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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone ever regretted having a threesome?
Everyone we speak to (including ourselves) highly recommend it and enjoyed it.
Sure there must be people out there that regretted doing so or it ruined their relationship. But this seems to be the minority? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. Had quite a few and can honestly say all have been lots of fun xx"
We have only had two (with the same guy and four years apart). Disappointed as it was all over so quickly. But def no regret. |
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"Nope. Had quite a few and can honestly say all have been lots of fun xx
We have only had two (with the same guy and four years apart). Disappointed as it was all over so quickly. But def no regret. "
We only play with ladies. All have been fun some were repeat meets some just a one off , but no regrets at all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once, often the man in a couple can be viewed as cuck.. that's not me but this 3sum turned thar way very quickly. The other male took over and even slept in our bed. I went along with it as they were both having alot of fun.
Afterwards I just said never again and I will put a stop to the fun if it's not working for us all. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
Limited experience with threesomes compared to playing with couples, but no regrets for us, all were good experiences. For couples without a lot of experience swapping overall, my recommendation is to avoid "play jealousy" where one person in the couple feels excluded and jealous if their partner and the 3rd party concentrate on each other too much, as this may lead to resentments and regrets.
Instead, communicate beforehand and during play and try for play that involves two focusing on one, then rotate the focus. That will make everyone involved at all times.
And if the 3rd party is bi, and bi play is expected, ensure there's no bias, so this person doesn't join the threesome because fancies one of you and not the other, otherwise the non-fancied of you two will feel isolated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had good and bad ones, some we probably shouldn't have gone through with, but none that have ruined our relationship
Though I'd say anyone who's relationship was ruined probably wouldn't still be on fab! |
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Yes
I met a woman alone on here with her husbands blessing and we had a great time. She was really responsive. We met for a threesome with her husband and he was really jealous of how she responded to me. I’m not a sex god or anything. I just clicked with this particular woman. |
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A long time ago, before MrAbz, had a foursome with another couple.
My ex (bf at the time obvs) was incredibly jealous, furious at me for not being jealous and overall, in the aftermath, it was not great.
0/10 would not recommend if someone is going to react like that
MrsAbz |
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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago
Grimsby |
Never regret some pangs of jealousy at times but that's normal.
For all the fun there is always a little backlash in emotions.
But you have to make them into the fun and positives.
Never regretted one and always look forward to the next. But like any sharing there is emotions involved we are human after all xx |
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By *elshbi2Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
"Limited experience with threesomes compared to playing with couples, but no regrets for us, all were good experiences. For couples without a lot of experience swapping overall, my recommendation is to avoid "play jealousy" where one person in the couple feels excluded and jealous if their partner and the 3rd party concentrate on each other too much, as this may lead to resentments and regrets.
Instead, communicate beforehand and during play and try for play that involves two focusing on one, then rotate the focus. That will make everyone involved at all times.
And if the 3rd party is bi, and bi play is expected, ensure there's no bias, so this person doesn't join the threesome because fancies one of you and not the other, otherwise the non-fancied of you two will feel isolated."
very good advice |
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There probably is many people that regret doing so a quick Google will show on other forums.
I don't think you'll find as many here though, I'd guess those who have regrets probably don't have a profile anymore.
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Years ago as a single I joined a couple for their first one. Everything started well enough, bit of flirting, touching and kissing, all good. She goes down on me, so far all good, takes it out and strokes it, still good, puts it to her mouth, the second her lips touched me he just shouted out "No", and that was that. They asked if I would mind leaving and of course got my stuff together and went. A dropped them a message when I got home just to check they were both okay. Got a reply saying "we will be" and that was it, profile was deleted the same night and have never heard from them again.
It was the fella who wanted it to happen, his wife was open and up for it, but clearly the fantasy was better than the reality for them. |
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"We haven't ever regretted the moresome but afterwards we have had our chat about it and felt that one of us has been left out a bit which meant they didn't enjoy it as much."
This is what happened to us.we me a cpl we knew from socials. Mrs was getting on well with her whilst us guys watched.then when we joined in. Joanne was getting on well with her Mr and I thought I was with his. Did not go as planned. They want to meet again at some point but for me her disrespect is enough for a hard pass off me and the Mrs. |
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We had one guy a couple of years ago now
He insisted he could fist my wife when we told him several times we don’t do fisting!!
He kept going on about how he does it
It doesn’t hurt
He was shocked when we ended the meet because he didn’t listen
That was the only 3 sum we regretted |
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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago
watford |
"A long time ago, before MrAbz, had a foursome with another couple.
My ex (bf at the time obvs) was incredibly jealous, furious at me for not being jealous and overall, in the aftermath, it was not great.
0/10 would not recommend if someone is going to react like that
MrsAbz "
Yes jealously can be a huge prob
But I'm lucky, lee was very confident. He's 6ft4with a good body and cock |
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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago
watford |
"Years ago as a single I joined a couple for their first one. Everything started well enough, bit of flirting, touching and kissing, all good. She goes down on me, so far all good, takes it out and strokes it, still good, puts it to her mouth, the second her lips touched me he just shouted out "No", and that was that. They asked if I would mind leaving and of course got my stuff together and went. A dropped them a message when I got home just to check they were both okay. Got a reply saying "we will be" and that was it, profile was deleted the same night and have never heard from them again.
It was the fella who wanted it to happen, his wife was open and up for it, but clearly the fantasy was better than the reality for them. "
We found that with a few cples. The man initially made it happen, but on the night he got jealous qnd ended it |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Has anyone ever regretted having a threesome?
Everyone we speak to (including ourselves) highly recommend it and enjoyed it.
Sure there must be people out there that regretted doing so or it ruined their relationship. But this seems to be the minority? "
We have had plenty, both MFM and MFF, but had even moresomes too. Some have been better than others, but most have been very, very good and (as the F) I haven't regretted a single one. My partner feels the same. |
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By *amJPMan
over a year ago
London |
"Has anyone ever regretted having a threesome?
Everyone we speak to (including ourselves) highly recommend it and enjoyed it.
Sure there must be people out there that regretted doing so or it ruined their relationship. But this seems to be the minority? "
Done it 3 times with different people + a 4sum. Always good fun. Obviously people were selected for those moments. To make sure fun, respect, safe environment x |
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"We've had good and bad ones, some we probably shouldn't have gone through with, but none that have ruined our relationship
Though I'd say anyone who's relationship was ruined probably wouldn't still be on fab!"
The irony the user is no longer on the site is not lost on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First ever 3 sum I was too arroused and came very quickly. Thought I had blown ot literally. But they put on a bit of a show, and the voyeur in me came to the fore....was invited to pleasure her while he watched...must have been ok cos we played several times after that. |
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"Yes
I met a woman alone on here with her husbands blessing and we had a great time. She was really responsive. We met for a threesome with her husband and he was really jealous of how she responded to me. I’m not a sex god or anything. I just clicked with this particular woman. "
I bet that must have slightly uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone ever regretted having a threesome?
Everyone we speak to (including ourselves) highly recommend it and enjoyed it.
Sure there must be people out there that regretted doing so or it ruined their relationship. But this seems to be the minority? "
Whats to regret. Everytime has been amazing, especially the ffm's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had good and bad ones, some we probably shouldn't have gone through with, but none that have ruined our relationship
Though I'd say anyone who's relationship was ruined probably wouldn't still be on fab!"
And your no longer on fab! Amazing  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Has anyone ever regretted having a threesome?
Everyone we speak to (including ourselves) highly recommend it and enjoyed it.
Sure there must be people out there that regretted doing so or it ruined their relationship. But this seems to be the minority? "
Most 3somes have been great, but when you been swinging as long as I have, there will have been some times which where not good ones.
Worst one was when the hubby couldnt get it up and started to scream at his wife while we where fucking. I stopped (as you do) and the wife went ballistic at him slagging him off and telling him it was his idea in the 1st place, then turned to me and said carry on then. I did not know what to do, looked at a almost crying hubby who told me to do as she say, but all this kinda put me off and I made my excuses and left. As I was leaving they where in the midst of a fucking big argument.
As you can guess, I never saw them again. |
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