Ok so you have played with toys and that's OK I guess on your own so you have been relaxed, I guess when you are with someone you are less relaxed so you need to find a way to control your anal muscles in that situation. I would look at starting kegal exercises you will notice the difference in a couple of weeks. T |
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It can never been too slippery! You can get lubes which are specifically for anal, which are usually silicone. Water-based lubes tend to dry up quicker and can cause a little more friction during butt play, which is what you don’t want.
I agree with Tantric Tryst; relaxation is key. Anal is so much more enjoyable when you are comfortable and trust your partner. If you are tense, it’s most likely going to hurt. And if it hurts, you’re doing something wrong.
The reality is that a real life penis feels completely different to toys, so when your partner enters you, get them to hold it in there before you go deeper, inch by inch. This will get you used to the feeling of fullness.
The best thing to do is to push out (as if you’re going for a number 2) when they are inside you. This will relax your sphincter muscles and make it easier. But of course make sure you have douched before hand to avoid a mess!
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"I've tried to experiment with anal sex but it always ends up hurting I'm fine with toys but as soon as a cock trys entering I find it painful have you got any tips"
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