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"Why do you want to squirt?" To see how it feels and whether it’s more intense than a normal orgasm. I feel it’s possible but it’s just not happening for some reason. | |||
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"Why do you want to squirt?" I imagine because it's something they want to experience? I've no advice really though. I only do it when I'm really turned on and relaxed. Try not to try too hard and go with the flow! Good luck experimenting op x | |||
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue. She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles. | |||
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom?
On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue.
She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles."Sounds like you are a pro? Do you squirt? | |||
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"Squirting I hear is just pee? But I’m still open minded" Very different | |||
"Middle two fingers hooked up towards the front, not to deep and definitely not to fast works for me most times. " Finds her g-spot, feels like a rough textured area on the wall on my wife. Gets her squirting, so different from her peeing | |||
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom?
On You Tube there are lots of information what squirt is and how to make it. First thing you have to wake up woman's nervous system - very long foreplay, you have also learn technique how to play with fingers and your tongue.
She needs to be very well hydrated. Good thing is if she has a strong pelvic floor, for that she needs to exercise and know how to work with her internal muscles.
Sounds like you are a pro?
Do you squirt? "Come and try   | |||
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"I squirt and for me it has nothing to do with orgasm. I squirt when my gspot is touched in a particular way, touching my gspot is pleasant but I don’t feel the squirting itself. My advice is play with the gspot, all different angles, strengths of touch and toys. " __ This reply matches my (male) experience. Have experienced quite a few women squirting when playing with them, including Mrs. Arpeggio. First time it was by chance, which took me by surprise, while now after so many times I have a pretty good idea what are the likely triggers in women that do squirt, but my focus is always in getting women as much pleasure as I can give them, not about getting them to squirt just for my own satisfaction. Never had any women asking me to make them squirt, therefore i do never make a goal out of it. Squirt liquid I found arousing and pleasant. What comes gushing is a clear liquid and tastes sweet, nothing like pee at all. So if anyone is still thinking it's pee, you are wrong. Just because it comes out of the same orifice as pee comes from, it does not make it pee, same as semen is different grom pee despite coming out the same hole. Also, squirting has nothing to do with orgasms: in my experience, some women did orgasm when squirting because of the intense and prolonged stimulation, but other women did not orgasm at that point, they just told me they found it pleasurable when it happened. And a few others didn't even notice they had squirted. So, be ready to be disappointed if it does not lead to the intense orgasm you are hoping for. My opinion is that the orgasm, if there's one at the moment of squirting, will come from this specific type of stimulation, but not from the actual squirting (liquid coming out of the urethra). I like to think of squirting as "sweating", a natural involuntary reaction to a certain type of stimulation (g-spot in my personal experience, but I have seen squirting from other stimulation), but not something that she can will out by merely thinking about it. Being relaxed about it, is crucial, both of you but specially her. Stimulating the g-spot is the most usual way for women to get to squirting, in my experience, and for their playing partner (women or men) helping a woman to experience this. Also, I'm no expert but in my limited experience I have learnt that women squirt more often if I take time and I do not go too fast nor too rough with my fingers, otherwise you will get her either irritation and discomfort or a quick orgasm with your fingering without giving her enough time for the "well" of squirt liquid to fill up inside, to the point it needs release. Finally, again in my personal experience, it comes to a point where all feels very wet and "squelchy" when you are fingering her, and you wonder if she has already squirted. Usually she has not. If you keep stimulating the g-spot in the same way and at the same time apply good pressure on the area above her clítoris tip, with the palm of the other hand or cup you same fingering hand to apply pressure there, that usually triggers the release. If still not there, talk to her, kiss her, suck a nipple, kiss her neck... do anything to get her to stop thinking about the pleasure "down there" and relax, and "let go", similar to the moment between holding your pee and relax to start the peeflow. Hope this helps. | |||
"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "Try tantric massage/ Yoni massage- done properly it’s amazing. I have made a few women squirt for the first time using it. I think other methods will work but this type of massage is a very slow build up and is kinda of edging you towards an orgasm slowly. Breathing/ talking/ tactile touch all critical. | |||
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "One woman in my experience expelled urine when her clitoris was stimulated quickly with the palm and middle two fingers of hand every time. She couldn’t control her bladder. You could clearly see the fluid was urine and it smelled of it. However, the same woman when on all fours and with me gently probing the tip of a single digit into the opening of her pussy suddenly engulfed me with copious amounts of fluid and it just kept on coming. This was completely clear and had no smell whatsoever. This confirmed to me there are two types of squirting. One is indeed actual urine, the other is female ejaculate. | |||
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"Edging " OK so this is the method I use to make my other half squirt. Licking around and across the clit whilst 1 or 2 fingers in her vagina (nail side up) and doing a come here motion and sometimes holding the fingers still whilst pushing down on the floor of the vagina - always licking on and around the clit. Hope this makes sense and some of the ladies on here can advise that it works for them or a similar method | |||
"Edging OK so this is the method I use to make my other half squirt. Licking around and across the clit whilst 1 or 2 fingers in her vagina (nail side up) and doing a come here motion and sometimes holding the fingers still whilst pushing down on the floor of the vagina - always licking on and around the clit. Hope this makes sense and some of the ladies on here can advise that it works for them or a similar method" __ In your case, is your half lying on her back or us she on all fours (doggy). Just to understand the mention of nail side up for your fingers. | |||
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You will get a sudden urge to pee but try to relax and go with it. Trust the process, practice makes perfect.
Hope that helps and let me know how you get on
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "Get your man to finger you hard with two fingers doing the 'come hither' hand motion ... try standing position first it's amazing | |||
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"Hi fabbers, ignore the last post. Damn auto correct. Hope you can helps us.. so we have been reading a lot about squirting and Mrs would really love to experience this. Mrs says: Mr and I have tried and I feel may be I have a mental block and this is stopping me from getting there. So we need your help.. ladies, what made you got there in the end? Gents or Bi ladies, will you be willing to share the wisdom? "I’ve only recently discovered I can do this. It seems for some reason it only happens when I’m stood up or riding on to of my husband or partner. My husband tied my hands above my head last night and slowly played with my pussy gradually working two or three fingers inside me and massaging the area around my g spot whilst softly grinding his palm on my clit as I got more excited he built up speed/ rhythm until I climaxed absolutely soaking the floor. It feels different to my usual orgasms but extremely nice. Hubby says he can feel me swell up inside just before it happens. I’ve just posted a video of the aftermath. Mrs x | |||
