Starting to get really bored with getting stood up by guys on here, this one I have been talking to for a year and this is the 2nd time he’s done it!!! And we haven’t even met!
Surely I can’t be that bad 
I’d like this say this is the only guy who has done it but unfortunately I get stood up more times than I go out and now all my confidence has gone again - a lot of shitty people on here playing around with peoples heads unfortunately
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over a year ago
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This is a real shame.
Have had it happen a few time when on here as a couple but unfortunately they give genuine guys a bad name and make everything harder for reliable guys...  |
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over a year ago
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Happened to us all the time so now we just meet at clubs so if they turn up it's a bonus and if they don't there plenty of other people in the club to pick from win win ether way |
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"Starting to get really bored with getting stood up by guys on here, this one I have been talking to for a year and this is the 2nd time he’s done it!!! And we haven’t even met!
Surely I can’t be that bad
I’d like this say this is the only guy who has done it but unfortunately I get stood up more times than I go out and now all my confidence has gone again - a lot of shitty people on here playing around with peoples heads unfortunately
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Flipping heck. How could any man stand you up ?!  |
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We have had a few.
Can understand that sometimes shit happens and can't be avoided, but a few have been VERY last minute and those are frustrating as you are all geared up to play.
Usually happy to give benefit of the doubt once
Clubs are good, but if you are chatting to someone in particular or looking to set up something specific a private meet is needed, but it's not easy |
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Definitely a shame that people are getting messed about when there are good honest naughty people who would love have a meet up. Myself included. Not really much you can do. Block and move on I guess......I'm open to take a substitute place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure all of the reliable guys would agree this is a real shame as there are some very sexy couples and ladies in this thread that I know I would love the opportunity to meet. Just a shame that some guys are letting the rest of the guys down... |
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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Starting to get really bored with getting stood up by guys on here, this one I have been talking to for a year and this is the 2nd time he’s done it!!! And we haven’t even met!
Surely I can’t be that bad
I’d like this say this is the only guy who has done it but unfortunately I get stood up more times than I go out and now all my confidence has gone again - a lot of shitty people on here playing around with peoples heads unfortunately
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Try not to take it personally.... From your picture you look great.
Personally, I'm fully confident I may not be someone's cup of tea but - if you stand me up once unless you've got a mighty fund excuse, you're not getting a second chance |
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We know as previously singles on here there is a high chance of being stood up. Mainly because people online are flaky but as we know also (as both single parents) life can get in the way and sometimes people can't help it. I think this is a huge part of why we keep our swinging to socials, clubs, parties and people we befriend in the vanilla world. It works for us because we swing when the time works for us without the need for other people to be reliable to make it work. It means we can plan our swinging in advance or take spontaneous opportunities as they happen. It prevents this happening to us and finding our precious free time wasted.
It works for us and is why we have yet (after a fair few years on the scene) still not had a meet with anyone we've not met in the real world first. That doesn't mean we'll never arrange a first meet online but it's clearly not our go to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could ask people that stand people up why? Cold feet, just plain rude/ mean. I really would like to understand the reasoning behind it?
It's just rude and not considerate of the other person/couple's time and effort.
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over a year ago
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I’ve noticed certain common behaviours of guys who will stand me up from other sites, so I see those I just end the convo. And I don’t do second chances. |
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