It varies I think.
My wife loves anal and can get some intense massive orgasms from it, but it’s built from lots of foreplay from giving her plenty of oral, vibes etc and anal is something that she then wants occasionally.
For me, as a switch I enjoy the dynamic of anal when being pegged or a toy used, where it’s the bdsm power dynamic. Again it’s not just a wham bang it’s teasing, playing and making me horny as part of a bdsm kink scene and anal can feel amazing. Yet to orgasm though from being pegged/toyed etc.
Anal is meant to be seen more as what it is, just another sexual experience such as oral or hand or sex etc enjoy exploration. Lots of lube and communication |
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