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Do you make love or fuck?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can only make love with a person you are in love with. That is why it's called making love.
I fuck and that is all I am interested in. Fuck fuck fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on other responses, if you’re not actively swinging, but aren’t in love, are kissing and touching one another you are making love. With that in mind, I’m lovemaking fucking.
Sometimes I’ve uttered “fuck me…”, but there’s been kissing and touching, sensualism, I don’t know what I’d class that. To me, making love has nothing to do with being in love with a person though. You can live someone and not make love, but fuck. You can also not love someone and make love and not fuck.
Fucking to me would be lacking a connection. Connections aren’t synonymous with the emotion of love. When I utter, “fuck me…”, I’m not claiming there’s a lack of connection, I simply want to be treated like a dirty thing they want to plow through but that’s not without trust in the person. I’d certainly never tell my random person to fuck me. |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
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Not sure why it's viewed as a binary choice. Both are fantastic! For me lovemaking is about immersing yourself entirely in slowly and intimately exploring your partners mi d and body and completely giving yourself over to pleasuring someone else as much and I as many ways as possible.
And fucking is about surrendering to carnal lust and desire and loosing yourself completely in the moment while just fucking each other hard and not holding anything back.
I wouldn't ever want to give one up or chose one over the other!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Together we make love, on a meet it's a fuck.
At the end of a day its a fantasy time moment, don't need another husband need someone to spice up the meet and fuck lol x"
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to do both.
Lots of contact and exploration , soft hands and light fingertips, sensual touch and teasing but also rough, passionate and hard when the time is right just to switch it up. It varies though depends on mood and who I'm with and our chemistry etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on our mood! We only make love with each other though. We can have sensual sex with others but it’s not the same as when we make love.
With others we almost always fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the mood and what the day was like. If it was a calm day then love is on my mind. If I had to slay 10 men in the search of gold, rough sex is what I require. Sometimes we make love, but most of the time we fuck. |
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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago
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Both. In equal amounts.
Making love is what we'd call it if I'm not being banged senseless, you know, those lazy Sunday morning sessions.
Anything else, we fuck.
Terminology can often be mood dependant I guess.
J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Together we make love, on a meet it's a fuck.
At the end of a day its a fantasy time moment, don't need another husband need someone to spice up the meet and fuck lol x"
likewise |
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Fuck.
I don't like the term "make love" at all tbh, quick way to get me dry. I also don't really like the idea behind it though for me, sex and love are entirely different things and they never cross into eachother |
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