Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?
Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!
What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?
Her x |
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I think quantity of veris is not important... a well attended club night or social could generate loads of veris in one hit.
Just being verified is the import thing, maybe if there is a long time passed sunce the last veri, that mighr cause some to wonder. |
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"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?
Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!
What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?
Her x"
No because either they are 1) Very fussy & just won't bonk anything? 2) Is it really that easy to meet unless you go to clubs? |
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"Are you looking to meet or just chat?"
Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol |
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"Are you looking to meet or just chat?
Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"
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Verifications do come into our decision making, but will chat with people we like the look of.
Unfortunately we don't get to play as much as we'd like (work, life etc.) And that does mean we sometimes get left behind by couples we like!
Hey ho, their loss..  |
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While it won't necessarily put me off, I'd be wary of setting a meet as I would assume you're not interested in meeting.
Would probably also want voice or video call confirmation fairly soon due to the number of fake profiles and pic collectors.
I'm not big on veris but they are quite important here.
I wanted to upload a video a wee ago and couldn't. Then wanted to write a veri for someone I knew and had met and couldnt either.
At which point I decided maybe I needed verification after all. It's built into the system here. Just makes life easier on here. |
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"Are you looking to meet or just chat?
Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"
I see your dilemma. |
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"It's judgemental to want assurance that the stranger were meeting is real and hasn't hurt someone? "
Verifications won't stop that...
Just look on those dating sites, been serial daters then flick a switch....  |
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Even your own partner can do that we can be really picky with the people we meet because there is never going to be that assurance that someone is 100 % genuine with there personality so the second we have a vibe from someone we don't like we move on to the next it's not worth the risk in our opinion and it might sound horrible but we use verifications almost like reviews of someone to know if they are genuine in other people's eyes |
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"Even your own partner can do that we can be really picky with the people we meet because there is never going to be that assurance that someone is 100 % genuine with there personality so the second we have a vibe from someone we don't like we move on to the next it's not worth the risk in our opinion and it might sound horrible but we use verifications almost like reviews of someone to know if they are genuine in other people's eyes"
Must be why I don't meet anyone, don't fit my high standards |
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"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?
Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!
What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?
Her x"
100% |
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"Does it put you off talking/meeting someone on here that has been on for quite a while with no verifications?
Although we’ve been here a while we haven’t had many meets due to our ‘free nights’ being very few and far between, we don’t have any verifications and I think it’s starting to put people off talking to us haha!
What’s your opinions? Are verifications the be all and end all?
Her x"
I’m the same so doesn’t bother me at all. People need to remember, that people have life’s. |
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"Are you looking to meet or just chat?
Looking to meet, the issue being we could start chatting and get along with them really well but because we can’t meet at the drop of a hat we end up being forgotten lol"
It's difficult we are the same we have to plan in advance and sometimes that can be a while, if people aren't willing to wait they aren't our people.
The verifications do play a part in us choosing, having none would just probably make us more wary but wouldn't be totally off-putting.
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