So..... We've been on the site for around 14 years, we've had all sorts of meets, socials, one on one, private parties, group socials, club meets, but what is swinging?
The amount of messages that say "want to fuck?" is not a turn on. Clubs.... Too many single guys just hoping to get a fuck, parties, they don't happen enough, we think this is proper swinging, not the whole keys in a bowl but sits more comfortable with us, however like going to a club, it's very sexy. Oh the questions
Thoughts people. What is swinging to you????, |
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Bum on here, maybe stand back a bit to get you going... Then you put your legs fowards like this and bend them back at the knees like that...
Can be done standing up or with ropes if you're feeling adventurous...
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It's obviously different things for different people but for us it's about pushing boundaries and exploring sexuality in ways that wouldn't be possible without the help of others. Ultimately though it's hot horny fun  |
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Swinging to me is whatever you and the people your with feel comfortable with or doing, the where when and how is up to the people involved
In the past I have live out fantasy’s with couples and singles abd we have all enjoyed the experience
And it should be fun |
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"It’s deviance from monogamy
Suspension from the norm x"
Not necessarily I think exhibitionism and voyeurism, dress up, flirt sex chat with couples, having sex with your partner around others in a club or party is swinging for sure- add spice and adventure to a marriage within monogamy, works for us! |
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"It’s deviance from monogamy
Suspension from the norm x
Not necessarily I think exhibitionism and voyeurism, dress up, flirt sex chat with couples, having sex with your partner around others in a club or party is swinging for sure- add spice and adventure to a marriage within monogamy, works for us! "
Not sure I agree with this. If we’re going to be pedantic, I would say what you describe is certainly what the Americans would call ‘in the Lifestyle’ - which actually I prefer - but it isn’t swinging, which is non-monogamous. |
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Interesting reading on your thoughts and personal preferences, we enjoy all sorts of meets, just like to hear other people's opinions. Everyone has their own thoughts, as long as everyone enjoys it. Xx |
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i think op knows what swinging is...
its more like the majority of folk on here arent true swingers, as op said just users looking for a fuck.
to an extent you can kinda tell from some of the usernames there not real swingers be it males, females or couples...  |
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"i think op knows what swinging is...
its more like the majority of folk on here arent true swingers, as op said just users looking for a fuck.
to an extent you can kinda tell from some of the usernames there not real swingers be it males, females or couples... "
Yes, it seems like it's "tinder" sometimes. But we enjoy what we do and just tell the randoms who ask for a fuck to puss off. |
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