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By *t0600Man
over a year ago
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"Seriously
How can anyone ever expect to get any 1st message without any.
Or get a reply.
Especially if on fab more than a month
Only my opinion of course.
T."
Totally agree with this . Like it’s hard with pictures I can only imagine how difficult it is with none  |
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"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us."
We might start adopting that method too   |
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Agreed ,we all want to keep things private ,but there's loads of pics people could still upload.
Instant delete if a profile with no pics messages me.
Rightly or wrongly I always think they have something to hide . |
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"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us."
Seems a fair way of doing it.
I also find they are the first ones to ask for a face pic, when they have no pics at all! Mrs M x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us."
Agreed, for us is one week and no pictures what gets you an instant block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cause its their profile and they can do with it how they please.. i hide all my pics when im not looking and dont really want attention. If its someone moaning about not getting messages/meets etc and they have no pics then thats a different story |
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The way people set up profiles is a huge filter for us - no pics, dick pics, action shots with bareback, only one person from a couples profile with pics - people can post what they want on their profile but it definitely provides a good filter.
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"Cause its their profile and they can do with it how they please..."
This.
Public photo fans please feel free to block me now
Some people don't kiss during casual play. I wouldn't have sex with someone I couldn't ever kiss. So, I block them. Similarly if putting "sexy" impersonal pics on the internet is necessary for your arousal I will not suit you.
I find the butcher's shop of dehumanised body parts in profile snaps a bit depressing. Taking and viewing such images is not a major feature of my sex life and I certainly don't do it for public consumption. Becasue I don't want to.
I enjoy Fab dates with people both with and without public pictures.
Usually I send a very clear face picture, and occasionally some others, before arranging a Fab date.
But if you need public ones then I am not for you. And I will struggle on through  |
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"Seriously
How can anyone ever expect to get any 1st message without any.
Or get a reply.
Especially if on fab more than a month
For me the alarm bells are for people (especially 'couples') that cant be bothered to get photo verified
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went the other way, full face profile pic so you can see what's on offer.
Makes it super easy for the women BUT was recognised by a customer that made it awkward lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't even look twice at any profiles with no public pics, we absolutely get the need for discretion for some people, but to not post ANYTHING is either mega low effort or suspicious.  "
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve set all my pictures to private at different points on my fab journey so I don’t judge people for not having any. I just wouldn’t reply to them. In fact, I think I’ve filtered them out. |
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"Haha I remember my partner making an account on here, she had 50 odd messages within 2 minutes with no details or photos lmao"
It was same when I joined too,crazy.
Women will still receive messages with no pics and not much text though ,men and couples not so much . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If folk are too shy about putting pics up, no way will they actually meet to swap partners. If they're too tech illiterate to figure out how to upload a pic they're not for us. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
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Public photo fans please feel free to block me now
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We would not block you because you have not looked at us. Genuine Women profiles do not look at us, so when they do it is clear they are not genuinely women.
Totally agree on the dislike of photos of butchered dehumanised body parts. We prefer to see full bodies and faces to decide if we feel any attraction but we do not care for nudes. Actually, when chatting, we ask for faces, as well as full body clothes-on photos, ideally of the couple together, those are best to feel it we are attracted to them. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Haha I remember my partner making an account on here, she had 50 odd messages within 2 minutes with no details or photos lmao"
Lol... your female partner must have a very sexy black silhouette |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us.
Agreed, for us is one week and no pictures what gets you an instant block. "
Wow... that's harsh. Some people may need more time than that. It took us 2-3 weeks to be able to get some pictures in our profile. We do not like much taking pictures of ourselves, and we don't like photos of us playing, so had to find a time to do that without risking our children interrupting the photo session. |
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All of that and, we don’t understand why people post to a forum thread like this and then hide their profile?!? Commenting is meant to raise your profile and get others looking at your photos and messaging you. Why hide??? |
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" Actually, when chatting, we ask for faces, as well as full body clothes-on photos, ideally of the couple together, those are best to feel it we are attracted to them."
These are my favourites too!
I am permanently in secret mode... So whilst I hadn't looked at you (because you're not in my search radius) the couples I do look at wouldn't necessarily know. Often I just look at a profile because they have verified someone I'm interested in or whatever. So they don't necessarily need to worry |
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Tho tbf browsing privately is probably a real female type behaviour - so maybe not (visibly) looking is a useful indicator!
Happy Fabbing everyone anyway. I need to get my ass to the gym so it looks better for dates, if not pictures! xx |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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"Tho tbf browsing privately is probably a real female type behaviour - so maybe not (visibly) looking is a useful indicator!
Happy Fabbing everyone anyway. I need to get my ass to the gym so it looks better for dates, if not pictures! xx"
I'm sure if you Goog*e "silhouette toned firm gym-certified ass" you will easily get gifs to upload one as your profile silhouette  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cause its their profile and they can do with it how they please...
This.
Public photo fans please feel free to block me now
Some people don't kiss during casual play. I wouldn't have sex with someone I couldn't ever kiss. So, I block them. Similarly if putting "sexy" impersonal pics on the internet is necessary for your arousal I will not suit you.
**I find the butcher's shop of dehumanised body parts in profile snaps a bit depressing.** Taking and viewing such images is not a major feature of my sex life and I certainly don't do it for public consumption. Becasue I don't want to.
I enjoy Fab dates with people both with and without public pictures.
Usually I send a very clear face picture, and occasionally some others, before arranging a Fab date.
But if you need public ones then I am not for you. And I will struggle on through "
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seriously
How can anyone ever expect to get any 1st message without any.
Or get a reply.
Especially if on fab more than a month
Only my opinion of course.
T.
Totally agree with this . Like it’s hard with pictures I can only imagine how difficult it is with none "
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Exactly this |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us.
We might start adopting that method too "
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I do already |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Agreed ,we all want to keep things private ,but there's loads of pics people could still upload.
Instant delete if a profile with no pics messages me.
Rightly or wrongly I always think they have something to hide ."
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Wow!
So much support for this.
I thought I may get a battering LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its nice to get a sense of who you are talking to, no photos = alarm bells and block.
Admit it’s a bit hypocritical at the moment as I’m a fussy bugger and takes me ages to find photos Id like to add so very limited at the moment.
Mission 2023/2024 is to get more than 3!
Mrs x |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Any profile that has been on Fab for more than 6 months without pictures and checks our profile is an instant block. Even if they are genuine, not the right couple for us.
Seems a fair way of doing it.
I also find they are the first ones to ask for a face pic, when they have no pics at all! Mrs M x"
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Yes 100% so funny
Mainly ladies
Say
NO FACE PICK BLOCKED
and no gallery lol.
Sorry BLOCKED |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"The way people set up profiles is a huge filter for us - no pics, dick pics, action shots with bareback, only one person from a couples profile with pics - people can post what they want on their profile but it definitely provides a good filter.
K"
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Sure does |
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We look at it 9/10 if there too lazy to upload a pic or 2 and put 3 sentences together after 3 months+, what's the meet and chat gonna be like. They should make it like some sites we've used that you need to upload at least 3 pics and at least 100 words, rather than black head and "fill in later"
These people get blocked by us for no effort.
So what about to be anonymous you ask, well we should hope we see your face and bits on a meet, should you actually turn up.
We are not looking to offend anyone, but fgs. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"I went the other way, full face profile pic so you can see what's on offer.
Makes it super easy for the women BUT was recognised by a customer that made it awkward lol"
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Must have been akeward for customer to.
As you did not know he/she was a swinger.
But you do now LOL. |
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"The way people set up profiles is a huge filter for us - no pics, dick pics, action shots with bareback, only one person from a couples profile with pics - people can post what they want on their profile but it definitely provides a good filter."
Are you more lenient on bareback for a couple’s profile? I’m thinking it could just be the couple alone together?
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Oooh, plus, every time I think about adding a snap I get _another_ message that opens by telling me how sexy my images are. And I realise that if I actually posted one I'd miss that filter  "
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Can't see yours anyway .. reckon I'm blocked or restricted LOL
T |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Haha I remember my partner making an account on here, she had 50 odd messages within 2 minutes with no details or photos lmao
It was same when I joined too,crazy.
Women will still receive messages with no pics and not much text though ,men and couples not so much ."
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Wrong not from me lol |
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Can't see yours anyway .. reckon I'm blocked or restricted LOL
T"
Yep. From before you started this thread actually. Can't recall why. Must have been another reason we wouldn't suit for private convo. Happy to exchange friendly forum chat though (hope mods agree we can as we're neither of us trying to get around the block - we both want it in place!) xx |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"All of that and, we don’t understand why people post to a forum thread like this and then hide their profile?!? Commenting is meant to raise your profile and get others looking at your photos and messaging you. Why hide??? "
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Op here
Was that addressed to me pls.
If so.
As far as I know my profile is fully open.
I do have
Friends an Private photos but they are for the genuine I get chatting with xx |
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"Seriously
How can anyone ever expect to get any 1st message without any.
Or get a reply.
Especially if on fab more than a month
Only my opinion of course.
T."
My bafflement is winking at me but zero pictures. Why bother.
Friend requests without messaging first/ that's annoying.
Only friends only pictures no profile picture. Less like to engage with the profile at all. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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Can't see yours anyway .. reckon I'm blocked or restricted LOL
T
Yep. From before you started this thread actually. Can't recall why. Must have been another reason we wouldn't suit for private convo. Happy to exchange friendly forum chat though (hope mods agree we can as we're neither of us trying to get around the block - we both want it in place!) xx"
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I have no idea why either
And yes I new must be prior to threat.
I do often message people if I'm in area re 1 or 2 night stay.
And my sometimes a little direct in my approach LOL
You can always find and unblock if you wish.
Op
Terry |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
Nr Brighton 1 till 5pm areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
"Seriously
How can anyone ever expect to get any 1st message without any.
Or get a reply.
Especially if on fab more than a month
Only my opinion of course.
T.
My bafflement is winking at me but zero pictures. Why bother.
Friend requests without messaging first/ that's annoying.
Only friends only pictures no profile picture. Less like to engage with the profile at all. "
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Good points
Only 3 on yours
And I can't message you, as you obviously think past 49 is incapable LOL.
Hey all to there own.
Happy Fabs
T. |
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