Hi all you lovely fabbers. I have a question which I'm not sure how to fully explain 
I have recently been getting into watching and researching men being dominated by a dominatrix. Which really turns me on imagining myself being in that situation...
But is there a beginners type/style I can try out to see if I like it? I wouldn't want to go into pain too much, or is there not really a low ground? |
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Biggest miss conception of bdsm is who is actually in charge.
The sub is actually in charge with providing a long list of their likes, limits, hard limits, and a safe word or red,amber,green approach.
The dominant is taking full control within the session within those boundaries.
Communication is the number 1 rule and unlike most porn you don’t start at the extreme scale with any sexual experience you understand what you like and push limits etc.
There is a well know bdsm site/community that is great for newbies and seasoned pros alike
Enjoy and good luck |
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