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How did you find out you were into swinging
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the discussion was had and it was agreed I can play with others 
Porn gifs being sent to my wassap used to get me so wet with all the hot scenarios I wanted to try |
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I've guess always be monogamous relationship wise and non-monogamous sexually. It never seemed logical to that just because you are in a relationship you both can't enjoy friendship, kissing and sex with other people. It just never made sense to me however as far as I could see that is the rules of the world.
My Ex wife Brough up swinging a couple of times when we'd had a couple of drinks. Before we meet She'd been a few times with older freind to club when she was 17. We talk about it and I was very intrested in what goes on. She would say we should go. Anyway I saw that as a conversation to have when we were sober. But it sounded good and I always figured once she's secure and ready we'd look to do that. Take things at her speed. However it never materialise because she cheated and left. Turns out she would have been a terrible choice of woman to swing with. So I'm actually really glad we didn't. Pitfalls of marrying too young.
Anyway going forwrd I end up single and a single parent to two young children (youngest being 6 months old at the time). So my dating options are limited and I'm also reevaluation my life as asking myself what do I want from life going forward? Through the pursuit of some NSA hook ups I stubble on the scene again. I see other people in relationships and singles just enjoying new experiences, variety and freedom. I see people who can openly express their true sexual desires and indulge in them. I see how fun 3somes and more somes can be. I'm turned on by the idea of more than 2 people in a room freely enjoying each other hassle free, no strings, just for the mutual pleasure and friendship. I'm like fuck, this is exactly how I think the world should be. This is me and there's no going back because I now see how the world can be single or in a relationship. I mean people actually can have beautiful relationships where they can be completely open sexually, enjoy other people and want to share these experiences together. Its beautiful and it makes sense. |
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After years of talking and fantasising, and having our two children, then meeting a couple we both fancied, we (first wife and I) agreed to have an open marriage, then after having sex with others separately, we invited her bf to join us for a three. Never looked back after that over thirty years ago. |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Many many years ago, seeing my then girlfriend give a guy a blow job. she didn't know i'd seen but it turned me on after the initial anger.
Spoke about it and 2 weeks later were going to a swinger meet / club |
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By *reasyMan
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
Didn’t realise it was swinging in the beginning I got interested in sharing. When I found out my ex was being fucked by somebody else. I hated her for lying and cheating, but I got so turned on knowing another guy was burying his cock in her. Sadly, I never shared her we broke up, but that was the start of my swinging life. When I went in search of other men, that might be the same as me and love to share their wives. |
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