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"We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol"
I mean, by definition, a bi couple would have the same interests as a straight couple (unless they're only looking for bi couples). |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol
I mean, by definition, a bi couple would have the same interests as a straight couple (unless they're only looking for bi couples)."
Yeah, literally the only way a straight couples interests wouldn’t align with a bi couples interests is if the bi couple only meet other bi couples…off the top of my head I can’t think of anything that a bi couple can do with another bi couple but can’t do with a straight couple other than being bi.
I think OP has made the mistake of assuming that someone who’s bi is only interested in meets if they’re able to be sexual with both males and females and has failed to realise that someone who’s bi might be happy to meet and only be sexual with the opposite sex.
It’s as nonsensical as a single straight person saying that they find it difficult to find anyone to meet as everyone else is bi…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be fair most bi couples say that there looking for ff play, and given that bi couples are still asking for this even though you put straight on your profile can be a little nerving. while we dont rule out bi couples it does make us more wary. |
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We're both straight and there are quite a few straight couples on fab.
We no longer meet couples where one or both is bi. We fully understand that many are happy with straight play but after a couple of less than pleasant experiences we find it easier not to |
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"to be fair most bi couples say that there looking for ff play, and given that bi couples are still asking for this even though you put straight on your profile can be a little nerving. while we dont rule out bi couples it does make us more wary. "
Very hot sexy intelligent attitude and input and some good words for thought
the forum does tend to attract intelligent people |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"And what’s the issue if one is bi or both is bi?
Many bi couples also play with straight couples.
Bi certainly does mean both ways
I think its gay that draws the line "
What line does gay draw? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol"
Wete both totally straight |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol
Wete both totally straight"
Is ‘totally straight’ more straight than just straight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol
Wete both totally straight
Is ‘totally straight’ more straight than just straight?"
On here yes definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our experience of Bi couples is poor. Regardless of boundaries discussed seconds before entering a room an overwhelming majority of women will make a dive for Penny. Bi men in couples on the other hand respect the boundaries impeccably. It's the women letting the side down on this one which is why we are happy to play with bi-male couples but will only play with bi-female couples if Penny wants to enjoy a little lady time which is rare. |
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There rarely seems a problem with bi guy couples when with a straight couple. We're a bi fem couple and never had a problem with any bi guys not completely respecting our boundaries.
It would seem the problem for is where some couples keep pushing for woman on woman action (often the both of them). There is a problem on the scene I think where some people just can't fully accept that a woman is not at the very least a little bi-curious. That they protest too much but can be turned. This can be mixed with a powerful drive for a desire to have woman on woman action that means some couples may prioritise their own gratification over the know stated boundaries of the other women. Not (I sincerely hope) they wouldn't stop when told no (and sometimes their actions/vibe is subconscious). However it no doubt give straight couples the major ick when a couple keeps hinting and trying it on for woman on woman action or just keeps giving off that despwrate vibe (one or both of them). I can imagine that puts a real damper on things and would lead to straight couples only looking for straight couples.
As a bi fem couple we see all the time the drive for fem on fem action. It's seems almost the law. But its not the law to us. It's about attraction and boundaries, simple. We've had times where we've effectively just same room swapped, no fem on fem action. Not because the couples have been straight (sometimes they've been both bi) but because that they way it flowed and gone down. Contrary to popular belief a lot of bi woman don't want to be with every woman that comes their way or are particularly hungry for other women. Likewise not all guys in a couple are insanely driven to see their woman with another woman. Some of us just like to go see what we find and let things flow naturally. |
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As a bi fem couple I can assure you I'm not attracted to every women, there's no need to worry there.
Plus FF play while the guys watch isn't for me, I'm not into putting on a show for anyone.
Just saying don't rule out bi couples not all of us are interested in playing with the same gender everytime.
As long as it's all clear from the outset I don't see any issues.
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol"
You do not look deep enough.
But you are right. Majority of couples here wants “girls experience” and not really full partner swap. |
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"As a bi fem couple I can assure you I'm not attracted to every women, there's no need to worry there.
Plus FF play while the guys watch isn't for me, I'm not into putting on a show for anyone.
Just saying don't rule out bi couples not all of us are interested in playing with the same gender everytime.
As long as it's all clear from the outset I don't see any issues.
Mrs "
Totally agree. The trouble is some couples say whatever they think the couple wants to hear to get them to the bedroom. It's sometimes only down the line the hints, pressure and trying it on happens.
I think there's an element of experience and spidy senses to spotting red flags and picking a couple you won't have problems with. However I imagine there's straight couples out there who have found themselves is a situation with bi couples despite the couple saying all the right things and giving the right signals early on. So I understand the logic of sticking to strictly straight couples. Once bitten twice shy I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol
Wete both totally straight
Is ‘totally straight’ more straight than just straight?
On here yes definitely "
on here you seem to get "fab straight" which seems to mean dabbles in the heat of the moment, totally straight which is kind of self explanatory, "straight" but doesnt want to announce their curious as it puts some of and they dont want to limit there options and probably a few other versions we haven't seen yet.
to say everyone values "open and honesty" within swinging theres alot of grey areas but i guess thats what happens when things can be fluid with sexuality |
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"Our experience of Bi couples is poor. Regardless of boundaries discussed seconds before entering a room an overwhelming majority of women will make a dive for Penny. Bi men in couples on the other hand respect the boundaries impeccably. It's the women letting the side down on this one which is why we are happy to play with bi-male couples but will only play with bi-female couples if Penny wants to enjoy a little lady time which is rare."
That’s because men tend to react with violence and women don’t . |
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'Dabbles in the heat of the moment' ... love it LOL! Great description for ducks of both sexes.
As to the other posts i agree that if lines are drawn then ducks shouldn't dabble. Nice to hear a few nice things about single chaps for once - i.e. not crossing the lines. I'm sure there are just as many well behaved ladies though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone didn’t want to meet us because I have bi curious as my sexual preference (Mrs) then it’s entirely up to them I don’t get why some get offended by complete strangers preferences.
I wouldn’t want to meet or persuade anyone who doesn’t match with me. The same goes why we are only looking to meet single straight men. Everyone has their own preferences and choice’s |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
"Our experience of Bi couples is poor. Regardless of boundaries discussed seconds before entering a room an overwhelming majority of women will make a dive for Penny. Bi men in couples on the other hand respect the boundaries impeccably. It's the women letting the side down on this one which is why we are happy to play with bi-male couples but will only play with bi-female couples if Penny wants to enjoy a little lady time which is rare."
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I think what ever you're looking for on here it's always going to be tricky... we initially only played with couples when we first found here over a decade ago however quickly found that often the bi female wasn't overly bi, making it a bit of a show for her fella 
Also finding a 4 that all click isn't the easiest either  |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
Yes straight couples are rare...we're straight, have played with couples where the lady is bi...but no longer entertain it due to most of the bi ladies being a pain in the arse.
We're always straight to the point about being straight, but I still get badgered into playing bi...not to mention the never ending shit show of wife snatching that goes on has soured me to the point we'll only entertain straight couples now.
If I had a penny for every bi couple who says the lady will play straight...
It now means we've less couple options, so it's even harder...but we're good with that.
Mrs M |
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"As a bi fem couple I can assure you I'm not attracted to every women, there's no need to worry there.
Plus FF play while the guys watch isn't for me, I'm not into putting on a show for anyone.
Just saying don't rule out bi couples not all of us are interested in playing with the same gender everytime.
As long as it's all clear from the outset I don't see any issues.
Mrs
Totally agree. The trouble is some couples say whatever they think the couple wants to hear to get them to the bedroom. It's sometimes only down the line the hints, pressure and trying it on happens.
I think there's an element of experience and spidy senses to spotting red flags and picking a couple you won't have problems with. However I imagine there's straight couples out there who have found themselves is a situation with bi couples despite the couple saying all the right things and giving the right signals early on. So I understand the logic of sticking to strictly straight couples. Once bitten twice shy I guess.
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Yeah I've heard the stories of women trying to push the straight women to play which is just embarrassing on their part and totally wrong, if it was aan doing that it would be a totally different conversation.
I always do find it slightly amusing that women assume I want to sleep with them, I don't think any straight person wants to sleep with everyone of the opposite sex, neither do I.
Plus I don't need to lie to get someone in bed, I like what I like there's no changing that, in a couples scenario the woman is of least interest to me, it's probably more off-putting than anything else, I'm not a performer.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There rarely seems a problem with bi guy couples when with a straight couple. We're a bi fem couple and never had a problem with any bi guys not completely respecting our boundaries.
It would seem the problem for is where some couples keep pushing for woman on woman action (often the both of them). There is a problem on the scene I think where some people just can't fully accept that a woman is not at the very least a little bi-curious. That they protest too much but can be turned. This can be mixed with a powerful drive for a desire to have woman on woman action that means some couples may prioritise their own gratification over the know stated boundaries of the other women. Not (I sincerely hope) they wouldn't stop when told no (and sometimes their actions/vibe is subconscious). However it no doubt give straight couples the major ick when a couple keeps hinting and trying it on for woman on woman action or just keeps giving off that despwrate vibe (one or both of them). I can imagine that puts a real damper on things and would lead to straight couples only looking for straight couples.
As a bi fem couple we see all the time the drive for fem on fem action. It's seems almost the law. But its not the law to us. It's about attraction and boundaries, simple. We've had times where we've effectively just same room swapped, no fem on fem action. Not because the couples have been straight (sometimes they've been both bi) but because that they way it flowed and gone down. Contrary to popular belief a lot of bi woman don't want to be with every woman that comes their way or are particularly hungry for other women. Likewise not all guys in a couple are insanely driven to see their woman with another woman. Some of us just like to go see what we find and let things flow naturally."
I am jot in a couple obviously but this 100% |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
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"I think what ever you're looking for on here it's always going to be tricky... we initially only played with couples when we first found here over a decade ago however quickly found that often the bi female wasn't overly bi, making it a bit of a show for her fella
Also finding a 4 that all click isn't the easiest either "
That’s the biggest put off for us in a play.
What’s the fun in watching bi fem, don’t get it.
It’s better if all four in one bed.
I guess some men gets erection only after watching two women play.
I have no reservation about genuine bisexual ladies or gents though. |
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I'm straight & half a couple, finding couples who what to play straight can be hard, especially when it's girl on girl.
We don't mind couples with bi fems as long as they're not slyly after fems playing.
We've made it clear I'm straight when chatting to couples in the past & been told she can turn me bi, she absolutely can't.
Or then they've said well will you still kiss her or play with her, no again I'm straight. That kind of thing really puts me right off & we stop chatting as they can't quite understand our boundaries,so probably wouldn't in real life.
I've seen quite a few bi profiles sat they wouldn't meet straight couples too, so it works both ways I think.
When you do finally find a couple who you're compatible with, it's then tough getting the 4 way attraction. That's why my partner and I kept our single profiles, it's not easy finding couples to meet. |
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I think even as a bi fem couple we're dubious of profiles that say stuff like looking to explore Mrs bi side or looking for women/unicorn/bi fam couples only or want to watch Mrs with another woman etc. I think we all know the vibe. Not that it's not a perfectly legitimate desire or request. We're all on here to find what we desire. And depending on the couple Mrs may indeed find desire for the both of them if we'd met in person. However to us it triggers concerns that the fem on fem thing will be pushed even if the chemistry isn't right, or Mrs is seen as more of a play toy to experiment with or that guys are second fiddle, not equal participants. For us that holds no intrest. Chemistry and natural flow is important to us so a couple who seem fixated on must have fem on fem action happening is a potential red flag. Bi fem/straight fem couple, no difference, we just want hot encounters with the right people that works for everyone, that's the only objective. |
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"Our experience of Bi couples is poor. Regardless of boundaries discussed seconds before entering a room an overwhelming majority of women will make a dive for Penny. Bi men in couples on the other hand respect the boundaries impeccably. It's the women letting the side down on this one which is why we are happy to play with bi-male couples but will only play with bi-female couples if Penny wants to enjoy a little lady time which is rare."
That's our experience too. One woman in particular got very annoyed with me when I told her I was straight twice. She said words to the effect that I didn't need to go on about it. Minutes later she made a lunge for me  |
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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago
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We find if they are bi couples even if you say your straight they always try to push further.
Obviously not everyone but always think they can change your mind for you.
Not usually blokes but girl on girl always pushed for even if say won't.
Doesn't phase us now as its our limits and if the keep going down that route we'd simply stop.
J has played with women and decided not for her. She will very soft play with a woman and does.
We always make it clear our limits and ask partners to give us theirs and then it works even if they try to nudge boundaries lol. Xx |
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol"
Yes it seems that way.
It limits our search options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think what ever you're looking for on here it's always going to be tricky... we initially only played with couples when we first found here over a decade ago however quickly found that often the bi female wasn't overly bi, making it a bit of a show for her fella
Also finding a 4 that all click isn't the easiest either
That’s the biggest put off for us in a play.
What’s the fun in watching bi fem, don’t get it.
It’s better if all four in one bed.
I guess some men gets erection only after watching two women play.
I have no reservation about genuine bisexual ladies or gents though. "
Totally agree. Not interested in putting on a show for the men!
So sorry to hear about bi females being pushing. Feel I should say we are not all like that and sad to hear the bad experiences. How anyone can not respect boundaries I don’t know! |
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"I'm straight & half a couple, finding couples who what to play straight can be hard, especially when it's girl on girl.
We don't mind couples with bi fems as long as they're not slyly after fems playing.
We've made it clear I'm straight when chatting to couples in the past & been told she can turn me bi, she absolutely can't.
Or then they've said well will you still kiss her or play with her, no again I'm straight. That kind of thing really puts me right off & we stop chatting as they can't quite understand our boundaries,so probably wouldn't in real life.
I've seen quite a few bi profiles sat they wouldn't meet straight couples too, so it works both ways I think.
When you do finally find a couple who you're compatible with, it's then tough getting the 4 way attraction. That's why my partner and I kept our single profiles, it's not easy finding couples to meet. "
Agree 4 way attraction is hard! |
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"Is this the rarest combination on Fab ?
We are both straight but don't tend to find many other couples with the same interest lol
Wete both totally straight
Is ‘totally straight’ more straight than just straight?"
Yeh its not just straight its totally straight. |
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