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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just rejoined a fetish lifestyle website and wondered if there any other people from here on there.
Please look me up and drop me a message if you are.
WolvesGent
Same name as on here.
Let me know your favourite fetishes or BDSM activities.  |
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I'm on as, "mindbender."
There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.
Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!
On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags! |
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"I'm on as, "mindbender."
There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.
Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!
On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags!"
You're not following the right accounts then  |
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"I'm on as, "mindbender."
There's far more kink on Fab, POF and Tinder.
Chat, meet, have a drink, get the ropes out!
On the other site, it's all midweek board games munches and sitting around talking about red flags!
You're not following the right accounts then "
I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!
I love the vibe from your profile.
It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!
Would you mind if I sent you a PM?
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"I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!
I love the vibe from your profile.
It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!
Would you mind if I sent you a PM?
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Aberdeen can't be worse than Cumbria. I have to travel a lot to get to any fun events.
Go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are both on the other site, it's where we met  need to get more active on there again!"
How!?
I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people |
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"We are both on the other site, it's where we met need to get more active on there again!
How!?
I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people"
How what?  agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are both on the other site, it's where we met need to get more active on there again!
How!?
I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people
How what? agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh "
I meant how did you even manage to find someone you like on there
I tried search by location and gave up. Its such a difficult site to use |
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"I'm obviously not, but scene is very small up may way, especially for someone of my age!
I love the vibe from your profile.
It's right up my street and I'll take some inspiration from it!
Would you mind if I sent you a PM?
Aberdeen can't be worse than Cumbria. I have to travel a lot to get to any fun events.
Go for it "
Yes, you're probably right with that one.
I go to Riga in Latvia regularly.
I can fly there in the same time that it would take me to take the train to Edinburgh!
I look forward to chatting with you! |
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We are on there under two different profiles.
We will look you up and add you.
Like others I find it a bit difficult. We nearly went to a munch last night near where we live, was hoping to find some riggers to give us a bit of guidance. But looked in to see a group sat in a circle like a seance so we just went for a drink instead.
Have a lot of fun at swing events, not that we swing but most clubs have good dungeons that can be put to good use.
We have been to a couple of play events from the other site. Both were good.
Can find the kink community a little cliquey and because we tend to travel out of our local area for events we don’t know anyone else. Swing events we will at least chat to a few other people on the night.
As said we end up in the dungeon at most venues. And at a swing event they don’t tend to get used that much
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just rejoined a fetish lifestyle website and wondered if there any other people from here on there.
Please look me up and drop me a message if you are.
WolvesGent
Same name as on here.
Let me know your favourite fetishes or BDSM activities. "
It is interesting for chat but terrible for meets unless you travel to their socials. |
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Yes on that site, Hubby had been in the scene for 40 years and he got me into it when we met 8 years ago. Love extreme dressing and full range of BDSM activities, and recently completed our own playroom. The pandemic and breast cancer derailed us but hoping to get back in the swing soon
Unfortunately our profile name contains a banned word on here but hopefully you can figure it out: FuckDollSexSlxxx
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"I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated.
More "Antarctica" oriented "
Antarctica is what the site puts if you don't want your location publicly available. I think mine says that until we're officially friends.
I find it excellent for finding events and meeting people there. As long as you get into the relevant to you local groups and actually look there's plenty to be found. And once you know the specific club and event profiles to follow its easy to keep up with what's going on that you want to go to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm on fe t too, but more active on here. It seems to be very US orientated.
More "Antarctica" oriented
Antarctica is what the site puts if you don't want your location publicly available. I think mine says that until we're officially friends.
I find it excellent for finding events and meeting people there. As long as you get into the relevant to you local groups and actually look there's plenty to be found. And once you know the specific club and event profiles to follow its easy to keep up with what's going on that you want to go to "
I'm glad I saw this. I've been seriously contemplating moving to the Antarctic due to all the hot submissives I was envisioning cuddling up to  |
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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago
London / Essex borders |
I used to be on there, but think I lost my account due to inactivity.
As many have said, It should have been a gold mine for likeminded fun and exploration, but the user experience feels rather like being left down a mine with just a book of matches for navigation.. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We are both on the other site, it's where we met need to get more active on there again!
How!?
I find that site so difficult to navigate like how do you even search for people
How what? agreed it's bloody awkward. You have to search for location and hope for the best tbh
I meant how did you even manage to find someone you like on there
I tried search by location and gave up. Its such a difficult site to use "
Our experience too. We take a peek from time to time but it’s so difficult to get to grips with we always come back here. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"We are on there under two different profiles.
We will look you up and add you.
Like others I find it a bit difficult. We nearly went to a munch last night near where we live, was hoping to find some riggers to give us a bit of guidance. But looked in to see a group sat in a circle like a seance so we just went for a drink instead.
Have a lot of fun at swing events, not that we swing but most clubs have good dungeons that can be put to good use.
We have been to a couple of play events from the other site. Both were good.
Can find the kink community a little cliquey and because we tend to travel out of our local area for events we don’t know anyone else. Swing events we will at least chat to a few other people on the night.
As said we end up in the dungeon at most venues. And at a swing event they don’t tend to get used that much
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I met some canny people from your neck of the woods at kinkfest last month. In your shoes, I’d try IMPS? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get summoned weekly to a lady who uses me for her pleasure. I was working in her house and noticed a couple of kinky toys. Asked the question and she told me she was a dominant.
Can’t keep away |
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I am n there with my fab name. Like others I find it doesn’t work for me. I tend to get better matches on fab. Most of the guys are miles away on there and either just want pictures or want to dominate me remotely. I very much need a more hands on approach. My profile says what I like xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m on the other site too.
I find it quieter and not as overwhelming with messages etc. There’s a lot of information there but can take a while to find what you’re looking for as it’s more global than here. |
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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago
Camberley |
I've been on Fet for a while (DolphinFriendly).
It's NOT a hook up / dating site. Yes, it can be difficult to navigate, but once you get your head around it, it's fine.
The munches are fun, but you sometimes need to persevere - keep going back!
There are several kink events & clubs "down south" Hellfires has a couple of kink related nights a month, there is Dark in Southampton, house of Rua at DV8 and O&I at Eurekas, a fair few at House of Poitier in Sutton, to name but a few.
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We're both on there, in fact we met via an event that was organised via that site. Just have to remember it is NOT a hook up site, that's why the search function isn't that great and is designed that way. What it is great for is finding events and some bits of learning too, though the good bits take some finding through all the desperate s type men. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"So hate to ask, but what is the name of this fetish page of joy? Could anyone send me a message with the site name please
Fetlife. Apparently we’re allowed to say it out loud now. "
I got a ban at the weekend for referring to the first 3 letters of the site in a thread, so I would still suggest caution and euphemism. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"We're both on there, in fact we met via an event that was organised via that site. Just have to remember it is NOT a hook up site, that's why the search function isn't that great and is designed that way. What it is great for is finding events and some bits of learning too, though the good bits take some finding through all the desperate s type men. "
Mainly this.
Find events, meet people in real life, become their friends or follow them. You will find out about more events and information and meet more people and be more informed. It is a virtuous circle of friendship and learning but no guarantee of sexual interaction.
People (mainly men) using the site just to hit on submissive or dominant women are likely to be disappointed.
Although there is an increased kink/swing crossover, and an increase in events that are mainly swing orientated, my guess from talking to people, is random hook ups are rare without some personal interaction, genuine knowledge and ability kinkwise, and an interesting personality.
But that is just my view, as these events are not my thing. I prefer classic BDSM events where sex us not the major point. I accept there are other views and preferences. |
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