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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interested to know. What do you interpret “No strings attached” to mean when it comes to meets on this site?
I know different people view it in different ways. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect "
That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached?
Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way?
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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect
That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached?
Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way?
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I reckon in most 'continued friendship or arrangement ' situations no matter how clearly boundaries are laid down, explained and agreed to, one person will always interpret them differently or assume that somewhere along the line they'll change.
I also think that many people are unable to enjoy casual sex for just the physical experience. Social conditioning has made a lot of people want to cover the physical enjoyment with a cloak of respectable
emotional connection.
You're not the one interpreting NSA incorrectly in my opinion but human relationships are complicated and messy |
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"Interested to know. What do you interpret “No strings attached” to mean when it comes to meets on this site?
I know different people view it in different ways."
No strings to me means no attachments whatsoever, turn up shag and leave.
That's not for me, I like to build friendships and get to know people and also have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No strings means that while we're together we need to be important to each other without distractions. While we're apart we have no responsibility to each other apart from respect
That’s a good way of putting it. What are your thoughts on expectations of a continued friendship or arrangement? Do you think that crosses over into having strings attached?
Reason I ask is b/c I’m a strictly NSA person. But I seem to attract people who, after meeting, want to talk a lot and/or meet regularly. But that’s not what I want. I can’t figure out if I’m the one interpreting NSA in the wrong way?
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No to me this is the correct definition of 'No strings'
But maybe people understand that and you're just very personalable and people enjoy wanting to spend time with you, that's also a possibility |
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