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By *wingItOn OP Couple
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
What are the things that rationally or irrationally immediately put you off a profile?
I hate the term, but “gives you the ick” if you like.
Everything seems good, but then…..
Just wondering who else is weird like us 
To start;
Pictures that are really just the woman, on a single guys profile.
You got permission for that mate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads of veris (I realise people go clubs, go on webcam so not necessarily all from fucking - but still puts me off)
Bareback pics with different lads
Women who meet bi guys
Close up pussy pics
Smoking
Spelling mistakes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Action shots like close up ones and that is all they have. Charming I really wanted to see your starfish at 8am hahah or some randoms one at that .
No thought put into their profile, simple is fine but at least say something. |
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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
The phrases:
"I'm in your area" - Maybe you are, its a big area.
"It's ok she knows I'm on here but turns a blind eye" - Maybe, but its not for me.
"Fancy meeting right now" - Unless you're outside the front door that's pretty difficult..
And my absolute least favourite by 10 country miles:
"Do you want an Alpha male" - .... I have no words for that.
J x |
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"Photos taken over a toilet is one of our pet peeves x
Hahah honestly makes me laugh how is that even remotely nice to look at. "
I know we have even seen some where they really need a good clean. We are thinking please look at the photo before posting lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dishonesty , arrogance or entitlement attitude , pics over a toilet or measuring the dick against a random lynx can they probably got as a gift from their grandmother lol , a close up of a open ass , I could go on haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads of veris (I realise people go clubs, go on webcam so not necessarily all from fucking - but still puts me off)
Bareback pics with different lads
Women who meet bi guys
Close up pussy pics
Smoking
Spelling mistakes
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Bit judgemental for a swinging site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No public pics and no veris etc
Agree! And only text being ‘fun’ or ‘fill in later’"
‘Fill in later’ and the profile is more than a year old 
Not a fan of a profile that is just gynaecological-level close up pictures. Makes me appreciate the disdain for dick pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Fill this in later”
On a profile over a year old. With multiple veris. "
This one!! Bareback pics(not on couples profiles obvs), multiple dick pics and nothing else, oh and Sydney University disclaimers  |
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"Cocks with fake glasses on
Boobs with squirty cream on
Dirty hands and feet / nails"
Fucking hipster penii with their fake glasses.
Some cocks need prescription glasses to see and that kind of appropriation for an aesthetic is just not okay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually if its just a rant about fab. Yes we know guys don't read profiles, we know you don't accept friend requests or winks... feel this is standard on here.
Then if they follow with a very specific shopping list of person they are looking for, I get it, but very few will tick all boxes and seems very close minded. |
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For couples- no photos of the man, particularly on profiles where she is the "cold wife" or the cuckqueen supposedly (had a message from one of those profiles lately); photos of just the man; both straight but looking for bisexual woman.
For men- tons of dick pics, particularly oozing cum. All the doms/alpha males who want to "smash all holes" or the opposite, "subs" or "sissies"- just not for me. Photos of various women on the profile. |
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So much....
Couples profiles with an invisible man.
Cock pics.
Feet pics.
Profiles where there's so many people photographed I've no idea whose profile it is.
Close up genital/arse pics.
Dirty backgrounds in pics.
Demanding shouty profiles.
There's probably more.
Mrs |
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A tonne of stuff puts me off. More than interests me, tbh. Some examples, but not all:
- Action shots, especially featuring barebacking.
-Close-up shots of orifices. Doubly bad if they're gaping or seeping. Shots with cum in them in general ick me.
-Anything that suggests lack of hygiene. Dirty fingernails, stained sheets, etc. Some mess I can deal with but dirty, no.
-Any text about pushing/breaking boundaries, mine are there for a reason. Also, use of gross or problematic language (e.g. the T-slur is an instant no.)
-Inconsistencies, like marking themselves as a non-smoker, but they have a cig in hand in a photo. I hate liars.
-If the profile mentions they're cheating. I do respect when folk are actually honest about it, but I nope out of that.
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This is the answer I've given on another thread earlier.
Nothing in a profile puts me off apart from inconsistencies and who they are verified by.
It's when they message out of the blue and include a list of demands in their opening message that I find it offensive.
Someone I've never spoken to before telling me to lose the beard, that I'm too old and too straight to be successful here but if I agree to play bi they will consider putting me on their to-do list for future meets or that they know my profile text is bullshit and unless I book an hotel room and meet them the following night I'll never know what I'm missing out on.
All of the above are turn offs as are those who use the "do you not know who we are and how we can affect your fab journey?" line when I say no. |
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Some of us can't help that, you know? I managed to get one photo uploaded to my Friends gallery and then no more - anywhere. The site won't let me !!!! Plus verifications? Don't you need em to get ?? |
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All of the above are turn offs as are those who use the "do you not know who we are and how we can affect your fab journey?" line when I say no."
Seriously?
I've not heard that one before but well worth keeping in mind for future use! |
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"“Fill this in later”
On a profile over a year old. With multiple veris.
This one!! Bareback pics(not on couples profiles obvs), multiple dick pics and nothing else, oh and Sydney University disclaimers "
You should read our Sydney University message (I won't call it a disclaimer)
What puts us off a profile?
Too many, or all, dick pics.
One line of text. Fill in later, looking for fun Etc.
Text speak. Hi M8 and all that shit.
Anything relating to cock size in the profile name. Big Cock, Huge Dick Etc. The reality is they usually are, and not just between the legs.
Last but not least. Profiles (or messages) that pluralise the word YOU. Yous, yuse, youz are just shit lazy English and puts us right off, or to quote the OP "gives us the ick"
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Anything that hints at the female being a bit of a princess.
As single man - references to loving men wanking over her tits
As a couple with a bi-fem partner looking for other couples - lots of lots of glamourous pics of the lady and almost none of the man, lots of pics of the lady being pleasured by other ladies but none of her doing anything back
Oh and cum filled pussy close-ups....especially over breakfast. |
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"[Removed by poster at 21/10/23 15:51:26]"
Agreed re tongues sticking out. There are also a surprising number of these on conventional dating sites.
They are always of the childish variety, i have yet to see a seductive or mischievous looking tongue out photo. |
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"So much....
Couples profiles with an invisible man.
Cock pics.
Feet pics.
Profiles where there's so many people photographed I've no idea whose profile it is.
Close up genital/arse pics.
Dirty backgrounds in pics.
Demanding shouty profiles.
There's probably more.
Mrs "
You would hate ours it’s full of arse pics  |
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Whinges about the site.
No text at all - apart from the default “I’m a 34 man (other profile types and ages are available) looking for women couples.”
Endless cock pics.
On a single man’s profile - pics that mostly feature the women they’ve fucked with just a finger or an inch of their cock as it slides in. I’m not fucking them, I don’t need to know what they look like.
On couples profiles - not a single glimpse of him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No public pics and no veris etc
How do you get Veris if nobody wants to meet up ? "
You can get verified by going on cam in the chat rooms, or by going to a club/event. |
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"No public pics and no veris etc
How do you get Veris if nobody wants to meet up ? "
Loads of advice of how to get verified, search the forums for 'why can't I get a meet' etc.
It's not actually as hard as people like to think |
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"What are the things that rationally or irrationally immediately put you off a profile?
I hate the term, but “gives you the ick” if you like.
Everything seems good, but then…..
Just wondering who else is weird like us
To start;
Pictures that are really just the woman, on a single guys profile.
You got permission for that mate? "
It's generally not profiles that puts me off people, it's people that put me off people.. |
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"What are the things that rationally or irrationally immediately put you off a profile?
I hate the term, but “gives you the ick” if you like.
Everything seems good, but then…..
Just wondering who else is weird like us
To start;
Pictures that are really just the woman, on a single guys profile.
You got permission for that mate? "
Vids and pics of bareback action with different people and negative or judgemental profiles. Oh and bad spelling! (Gonna quickly check my profile to make sure it's none of these things lol!)  |
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"So much....
Couples profiles with an invisible man.
Cock pics.
Feet pics.
Profiles where there's so many people photographed I've no idea whose profile it is.
Close up genital/arse pics.
Dirty backgrounds in pics.
Demanding shouty profiles.
There's probably more.
Mrs
You would hate ours it’s full of arse pics "
Your safe, bum pics I can handle, held open cheeks with gaping dripping areshole not so much, especially the ones who need some piles removing!
Mrs |
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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago
Tipton |
"No public pics and no veris etc
How do you get Veris if nobody wants to meet up ?
You can get verified by going on cam in the chat rooms, or by going to a club/event. "
Oh thanks for the advice I may just try that well into cam rooms to start off with |
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"So much....
Couples profiles with an invisible man.
Cock pics.
Feet pics.
Profiles where there's so many people photographed I've no idea whose profile it is.
Close up genital/arse pics.
Dirty backgrounds in pics.
Demanding shouty profiles.
There's probably more.
Mrs
You would hate ours it’s full of arse pics
Your safe, bum pics I can handle, held open cheeks with gaping dripping areshole not so much, especially the ones who need some piles removing!
Mrs "
Oh I agree with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Males.. All pics of cock dated 2008
Toilet or bathroom pics
Cock pics no face or all shots of a ladies anas.
In your area
Show a face.. Instant got to like
Not reading profile.. No bareback means no bareback
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"A number of posters have criticised 'bareback' images but condoms are not exactly the most attractive pieces of hard wear.
Unless they are barely discernible (as in one of my public images)."
They're not, but in a context like this I'd much rather see it.
Like, if there's a picture of a hot woman on an active construction site, I still want her in safety gear! |
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"More female pics than male On a male profile
Bareback pics
Veris from people I don’t find attractive
Veris from people cheating/ with bareback pics
“Up for anything” "
Veris from people I don’t find attractive made me howl |
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On a guys profile it’d probably be anything that made me think he had low standards; so playing with people I wouldn’t, going places I wouldn’t etc
In general I don’t like profiles that sneer at others. Do your thing, like what you like but you don’t have to be uppity about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pics and hardly an profile bio! Don’t expect long ones but a little info and a nice little selection of pics of both halves of the couple, is always an instant turn on for us
Mrs also has a really weird thing about fingernails so if she sees pics of fingernails that are really dirty or bitten down really it’s an instant no from her 
Mr |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Loads of veris (I realise people go clubs, go on webcam so not necessarily all from fucking - but still puts me off)
Bareback pics with different lads
Women who meet bi guys
Close up pussy pics
Smoking
Spelling mistakes
Bit judgemental for a swinging site?"
The post is about what puts people off profiles. It’s their personal preference. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
So many things put me off a profile which is a shame at times as I’ve met some lovely people at socials whose profile does them no justice at all.
Smokers - they then say they vape or they’ve given up
Non smokers with pics of them smoking
Single profiles with pics of other people and action shots
Couple profiles where it’s clearly just one person
Single profiles when it’s suddenly a couple looking for a third person
Cock pics
Old pics with no recent pics on profile.
Guys who think they are Doms but clearly don’t have a clue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hehehe funny reading some of these. We probably put off a lot of people too. Can't help it if the Mrs decides to be a blonde and then a brunette 2 days apart and throws in a random photoshoot in at some point.
On the other hand, sometimes feels like being with another woman simply of her ever changing hair styles.
List of things we don't like:
Dick picks
Gaping holes
Dirty surroundings
Lack of pictures and description
Princess behaviour (you really aren't special, get over it)
Demands after demands
Singles pretending to be couples
Probably a lot more to list but majority are just annoyances. |
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