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By *NV14INV OP Couple
over a year ago
Inverness |
We are new to swinging and are confused weather it’s about a social life that could result in sexual satisfaction between whoever else is involved in a solid relationship or is it just about unadulterated sex for mutual pleasure? Obviously there is a place for both. |
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By *NV14INV OP Couple
over a year ago
Inverness |
"I mean. That's kind of up to you.
Everyone does things differently. Find people compatible with what works for you and work it out from there."
So you’re saying both reasons but depending on personal choice? |
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"We are new to swinging and are confused weather it’s about a social life that could result in sexual satisfaction between whoever else is involved in a solid relationship or is it just about unadulterated sex for mutual pleasure? Obviously there is a place for both. "
The answer to that question is yes - some people are here for the social aspect and some purely for the sex. |
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You do you, it's whatever you want it to be.
Be careful what you ask for on here though. There's always men, women and couples that will fail to understand your wants, take them out of context, or just simply troll you because your views on swinging differ to theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Completely depends on what your looking for,for us it’s definitely for sex,we already have what we want in a relationship but as Mrs is bi sexual it would be wrong to deprive her of sex with other women, Mr doesn’t need to be with another woman so this has lead us to being a soft swapping couple predominantly to play with bi sexual women  |
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For us it's a complete lifestyle as it spills over into everyday life in terms of having a relaxed attitude, being open. giving and welcoming etc. Do we enjoy swinging for sex...yes of course but at some point in the future sex may stop but we will still be swingers. |
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As like everyone on here we are on it for different reasons, most are here for exploring the sexual side of it others for meeting new people and making friends. You do what is best for you, and of course you can stop at anytime when you want to. But talk to each other about what you both want from this and then you can decide what's best for you as a couple. |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
It's lifestyle for us . It's definitely not lust as we look for that social spark with a couple .
Our attraction is based on other aspects too apart from physical features .
If we can't vibe then we don't play with them. |
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The fun of it is make it what you want to, should be no pressure one way or the other to do stuff you're not 100% happy / turned on with - and that's not set in stone either one week lust, next week social..it all works.
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