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So called ‘Couples’
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"Can I ask for some comment by hopefully real couples and obviously anyone else who has an opinion. My question or point is this, if a suspect ‘couples’ profile has an update like the following ‘my guy is free all week while I’m away, who can look after him’ is that not a dead giveaway that it’s a single male with old photos of his Mrs ?? Am I just paranoid or does it happen ??" Are the profile pictures all of the woman? | |||
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LvM | |||
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"No, two of each, ie cock and body then 2 of Mrs Seems dodgy to me" What is it about the profile that seems dodgy? | |||
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"Can I ask for some comment by hopefully real couples and obviously anyone else who has an opinion. My question or point is this, if a suspect ‘couples’ profile has an update like the following ‘my guy is free all week while I’m away, who can look after him’ is that not a dead giveaway that it’s a single male with old photos of his Mrs ?? Am I just paranoid or does it happen ??" 99% of the time it’s a guy, yes. Same goes for couples profiles where it’s permanently written “male half only”. You’d be surprised at the amount of couples I get messaging me saying only the male is around. They try and tempt it by saying that I’ll get a couples verification and that’ll look good. It’s creepy if you ask me. | |||
LvM | |||
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"Use the "Reply +quote" button so people know who you're responding too, OP
LvM"No problem, thank you xx | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever spoken to a couple on here and it’s been a woman on the other end of the chat " You've not chatted to us then | |||
"Although we've never announced it when either of us are away on business we can and do play separately so it's very possible that it's genuine." We’d agree with that, but it can be difficult at times to sort the genuine ones out from the idiots. | |||
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"I think if you both play then only play together never on your own we never did " Everyone has their own dynamic. | |||
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I think veri’s and the profile outlining that they meet alone at times would have to show this, otherwise we would not take it as not real.
You may as well just find a single male though so there’s no drama - unless you’ve already played before and know what he brings to the table.
K
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"If the account is verified then would have needed both to verify? If unverified then most likely a male increasing their chances" It if it was verified years ago,could be that it was once a couple ,now just him.ive seen that a couple of times. | |||
"We’ve yet to see a profile that says ‘husband away for a week so only female playing’
"We’ve seen it a few times! It’s rare, but not an impossibility. | |||
"Can I ask for some comment by hopefully real couples and obviously anyone else who has an opinion. My question or point is this, if a suspect ‘couples’ profile has an update like the following ‘my guy is free all week while I’m away, who can look after him’ is that not a dead giveaway that it’s a single male with old photos of his Mrs ?? Am I just paranoid or does it happen ??" I bumped into a very dear friend on here. We had an awkward brief conversation initially in which she denied it, and I wondered if her husband had set up the profile without her knowledge, and was playing away. After a few minutes, she confirmed it was them, and for a while at least, we had a fantastic friendship, each knowing the other was in the lifestyle, but never likely to get together to play. Not long afterwards, I did spot their profile say that hubby was away in a hotel in Oxford, and looking to play. I actually queried it with my dear friend as I owe her so much, just to make sure he wasn't playing away, and she confirmed that he was up there for work, and she, as the dutiful wife, had packed him off with condoms and told him to have fun. In reality, I think he just found out how hard it is as a 'single' guy, esp when people think that you might be playing away. I'm not sure they'd do similar now, they've found their way in the lifestyle more these days, and would be the first to say that they play as one unit, together, or not at all. I've also met with one half of a genuine couple, while the other was also playing whilst away with work for a week. So yes, it can and does happen, but yes, you are also correct that there are a great many fake couples profiles out there, indeed, many fake profiles of all types. Always engage with an open mind, and if in doubt, disengage. | |||
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