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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.
I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty vocal...my buddy used to throw cushions on my face to shut me if we stayed somewhere  "
You see vocal as in moaning that is very natural to me and comes easy but using actual words saying things I know he wished I would say that's the part I struggle with |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Although my husband told me I was vocal during sex I always thought I was quiet while fucking, but some of the movies we've made of me fucking another guy (or guys) since we started swinging proves that he was right and I was wrong.! |
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"I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.
I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.
Mrs "
If the man does his part I scream the place down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.
I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.
Mrs
If the man does his part I scream the place down."
Oh I scream and moan not a problem but the verbal that he wants that is what is a problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I absolutely love Mrs making noises when she's enjoying herself, from moans while shes sucking cock to an screaming when she's getting fucked. "
Yes but what about actually been verbal saying words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty vocal unless I'm gagged, I think start by when he does something you really like tell him your enjoying it, it doesn't have to sound forced or cheesy, maybes start be simple words like "I love when you touch me like that"! Then see how it progresses |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm pretty vocal unless I'm gagged, I think start by when he does something you really like tell him your enjoying it, it doesn't have to sound forced or cheesy, maybes start be simple words like "I love when you touch me like that"! Then see how it progresses "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Do you know what you would like to say, or your partner would like to hear?
There’s nothing stopping you practicing saying these things when you are alone…and the more you practice saying them, the less stupid they will sound as you become more used to it, and the more comfortable you’ll feel saying them in the heat of the moment.
Of course, if you don’t want to say anything then don’t!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been told I moan and I’m very vocal during sex. I don’t even notice that I’m doing it Just comes naturally. I wouldn’t try and force anything just enjoy |
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Fairly vocal I think, usually moans, oh god/yes/fuck and sometimes verbal - that feels good don't stop etc. In terms of actual dirty talk less so. I find it hard, usually say something very cringy and then end up with the giggles. |
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My wife is very quite, very really moans let alone says sexy things like fuck me etc, even when I fuck her really hard she doesn’t moan!! Even thou she does cum, everyone is different. I wash she made more noise!! |
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"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"
If he's going down on you, you could grip his hair and hold him in place if it was something you liked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?
If he's going down on you, you could grip his hair and hold him in place if it was something you liked"
Yeah I do that any way but he wants me to express verbally what I want |
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Absolutely love Women being vocal/dirty talking either with me or solo play and I won't watch porn without audio, But as much as I love it, Its my Achilles heel and can at times send me over the edge before I want to finish |
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"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"
Are you vocal when playing alone ?
You could practice when no one is around, Shut your eyes imagine he is fucking you and start by saying things in your head, keep describing it until you're saying it out loud, Don't know what your partner wants to hear but keep it simple,
Fuck me harder, I want you to make me cum etc |
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By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago
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"but how do i tell my man or any guy what i want because other than general noise and moans im basically mute and cant express what i want?"
Tell them how they feel inside you, tell them how you feel about them at that very moment and it usually just goes from there for me   |
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"I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.
I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.
Mrs "
I'm not vocal at all during sex. Trained myself so parents didn't hear lol. Unfortunately some guys think I'm not enjoying myself because I'm so quiet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh the sex is great, but he has to guess what i'm wanting as i struggle to say"
Try not to put yourself under pressure.
Start in a small way, tell him it feels good, that you want it faster, harder, slower.
Ask him to go down on you.
Small steps and it will get easier x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well last night i was able to get out little bits last night about what i wanted in between orgasms and moans, and what a reaction. lets just say its a good job we have waterproof sheets! |
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"It absolutely depends on the partner & how relaxed I am also how much I'm enjoying it.
I won't fake it so sometimes I'm quiet others very loud 
Mrs"
Fake verbal and moaning is the awful and so obvious. “yeah yeahhhh yeahhhhhhh.” Ohhhhh go and get us a drink! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It absolutely depends on the partner & how relaxed I am also how much I'm enjoying it.
I won't fake it so sometimes I'm quiet others very loud
Mrs
Fake verbal and moaning is the awful and so obvious. “yeah yeahhhh yeahhhhhhh.” Ohhhhh go and get us a drink!"
no point faking things, otherwise you just repeat bad experiences. luckily not had this problem, more just a mental block on saying what i want rather than my fella having to judge from my body |
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"I have always struggled been vocal when it comes to sex to many bad experiences in my past. However my man loves it. I will try and say things during sex but honestly I always feel like it sounds stupid. Anyone else struggle with this. Any ladies that have overcome this that can give me some pointers.
I enjoy sex just don't feel like I am very good at it.
Mrs "
As Mr said I can be very noisy when lost in the moment but also vocal too. Sometime very dirty talk and sometimes just a "mmmm that feels great". I'd suggested starting with something like words of appreciation to get used to talking during sex, like "that feels amazing" it may not be what your partner is after but then you can slowly build "fuck your cock feels incredible stretching my pussy" or whatever the activity, to then build to real filth or instructions like "fuck me harder" etc or whatever turns him on. Work on eye contact as well maybe as that always helps me, if I can have eye contact with someone I can be more vocal without it feeling awkward. Hope some of that helps. Mrs |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"well last night i was able to get out little bits last night about what i wanted in between orgasms and moans, and what a reaction. lets just say its a good job we have waterproof sheets!"
That’s great! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs A is very loud. We are wandering how much our neighbours can hear and it's probably quite a lot  "
To be fair we have had our neighbours banging on the wall because we were been to loud before. |
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"Fairly vocal I think, usually moans, oh god/yes/fuck and sometimes verbal - that feels good don't stop etc. In terms of actual dirty talk less so. I find it hard, usually say something very cringy and then end up with the giggles. "
Can confirm that there is a sweet spot at a specific angle that makes Mrs get very vocal
Words, not as much, sometimes she will direct me to 'stay there, keep doing that' so I know not to change up.
Occasionally she will talk about meets if we have come home from a club, or have a meet planned to try and rile me up |
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