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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you get to meet woman for good sex on this site. I have now been looking for over 2 weeks now and have only had 3 replies from guys? There must be hundreads of you online every day saying that you are horny. Im a good looking guy, im clean, discreet can accommodate or travel. I have a decent body and cock and can hold a conversation. Nothing, nada zilch...what the hell are you really after and how do you get verified if you get no replies and have never met on the site. Wont reply if you are not verified....WTF. How does that work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first and very common misunderstanding is thinking this is a sex site. Swinging is a bit more than just nsa sex, although that does happen.
Second, you need to understand there are far more men than women so standing out is very difficult, just like in real life really.
Third, don't go for the easy route of spamming every result with a copy paste message. Spend time reading a profile and only message if you think you will click.
Fourth, if its a no or delete just move on. No one will like a nasty message back.
Fith, hit the socials and clubs
Happy fabbing 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you get to meet woman for good sex on this site. I have now been looking for over 2 weeks now and have only had 3 replies from guys? There must be hundreads of you online every day saying that you are horny. Im a good looking guy, im clean, discreet can accommodate or travel. I have a decent body and cock and can hold a conversation. Nothing, nada zilch...what the hell are you really after and how do you get verified if you get no replies and have never met on the site. Wont reply if you are not verified....WTF. How does that work?"
Why are you messaging men?
If a woman is horny should she meet every man who offers a fuck?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe i was wrong by saying just looking for good sex. Im looking to meet people , there has to be chemistry so would rather chat and or meet socially to see there is an atraction first. I dont want to sleep with everyone on the site and using the site was a way of getting to meet someone without the long drawn out process of normal dating sites which ive never used. Im a year out if a long term relationship and just looking to meet the opposite sex but not one reply. For example you are the first person that has chatted and for that i thank you. But what do woman really want? I read their bio's and think i tick all your boxes....send a personal message which is generally more than hi nice tits.....nothing. deleted read or still sitting unread ....another week and i will give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Outsider. Why am i messaging men?
I thought my bio says single gentleman seeks woman. I seek woman?"
In your first post you said you have replies from 3 men.
If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to.
Perhaps look in the Meets section for social events. Good ways to meet new people.
Women can get 100's of messages from men. Your nice message may be lost in the pile.
Or maybe they looked at your profile and weren't attracted.
I don't fancy Brad Pitt but he's learning to live with it.. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe i was wrong by saying just looking for good sex. Im looking to meet people , there has to be chemistry so would rather chat and or meet socially to see there is an atraction first. I dont want to sleep with everyone on the site and using the site was a way of getting to meet someone without the long drawn out process of normal dating sites which ive never used. Im a year out if a long term relationship and just looking to meet the opposite sex but not one reply. For example you are the first person that has chatted and for that i thank you. But what do woman really want? I read their bio's and think i tick all your boxes....send a personal message which is generally more than hi nice tits.....nothing. deleted read or still sitting unread ....another week and i will give up"
Then you will be giving up OP. There are far better ways of meeting other swingers than sending messages to join all the other messages sent every day to women on Fab . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you get to meet woman for good sex on this site. I have now been looking for over 2 weeks now and have only had 3 replies from guys? There must be hundreads of you online every day saying that you are horny. Im a good looking guy, im clean, discreet can accommodate or travel. I have a decent body and cock and can hold a conversation. Nothing, nada zilch...what the hell are you really after and how do you get verified if you get no replies and have never met on the site. Wont reply if you are not verified....WTF. How does that work?"
A whole two weeks  |
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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago
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First and for most .. even though we are horny.. we still have standards and just because we are horny doesn’t mean we’re going to jump on the first dick that gets sent to our inbox
Block males from messaging you..maybe get your self involved in the forums a bit - that can generate a bit of interest x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi sorry i had to go out...work earlier. A girl from kirkwall posted a reply then must have deleted. She wanted to chat. Sorry i did not reply immediately? If you are still there? |
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Look at the many several posts from single men who struggle to get a reply and meets, picking up on any advice that may be relevant.
Many of us are looking for single men but will need them to give us more than the absolute minimum, to be able to guage attraction to him and compatibility. A range of pics lets us know if he's attractive. On Fab, men have to sell themselves really well. |
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"Hi sorry i had to go out...work earlier. A girl from kirkwall posted a reply then must have deleted. She wanted to chat. Sorry i did not reply immediately? If you are still there?"
No one on this thread so far deleted anything.
If your meaning private message she could not delete your copy of the message only way that can happen is if she deleted her profile and left the site then all message history gets deleted. |
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