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By *asyuk OP Man
over a year ago
West London |
I prefer an ongoing one night stand
Quite a sexy article though:
https://www.vogue.com/article/a-case-for-the-one-night-stand
Without the expectation of a long-term relationship you can be far more intimate and far more adventurous.
Perhaps that's why we're all here?  |
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over a year ago
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"I prefer an ongoing one night stand
Quite a sexy article though:
https://www.vogue.com/article/a-case-for-the-one-night-stand
Without the expectation of a long-term relationship you can be far more intimate and far more adventurous.
Perhaps that's why we're all here? "
I prefer a FWB, connection grows and the sex gets a lot better without the fear of “what are we” and the emotions ruining it |
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If the only way for someone to make a genuine human connection and be themselves is to think of it as a fleeting one off, that seems a little sad.
I didn't read the whole thing. I lost the will to live around Otley. Maybe it makes more sense if you read the whole thing. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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if you want no attachments whatsoever 1 and done is all you require.
its about getting your head right first and knowing what you actually want. some people want a repeat, others like to move on.
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A bit hit n miss in my experience over the years (mainly experience of one night stands on nights out/holidays). You really don't know how someone will be and how easy you both flow together until you get into bed together. Had some awesome ones and some mediocre ones. Had some really surprising awesome ones (sometimes it's the women you least expect) and some a bit not up to expectations. But all good fun. I love the excitement undressing someone new for the first time and anticipation for what they'll be like. I love variety, I love getting to experience different women. Just the pure enjoyment of something that is completely of that time and space without the pressure of looking beyond that time and space.
I also agree there can be certain freedom to a one night stand. Providing there a feeling of mutual trust. You can be someone else, do something different or new in that time and space. Without worry too much of the rejection or judgment of someone important or potentially important to you. Without thinking too much about its consequences going forward (as long as you use protection mind  ). Some of the wildest sex I've had has been one night stand. I think partly because of this aspect.
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"I prefer an ongoing one night stand
Quite a sexy article though:
https://www.vogue.com/article/a-case-for-the-one-night-stand
Without the expectation of a long-term relationship you can be far more intimate and far more adventurous.
Perhaps that's why we're all here? "
No idea, as I've never had a one-night stand  |
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By *asyuk OP Man
over a year ago
West London |
"I prefer an ongoing one night stand
Quite a sexy article though:
https://www.vogue.com/article/a-case-for-the-one-night-stand
Without the expectation of a long-term relationship you can be far more intimate and far more adventurous.
Perhaps that's why we're all here?
I prefer a FWB, connection grows and the sex gets a lot better without the fear of “what are we” and the emotions ruining it "
That's what I meant by "on-going" as opposed to the article.
It's not one off but it is also not as frequent as an fwb relationship due to...life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a fair few one night stands, some have went on to be fuck buddys or friends with benefits.
Love the idea of meeting someone in a pub or somewhere and going home with them for the 1st time |
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By *asyuk OP Man
over a year ago
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"If the only way for someone to make a genuine human connection and be themselves is to think of it as a fleeting one off, that seems a little sad.
I didn't read the whole thing. I lost the will to live around Otley. Maybe it makes more sense if you read the whole thing."
The sense of it was more about being willing to share more and more quickly than with someone you are assessing/interviewing (which you are doing subconsciously) for a long term relationship.
It is a different connection, I suppose. Intense and brief rather than long and deep and multi-faceted. |
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By *asyuk OP Man
over a year ago
West London |
"if you want no attachments whatsoever 1 and done is all you require.
its about getting your head right first and knowing what you actually want. some people want a repeat, others like to move on.
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It's surprising to me how few people do this, but people are people. |
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By *asyuk OP Man
over a year ago
West London |
"A bit hit n miss in my experience over the years (mainly experience of one night stands on nights out/holidays). You really don't know how someone will be and how easy you both flow together until you get into bed together. Had some awesome ones and some mediocre ones. Had some really surprising awesome ones (sometimes it's the women you least expect) and some a bit not up to expectations. But all good fun. I love the excitement undressing someone new for the first time and anticipation for what they'll be like. I love variety, I love getting to experience different women. Just the pure enjoyment of something that is completely of that time and space without the pressure of looking beyond that time and space.
I also agree there can be certain freedom to a one night stand. Providing there a feeling of mutual trust. You can be someone else, do something different or new in that time and space. Without worry too much of the rejection or judgment of someone important or potentially important to you. Without thinking too much about its consequences going forward (as long as you use protection mind ). Some of the wildest sex I've had has been one night stand. I think partly because of this aspect.
Mr"
I think that's well articulated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer an ongoing one night stand
Quite a sexy article though:
https://www.vogue.com/article/a-case-for-the-one-night-stand
Without the expectation of a long-term relationship you can be far more intimate and far more adventurous.
Perhaps that's why we're all here? "
No, we're all here for different reasons. I'm here to make friends for regular fun  |
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hence one night 
