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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As someone who's ex partner had a secret singles account on here for 5 months of our relationship I definitely care. For me swinging is about ETHICAL non monogamy. "
Can’t agree more. If it’s not ENM it’s not swinging to me it’s just cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As someone who's ex partner had a secret singles account on here for 5 months of our relationship I definitely care. For me swinging is about ETHICAL non monogamy. "
We’re you on here at the same time or once you found out about him on here did you decide to join? |
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"We’re you on here at the same time or once you found out about him on here did you decide to join?"
I joined as a single once we broke up. ENM is about trust and there's none of that when they're fucking around behind your back. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
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I'm NOT cheating, but there are some who still consider I am.
And that is there right to do so.
So it's a win-no win situation for me really.
If you to in similar situation honest or not.
Say hello pls
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I do think some think this is fabethicalnonmonogamy rather than fabswinging. ENM overlaps with swinging but really doesn’t have to be the same thing. Apart from anything else ethics are subjective and mean different things to different people. Any swinger who goes to a club or party is quite likely to bump into somebody there without partner’s knowledge. And if you join in group play rooms, glory holes, just a pile of bodies on the bed at a party, etc you have no idea. Would also say a large chunk of single females meeting one on one have partners and meeting secretly - it’s just they tend to hide it better than men and people are naturally less suspicious  |
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