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Reason for not verifying
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We met with a couple just over a week ago and during the meet I asked if they would verify us as it was our first meet as a couple. They said yes, sure. However a week later and still no verification, so I sent them a very polite message asking if they'd forgot, to which they replied that they felt that they could not add their name to a verification because of the way she was dressed when we arrived.
Needless to say they are now off my Xmas card list and added to our block list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The way someone is dressed should be nothing to do with verifying someone is real and whatever else..
Some people.. I donno.. "
Bizarre hope u didn't veri them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The way someone is dressed should be nothing to do with verifying someone is real and whatever else..
Some people.. I donno..
Bizarre hope u didn't veri them!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And If you did verify them don't worry it won't be there now you've blocked them!! x"
We couldn't verify them as it was our first meet as a couple and we're not yet verified.
She was wearing jeans and a top |
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"And If you did verify them don't worry it won't be there now you've blocked them!! x
We couldn't verify them as it was our first meet as a couple and we're not yet verified.
She was wearing jeans and a top"
Oh that's a bit of a let down. I was imaginiging alsorts. Did they still stay and play? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And If you did verify them don't worry it won't be there now you've blocked them!! x
We couldn't verify them as it was our first meet as a couple and we're not yet verified.
She was wearing jeans and a top"
Was it "mum-jeans"? If yes, I totally understand their reluctance to veri you as they are a fashion no-no.
Just kidding btw!!! |
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we met a single male and verified him, he didn't verify us but now keeps quoting parts of our verification on his status updates, and asks people to read his verification (from us) feel like blocking him so he looses it,
shit shag anyway |
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"we met a single male and verified him, he didn't verify us but now keeps quoting parts of our verification on his status updates, and asks people to read his verification (from us) feel like blocking him so he looses it,
shit shag anyway "
Maybe you should refer to your post above in your profile so when people read his veri from you and check you out....there will be the truth about the shit shag |
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"we met a single male and verified him, he didn't verify us but now keeps quoting parts of our verification on his status updates, and asks people to read his verification (from us) feel like blocking him so he looses it,
shit shag anyway
Maybe you should refer to your post above in your profile so when people read his veri from you and check you out....there will be the truth about the shit shag "
best of all he only has one verification and thats us not that we need a verification from him, just thought it was good manners!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So..did they stay and play?
If so couldnt have put Them off that much?
Id prob agree that it,was something Else and they didnt want to Say?
Dont stress over it tho.
Auds x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought the verify facility was to verify that you are a genuine person/couple. Not to say how well dressed you were or indeed whether or not you floated each others boat. |
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"I thought the verify facility was to verify that you are a genuine person/couple. Not to say how well dressed you were or indeed whether or not you floated each others boat."
You'd think so wouldn't you?!! |
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By *ouldyou2Man
over a year ago
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"I think the jeans and t-shirt is an excuse. I think it's something likely to offend you and they didn't want to do that.
Agreed
Same here." out of interest and maybe a different topic but why do you hide your profile ? I'm new so please enlighten ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they had second thoughts after meeting and was embarrassed. Some are like that and dont want others seeing who they met and leaving an evidence trail that bites them later. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the jeans and t-shirt is an excuse. I think it's something likely to offend you and they didn't want to do that.
Agreed
Same here. out of interest and maybe a different topic but why do you hide your profile ? I'm new so please enlighten ! "
What makes you think I hide our profile? I have never hidden it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And If you did verify them don't worry it won't be there now you've blocked them!! x
We couldn't verify them as it was our first meet as a couple and we're not yet verified.
She was wearing jeans and a top
Oh that's a bit of a let down. I was imaginiging alsorts. Did they still stay and play? X "
We visited them and yes we did play.
I had met her before when we both had single profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its ok to not verify people, i have met lots of people i havnt verified for verious reasons, however i feel they shouldnt have said they would when you asked if they had no intentions of |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the jeans and t-shirt is an excuse. I think it's something likely to offend you and they didn't want to do that.
Agreed
Same here."
Yes I think so too. But as I had already met with the woman a couple of times a few of years ago under my singles profile I cannot think what. we all had some fun and seemed to hit it off. She even mentioned that on next meet she'd like to have some time alone with my partner before her hubby and me joined in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They met you, played with you both, agreed to both couples verifying each other then said because Sally wore jeans and a top you couldn't be verified?
I thought verification's were supposed to verify just that, you turned up (on time's a bonus) you played, you had fun, you went home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you verify them...??? Did they display it...?????"
i can answer that
no they didnt because they said they wasnt verified so they cant verify anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the jeans and t-shirt is an excuse. I think it's something likely to offend you and they didn't want to do that.
Agreed
Same here. out of interest and maybe a different topic but why do you hide your profile ? I'm new so please enlighten !
What makes you think I hide our profile? I have never hidden it."
Think the message about hiding profile was aimed at us! We're not meeting at the moment so profile is hidden to save us coming up in searches and wasting peoples time messaging us and our time in replying. Hope that clears matters up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's no absolute right to be verified. If a meet is prepared to do it, fine. If not, move on."
I agree with you there is no absolute right to be verified. That is NOT what this is about. We have moved on and are visiting a couple in France for the next few days so expecting to be verified soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the message about hiding profile was aimed at us! We're not meeting at the moment so profile is hidden to save us coming up in searches and wasting peoples time messaging us and our time in replying. Hope that clears matters up." same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you there is no absolute right to be verified. That is NOT what this is about. We have moved on and are visiting a couple in France for the next few days so expecting to be verified soon."
France is awesome! Good for you two! |
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"Oh 'eck I'll be keeping an eye on future veris then because I wear jeans and tops for all my meets. Clean, neat, and comfortable, and easy to remove for the main event! "
Madam, if you're not in a full gown with a corset and sixteen layers of, ahem, undergarments then I'm awfully sorry, but we could never have a suitable liason. It just would not be proper. |
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"I think the jeans and t-shirt is an excuse. I think it's something likely to offend you and they didn't want to do that.
Agreed
Same here.
Yes I think so too. But as I had already met with the woman a couple of times a few of years ago under my singles profile I cannot think what. we all had some fun and seemed to hit it off. She even mentioned that on next meet she'd like to have some time alone with my partner before her hubby and me joined in
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It could all be about them and the odd comment was just an excuse. Maybe they had a row afterwards or decided it wasn't for them or something? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh 'eck I'll be keeping an eye on future veris then because I wear jeans and tops for all my meets. Clean, neat, and comfortable, and easy to remove for the main event!
Madam, if you're not in a full gown with a corset and sixteen layers of, ahem, undergarments then I'm awfully sorry, but we could never have a suitable liason. It just would not be proper. "
I'll expect you in frock coat and monocle then! |
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