"I’m a regular club go-er 
So that’s six in twenty four hours
No wonder single men have such difficulty, that’s assuming all are interested in meeting men"
I am interested in single men. They are welcome to any of the club nights that I attend as much as I am. Don’t see the difficulty in that. |
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On this profile, I am not currently looking for any new 1:1 meets, just here for the forum. As I have a few FBs/FWBs who I see on at least semi-regular basis, as well as my partner who I spend weekends with (and have couple's profile with).
It has become increasingly difficult to find interesting people to meet on here who are available weekday evenings, so I stopped bothering and just sticking to my "hareem" lol. But I do visit clubs regularly with my partner and I am open to meeting on 1:1 basis with people I met at a club. Also, we are back to attending private parties and socials organised by our friends. So I guess, as a single woman, you can say I don't swing regularly. |
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"I’m a regular club go-er
So that’s six in twenty four hours
No wonder single men have such difficulty, that’s assuming all are interested in meeting men
I am interested in single men. They are welcome to any of the club nights that I attend as much as I am. Don’t see the difficulty in that."
And also this! Even when I'm in a club with my partner, single men are welcome to chat with us, and I have played there with some, too. But not the ones who believe that just by staring at us, or taking their cock out without even saying "hello", would grant them an invitation to join us. Those men are just blanked. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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"A lot more people actively swing than use the forums. If I am honest pretty much no one I meet ever uses the forums so I really feel it is not a very good barometer for what happens on the site."
Agree with this, many here just for the forum with no intentions to meet v and they make it clear in their profiles.
We do swing regularly (parties, clubs, 2:2), about once a month, twice at the most, so we can keep some balance with our family and vanilla lives. Swinging is more like a spicy "hobby" for us, definitely not a "lifestyle". |
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Not entirely sure what is ment by actively swing?
If your talking shag count then We're terrible swingers probably (not that we mind).
If your talking about presences on the scene then we are a bit more active and we do seek new adventures with new people. When we can we get out to parties, clubs and socials. We like to meet new people and if the vibe is good we swing. And we are not opposed to finding something with the right people out in the everyday world too. Plus we do from time to time get together with freinds we've made in the scene.
Swinging is part of how we live our life but isn't the main focus of our life. |
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"Not as much as we'd like, but to be honest doesn't grown up life get in the way of all fun? 
We don’t allow it to! Screw adult life problems. They can be shifted around - well, some can lol."
We love doing it so switch normal life plans where we can |
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"Yeah that's the part we meant and not a shag count lol."
in that case they yes I'm active. I socialise a lot. Help newbies and am actively chatting to people about the lifestyle. I'm just not sexually active just now x
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"I'm always impressed (and more than a little envious) when people are able to meet or attend clubs every single week"
Also more than a little envious.
I just tell myself I have to accept that I am in a different stage of life right now.
Although it also serves as a reminder that I wish I'd discovered swinging a lot sooner. |
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