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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all 
Angel xxx"
I am sorry to hear this, it comes with the territory unfortunately.
I hope your day gets better and sending hugs  |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
I am sorry to hear this, it comes with the territory unfortunately.
I hope your day gets better and sending hugs "
It does but when you make so much effort it pisses you off !!
Thanks xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
Oh how annoying!! Too many fantasists who get cold feet. Their loss - you look stunning!! |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
Oh how annoying!! Too many fantasists who get cold feet. Their loss - you look stunning!!"
Aww thanks so pissed off this morning our time is so precious with everything , but we move on !! |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Oh no! Sorry that’s happened to you. We’ve been ghosted before after putting everything in place and the feeling is awful
Sending hugs and love!
Mrs "
Aww thanks so much such a nice message xxxx |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
Most definately their loss.  "
Why thank you x
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
I know that feeling "
We have had this recently. Speaking on message,exchanged face pics, happy to meet, all organised for a social. That evening, very last minute, sorry we have to cancel and then we're blocked! Makes no sense and very disappointing. |
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Hope you feel better soon about it. It's really frustrating. My take on it now is they have saved my effort meeting them face to face. I leave a note on the profile and unfriend if required. In my experience they will circle back in a few weeks with an excuse or completely ignore the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
That's horrible behaviour. Even with a explanation it's disappointing as a lot of organisation has likely gone in but but ghosting is terrible.
Sorry to hear that OP.
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
I know that feeling
We have had this recently. Speaking on message,exchanged face pics, happy to meet, all organised for a social. That evening, very last minute, sorry we have to cancel and then we're blocked! Makes no sense and very disappointing."
It's totally crap, makes you feel like you've done something wrong... their loss is what I tell myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
That’s just not on, some people have to go to great lengths to just arrange a social let alone sex meetings
We have been lucky enough to have meet with everyone arranged even if it never leads to anything
Can see why some people are losing interest here
We will say our criteria of meeting is actually very finite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel your pain OP, I had a no show on Tuesday from a well verified webcam user, fortunately the social was only in my town and on my way home from work but the let down is real and the waste the waste of time |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
That’s just not on, some people have to go to great lengths to just arrange a social let alone sex meetings
We have been lucky enough to have meet with everyone arranged even if it never leads to anything
Can see why some people are losing interest here
We will say our criteria of meeting is actually very finite "
Yes we were due for a social with perhaps a bit more !! But hey ho ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened to us so many times we've lost count. To add insult to injury, some get back in contact a few weeks later as if nothings happened. 
It's unfortunately become the norm on here now.
Chin up, their loss x |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
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"It's happened to us so many times we've lost count. To add insult to injury, some get back in contact a few weeks later as if nothings happened.
It's unfortunately become the norm on here now.
Chin up, their loss x"
It's is totally the norm now. It's always been bad on fab but since covid its got much worse.
Since covud I get ghosted every time a meet or social has been arranged. |
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
Had you spoken to both of them on the phone or video chat. |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Us fellas get it all the time. Shitty behaviour
Best thing to do is start a thread to whine about it.
No need really is there "
If you don't like don't come on the post it's simple I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us fellas get it all the time. Shitty behaviour
Best thing to do is start a thread to whine about it.
No need really is there
If you don't like don't come on the post it's simple I suppose x"
If that's to me then, same to you "no need"
It's a forum |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Us fellas get it all the time. Shitty behaviour
Best thing to do is start a thread to whine about it.
No need really is there
If you don't like don't come on the post it's simple I suppose x
If that's to me then, same to you "no need"
It's a forum "
Xx
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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It's not nice, no matter if folk say it is their loss. We've been ghosted a few times and also by people we have met and become friends, now that is confusing. Just the other week we met a guy in a club. All went well on the night, even chatted for a couple of days after about how respectful it all went on both sides. We had discussed about meeting up again , which again was all going well, then messages stopped and he blocked us. Really does mess with your head   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
Been there too, feel your pain |
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
I don't understand why people do this! If you get cold feet just be honest and say, don't leave folks wondering. I've had it loads and find it's the worst kind of behaviour on here. |
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It’s so frustrating but some folk get everything they want from just the chat and that’s all they are really looking for. It’s such an odd feeling when you get let down because it’s not that it’s something you need or it’s filling a gap that’s missing but it’s such a come down. I hope you aren’t both in too much of a funk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us fellas get it all the time. Shitty behaviour
Best thing to do is start a thread to whine about it.
Hahaha... what a helpful comment  "
Be careful mate, I said the same thing but somehow I'm in the wrong, go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us fellas get it all the time. Shitty behaviour
Best thing to do is start a thread to whine about it.
Hahaha... what a helpful comment
Be careful mate, I said the same thing but somehow I'm in the wrong, go figure "
Crossed communication. You were responding to a comment and I think you were taken as the original commenter.
These things happen.
I think most agree that bring ghosted, stood up etc is not nice for anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
Poor creatures, there is not much worse |
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Sad it happened but their loss, you’re a great looking couple but i suspect the reason was they might not have been a coupe but a guy pretending to be a couple.
He could not go through with it as he would be found out so ghosted you, report like someone else has said and get him kicked off the site |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It’s so frustrating but some folk get everything they want from just the chat and that’s all they are really looking for. It’s such an odd feeling when you get let down because it’s not that it’s something you need or it’s filling a gap that’s missing but it’s such a come down. I hope you aren’t both in too much of a funk."
Your so right xxx it just pissed us off as went to alit of effort to sort family etc but we had a great night together xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's crap when it happens and we have learnt to always have a backup plan. Whether that be a club visit, a social or just going out for a nice meal and a few bottles of wine. It softens the blow when you have invested so much time in chat and reorganising the home life to squeeze a bit of fun time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had exchanged messages and phone numbers to arrange meet, then got ghosted, blocked and blocked on WhatsApp too. Can't win with some couples but it is what it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always wondered about having a backup to planned meets. The only real backup I could consider a replacement would be another meet which isn't reasonable.
But at least OP you had a good night with each other. |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered about having a backup to planned meets. The only real backup I could consider a replacement would be another meet which isn't reasonable.
But at least OP you had a good night with each other. "
Ahh yes we did and yes crazy but true but would it be fair to have two meets xx |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Two in two days here... resulted in a pretty wasted weekend .
I can generally spot them a mile off but what can you do when someone's agreed to a meet?"
Wow we would love to meet you xxxx
I know we normally see them a mile off too !!! |
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
It’s utterly shit. But it’s not a reflection on you, it’ll be their issues not a direct reflection of you as people.
Try and have a good time together instead xx |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
It’s utterly shit. But it’s not a reflection on you, it’ll be their issues not a direct reflection of you as people.
Try and have a good time together instead xx"
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
It’s utterly shit. But it’s not a reflection on you, it’ll be their issues not a direct reflection of you as people.
Try and have a good time together instead xx"
We did on way home xxx more to come tonight xxxxx |
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Got to laugh, just looked at a profile o here, this thread and got blocked just for looking lol, not even dabbed a photo or said anything, but got blocked on a post about being ghosted lol, you cannot make it up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not going to lie, if happens so much. Hence why we only meet in clubs now. If they ghost, we can still enjoy the show or be the show.
We've always had a "fuck it" kind of an attitude about such things. Sometimes even when you do meet in real life. It just doesn't click like it does chatting.
You'll get what you are after. It's a marathon, not a sprint.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always wondered about having a backup to planned meets. The only real backup I could consider a replacement would be another meet which isn't reasonable.
But at least OP you had a good night with each other.
Ahh yes we did and yes crazy but true but would it be fair to have two meets xx"
Not unless you intended to meet both. But generally quality of one would suffer?
Hasnt happened to me in 5 years but anytime I see a post I still remember the way it feels. It's really shitty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
Ahhh, really sorry to hear that, its never fun being ghosted especially when you've put in all of the effort. But it's most definitely their loss, the red lingerie pics are incredible and I'm sure you've made plenty of new friends off the back of this thread.
Onwards and upwards |
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx"
We've been let down on the last 4 meets we've arranged. We only meet at clubs now as we're sick of it! |
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By *oots11 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We arrange a meet up been talking for weeks org everything due to family then they ghost us. Not feeling the love this morming at all
Angel xxx
We've been let down on the last 4 meets we've arranged. We only meet at clubs now as we're sick of it! "
Wow how could you guys be ghosted !!! |
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