too but always seem to better and embellish upon the OP’s experience. As I say don’t believe a lot of what you read.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im sad to say timewasters do seem to be taking over this site.
im so sick of timewasters and cliques that i was going to leave the site in cpl of days
but what i like to think are a few good friends persuaded me to just hide my profile for a while, to give me some time to chill
so who knows....but yes, too many of them xx |
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Personally I don’t believe a lot of what I read on here and I do think quite a few people exaggerate about how many emails they get. Some still insist that they receive hundreds each and every week!
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Thyis made me actually wonder, as I have made this sort of answer previously on similar threads, so I went to my inbox aqnd counted up the mail I've received in the past 24 hours.
Of the 34 messages I recieved, 7 were from friends, 5 were from people who have previously contacted me and I have responded to in some way and the other 22 were messages from new people....and this is despite the fact that my profile very clearly states at the top that I'm not meeting new people at the moment.
Now bearing in mind that it is christmas and quite a lot of people are not using the site as they normally would, this is probably a somewhat quiet day mail wise for me.
Do I mass delete...yes at times I do, not because I'm a time waster or rude....I just don't see why I should waste my time replying to people who don't take any notice of what I write in my profile. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Personally I don’t believe a lot of what I read on here and I do think quite a few people exaggerate about how many emails they get. Some still insist that they receive hundreds each and every week!
Thyis made me actually wonder, as I have made this sort of answer previously on similar threads, so I went to my inbox aqnd counted up the mail I've received in the past 24 hours.
Of the 34 messages I recieved, 7 were from friends, 5 were from people who have previously contacted me and I have responded to in some way and the other 22 were messages from new people....and this is despite the fact that my profile very clearly states at the top that I'm not meeting new people at the moment.
Now bearing in mind that it is christmas and quite a lot of people are not using the site as they normally would, this is probably a somewhat quiet day mail wise for me.
Do I mass delete...yes at times I do, not because I'm a time waster or rude....I just don't see why I should waste my time replying to people who don't take any notice of what I write in my profile. "
So you're not up for a meet then? I've emailed you 22 times already but you do't seem to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am going to put my thoughts in here and say something that might sound daft but think about it.
I know of single woman and couples (don't research guys) who have 2 if not 3 profiles on here. Some I have spotted and some I have been told about. Should I like the sound of a couple and message them and either get no reply or a no thanks then no worry I move on NOW if I spot another profile which I decide to message BUT it happens to belong to the couple above they are going to know me from my previous message and the pics on my profile. Human nature will make then think oh he messaged us before and we didn't like him and hit the delete button.
To my mind that is the only small problem with the site is the ability of people to have multiple profiles.
I will agree it must be tiresome to people to get messages from others who simply did not read the profile correctly.
I will also say if I receive a refusal I always thank the sender for taking the time to reply to me, it's simply common courtesy on the other hand getting bent out of shape because your message was deleted with no reply is negative energy and a waste. It used to annoy me a long time ago now it just washes over my head.
Thoughts anyone ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well ,were real ,genuine, do meet ,dont timewaste ,also dont like fucking about with ping pong messages, a few is ok, swap phone numbers talk on the phone a lil and sort out a hot ate ,simples..were far too busy to mess about for ages, but we do like to see peoples pics first if they dont have any on their site or no face pics ,then were happy to talk on the phone and go from there. so far ,it works just fine. so now ya know, if were your type of swinger, get in touch .xxx happy new year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would respectfully suggest that there's a difference between timewasting and rudeness.
I have no problem whatsoever with ladies and couples who ignore and delete mail from guys who obviously haven't read their profiles and don't meet their criteria.
However, I've always maintained that it takes a minute to say "thanks but no thanks", and I've always in turn thanked them for at least replying.
Latterly though, with limited free time, I've come to a conclusion similar to Ahabs!
"Do what I do - stick to the ones you know and can rely on, be they 2 or 20 in number, everyone else need to show they're worth the effort"
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I just love the way that EVERYTHING seems to be classed as timewasting by some people replying in this and other threads.
Just to be clear:
People who don't reply to your message are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them!
People who like to chat to people and get to know them before meeting are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them or they weren't ready to meet when you started getting pushy!
People who don't chase you to meet them are NOT timewasters... they just aren't that interested in meeting you!
People who aren't free when you feel like a shag are NOT timewasters .... they have a life!
People who won't meet you at the drop of a hat because you like their photos are NOT timewasters... they are just more fussy than you!
People who tell you they want to meet, arrange where and when and then don't bother turning up... they ARE timewasters. Anything else is just part and parcel of selection. |
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"I just love the way that EVERYTHING seems to be classed as timewasting by some people replying in this and other threads.
Just to be clear:
People who don't reply to your message are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them!
People who like to chat to people and get to know them before meeting are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them or they weren't ready to meet when you started getting pushy!
People who don't chase you to meet them are NOT timewasters... they just aren't that interested in meeting you!
People who aren't free when you feel like a shag are NOT timewasters .... they have a life!
People who won't meet you at the drop of a hat because you like their photos are NOT timewasters... they are just more fussy than you!
People who tell you they want to meet, arrange where and when and then don't bother turning up... they ARE timewasters. Anything else is just part and parcel of selection."
Hallelujah! At last some one who has encapsulated everything I wanted to say but couldn't as I ramble! Couln'dt agree more. Z |
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"I just love the way that EVERYTHING seems to be classed as timewasting by some people replying in this and other threads.
Just to be clear:
People who don't reply to your message are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them!
People who like to chat to people and get to know them before meeting are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them or they weren't ready to meet when you started getting pushy!
People who don't chase you to meet them are NOT timewasters... they just aren't that interested in meeting you!
People who aren't free when you feel like a shag are NOT timewasters .... they have a life!
People who won't meet you at the drop of a hat because you like their photos are NOT timewasters... they are just more fussy than you!
People who tell you they want to meet, arrange where and when and then don't bother turning up... they ARE timewasters. Anything else is just part and parcel of selection."
Very well said! This text should be included in the Swinging Bible! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"lol...not his leg as it happens..he was helping out with the champagne fountains, but passed the leg he was holding to me and said, I'll be back in a minute.....but never returned....lol"
Sadly I went to get a dutiful earful and had to be good the rest of o the evening  |
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"I just love the way that EVERYTHING seems to be classed as timewasting by some people replying in this and other threads.
Just to be clear:
People who don't reply to your message are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them!
People who like to chat to people and get to know them before meeting are NOT timewasters.... you didn't impress them or they weren't ready to meet when you started getting pushy!
People who don't chase you to meet them are NOT timewasters... they just aren't that interested in meeting you!
People who aren't free when you feel like a shag are NOT timewasters .... they have a life!
People who won't meet you at the drop of a hat because you like their photos are NOT timewasters... they are just more fussy than you!
People who tell you they want to meet, arrange where and when and then don't bother turning up... they ARE timewasters. Anything else is just part and parcel of selection.
Hallelujah! At last some one who has encapsulated everything I wanted to say but couldn't as I ramble! Couln'dt agree more. Z "
ditto and ditto: amen! |
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"lol...not his leg as it happens..he was helping out with the champagne fountains, but passed the leg he was holding to me and said, I'll be back in a minute.....but never returned....lol
Sadly I went to get a dutiful earful and had to be good the rest of o the evening "
pmsl..earfuls all round that night..hehe..xx |
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