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A chap I met at a pub, chatting away and he made an excuse to go to his car never came back and blocked me lol as bad meets go that was pretty tame, but I still think he should've let me know he wanted to leave instead of just leaving me sitting there like a melt lol |
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over a year ago
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I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left. |
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left."
this sounds shocking lol |
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left."
lol dont blame you not the kinds filth you want lol |
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over a year ago
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Turned up at the door expecting a 38yo brunette.
In fact was 60+ lady who confirmed she was expecting me and if I'd like to come in!
She was honest that she lied. I didn't go in. |
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left.this sounds shocking lol"
Lol I know right lol tbf I have only had a handful of meets and this was my worse |
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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago
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i once had a meet with another cuck and as soon as i stepped into his house the carpet was sticking to my shoes and then the smell hit me really really bad i just turnned around and walked out it turnned out he was not even a cuck just a single guy who lived in a filthy smelly house |
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I met a girl late one evening for a quick meet and went over to hers, she was In a flat and as I approached the building I could hear shouting, I thought maybe it was neighbours. I went up to her flat and could see from the state of the door/ window all smashed up and dirty etc it wasn't the right choice. I could hear some loud shouting now and she then comes to the door ranting saying her dealer is a prick and she just had to sack him off for payment... I could see in the door and it was an absolute state. (I said I'm sorry but you obviously have a lot going on, good luck and I left)
Left with an Awful feeling so didn't arrange another meet with anyone for ages after that. Totally different vibe from what I got chatting for months on here. |
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Arrange to meet a girl for a drink, I didn’t know the area so I let her pick a spot
She picked a very expensive restaurant
Didn’t realise how fancy it was until we were sat down. The server looked confused when I said drinks only, she looked extremely confused.
Chat was ok, think she just wanted a fancy meal. I finished mine, paid for them both and left |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A chap I met at a pub, chatting away and he made an excuse to go to his car never came back and blocked me lol as bad meets go that was pretty tame, but I still think he should've let me know he wanted to leave instead of just leaving me sitting there like a melt lol "
Yeah it can be hard to say no, but that was just rude.  |
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left."
Gross, what an animal!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Turned up at the door expecting a 38yo brunette.
In fact was 60+ lady who confirmed she was expecting me and if I'd like to come in!
She was honest that she lied. I didn't go in. "
Omg, nightmare! |
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"i once had a meet with another cuck and as soon as i stepped into his house the carpet was sticking to my shoes and then the smell hit me really really bad i just turnned around and walked out it turnned out he was not even a cuck just a single guy who lived in a filthy smelly house"
You ever think they were a serial killer trying to lure you in? |
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"I met a girl late one evening for a quick meet and went over to hers, she was In a flat and as I approached the building I could hear shouting, I thought maybe it was neighbours. I went up to her flat and could see from the state of the door/ window all smashed up and dirty etc it wasn't the right choice. I could hear some loud shouting now and she then comes to the door ranting saying her dealer is a prick and she just had to sack him off for payment... I could see in the door and it was an absolute state. (I said I'm sorry but you obviously have a lot going on, good luck and I left)
Left with an Awful feeling so didn't arrange another meet with anyone for ages after that. Totally different vibe from what I got chatting for months on here."
Gross, was probably planning on selling your organs or something  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Arrange to meet a girl for a drink, I didn’t know the area so I let her pick a spot
She picked a very expensive restaurant
Didn’t realise how fancy it was until we were sat down. The server looked confused when I said drinks only, she looked extremely confused.
Chat was ok, think she just wanted a fancy meal. I finished mine, paid for them both and left "
Aw that's sad, sounds like you were a gentleman about it though.  |
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over a year ago
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I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe
Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes.
But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on…
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Social meet, at a pub in the evening.
Guy turned up looked absolutely nothing like his pics on his profile at least double the size wearing work boots scruffy cut off joggers as shorts and gut hanging out the bottom of his filthy t shirt…
Didn’t even get to finish my drink Mrs K wanted to go immediately. |
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"i once had a meet with another cuck and as soon as i stepped into his house the carpet was sticking to my shoes and then the smell hit me really really bad i just turnned around and walked out it turnned out he was not even a cuck just a single guy who lived in a filthy smelly house"
Thats quite pathetic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe
Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes.
But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on…
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Oh wow, you must be really unlucky |
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Was told I'd be meeting a couple confirmed that it was indeed an actual couple through voice chat and pics. Meet day arrives all is well and still a go, I get to the hotel go in grab the lift up. Arrive at the door full of energy and eager, I mean the female of the couple looked stunning. Anyway door unlocks and opens slightly I hear a faint male voice say come in close the door and get naked so I do as asked. I'm hearing faint what sounded like female moans I walk through to the bed to find 2 guys and a phone. Yup I had been Uber duped by a mm couple with a phone obviously I made my excuses grabbed my clothes went into the bathroom room got dressed and just left. Walking home with that horrible feeling of shame. My worst experience on here. |
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I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe
Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes.
But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on…
Oh wow, you must be really unlucky "
Went on loads of vanilla dates at a stage haha. And tbh lots of women have bad stories to tell!! |
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Met up with a lady who I had been talking to for a while online. Invited me to hers I drove over went to hers. Sat and had a chat, a coffee. One thing led to another and we were in bed. Had a good night with her. When it came time to leave she wouldn't let me go. This went on for nearly 2 hours and then she went to the loo and that was my cue to leave.
Didn't meet with anyone for a while after that scarry |
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Turned up at a couples house. She was upstairs so chatting to the guy downstairs. When she came down I was pleasantly surprised. She sat next t one and hubby sat opposite. She got my cock oit and was sucking it when the guy said we are just doing this to fill time, he’s son has dies in a motorbike crash the day before and they were waiting for a funeral date. I had to pretend my phone had rung, made an excuse about my daughter locking her sold out and made a sharp exit. |
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Had a sexy meet with a guy and all of a sudden we hear keys in the front door to the flat, then lots of banging on the door when she realised the deadlock was on and couldn't unlock it. He then proceeded to pathetically army crawl around the flat and kept peeking out under the curtains. It was his wife/girlfriend (this was news to me) who he claimed was his mates wife/girlfriend. Safe to say I grabbed my clothes and left asap. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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The rogue flying penis to the melon while accidently starting a gangbang has to be it to be fair the female company was ace but the over enthused wannabe pitch invaders pissed me right off |
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I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers.
We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex.
Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence.
2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round |
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers.
We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex.
Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence.
2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round"
Jesus |
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers.
We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex.
Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence.
2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round
Jesus"
I was praying alright |
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Mine was just a social thank god. The short version of the story goes as follows:
I saw this femboy online and he looked so damn cute in his pics so we arranged a meet and were just gonna hang out, play football and maybe get drinks after. I made it clear that this wasn't a sexual date aswell as I just couldn't be arsed with all the prep to be honest. I show up at the train station to collect him as he asked me too which was fine. I get there and I tell him what I was wearing as I couldn't see him anywhere! Turns out I have probably walked past him several times as I get tapped on the shoulder and am greeted by a guy whose pictures were most definitely deceiving as he was significantly heavier than his pics and didn't even resemble much of a femboy aesthetic.
I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because I'm young and stupid so we hang out for a bit, play football and then just kinda chill awkwardly at my place and he's really trying to initiate sex but I just keep trying to change the subject. Eventually I contacted my bf and told him to try and call me with an excuse for me to send him home. Thankfully my bf came in clutch with an amazing master plan and I managed to get him out of my house.
It was a critical lesson for me as it taught me the importance of verifying someones identity through a cam chat before any form of meeting. |
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"Mine was just a social thank god. The short version of the story goes as follows:
I saw this femboy online and he looked so damn cute in his pics so we arranged a meet and were just gonna hang out, play football and maybe get drinks after. I made it clear that this wasn't a sexual date aswell as I just couldn't be arsed with all the prep to be honest. I show up at the train station to collect him as he asked me too which was fine. I get there and I tell him what I was wearing as I couldn't see him anywhere! Turns out I have probably walked past him several times as I get tapped on the shoulder and am greeted by a guy whose pictures were most definitely deceiving as he was significantly heavier than his pics and didn't even resemble much of a femboy aesthetic.
I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because I'm young and stupid so we hang out for a bit, play football and then just kinda chill awkwardly at my place and he's really trying to initiate sex but I just keep trying to change the subject. Eventually I contacted my bf and told him to try and call me with an excuse for me to send him home. Thankfully my bf came in clutch with an amazing master plan and I managed to get him out of my house.
It was a critical lesson for me as it taught me the importance of verifying someones identity through a cam chat before any form of meeting."
I bet that was horrible in your own home! |
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Now I don't think I'm Gods gift, but turned up for one meet and the girl in question wouldn't have looked out of place as Hagrids body double... Totally nothing like the pics she'd sent, and her house was minking ! ... made my excuses and left.. lol |
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"Now I don't think I'm Gods gift, but turned up for one meet and the girl in question wouldn't have looked out of place as Hagrids body double... Totally nothing like the pics she'd sent, and her house was minking ! ... made my excuses and left.. lol"
You're a better man than me...
I had a similar situation but stayed anyway because i was so worked up for it  |
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I have had a few meets where a guy will come to mine, we will have some fun but then they won’t leave!! Happened about 3 times now and just gets awkward so now I try not to accommodate unless i know them quite well |
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Met a guy for a social at a pub. He decided to loudly ask what I was into, question after question while there was a family with young kids next to us. I quickly made my excuses.
He never got the hint and insisted on walking me to the train station, continuously asking me to go back to his. When that didn't work, I was pushed against a wall, groped slightly and kissed. I got the hell out of there quickly.
Had the nerve to message me a few minutes later looking for another meet. Not only no but hell no.
Blocked and reported |
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"A chap I met at a pub, chatting away and he made an excuse to go to his car never came back and blocked me lol as bad meets go that was pretty tame, but I still think he should've let me know he wanted to leave instead of just leaving me sitting there like a melt lol "
The man must be an idiot. You look amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When that didn't work, I was pushed against a wall, groped slightly and kissed. I got the hell out of there quickly "
I hope you reported him to the police, that was sexual assault. |
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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago
St Margaret's at Cliffe |
I went to a woman's house after some flirty messages, she opened the door and her flat was an absolute mess, foolishly l went in as l didn't want to be rude and just walk away, we went to the bedroom as it was a bit tidier.
She was in a gown, she removed it and put one leg on the bed, taking what she must have thought was a sexy pose. Unfortunately, it released a rather unpleasant odour from her rancid pussy, now inches from my horrified face, l then noticed that her pussy was full of a thick, yellow discharge!
By now l really didn't care about being rude, told her l had left my condoms in the car and l would be back in a minute, ignoring her when she said we didn't need them.
I couldn't drive off fast enough. |
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Guy turned up and hadn't showered that day probably not for a couple of days, stunk of b.o grubby clothes I got up after sitting next to him went to the loo then came back a d told him my period came just to get him to leave.
He kept messaging after that but I just said I didn't fancy him face to face  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Had a few bad meets. Couple that spring to mind are
We arrange to meet for a social only as it was "that time of the month" but made plain that it was a social only. Couple were lovely and we had agreed to meet again on another weekend when the husband of the couple as if we wanted to go back to theirs. We said no as it was just a social. In the next ten minutes he as three more times and we politely declined each time. On the last occasion he just got up and walked out leaving his wife who just kept apologising even though we said she didn't have to. Needless to say we didn't meet them again.
The other one was meeting a couple in a bar where there was karaoke. In the first ten minutes the guy told us where he worked and how he basically tried to do as little work as possible and that the managers were scared to do anything about it because he would just get the unions involved. His wife said about ten words all night despite efforts to engage her in conversation. Honestly we thought she might be mute. He dominated the conversation it was all about him, how great he was and how we would have a great time. We signalled to each other that this was going no further and started to plan our exit. At the end of the night their taxi didn't turn up and as they lived on our route home we offered to give them a life. Pulled up outside their home and the guy leave forward between the front seats and rubbing his hands together like a letch said "well whatabout it". We had been polite all evening but at this point Alexis snapped and said in a loud voice "NO now fuck off". I was shaking with laugher at that point as they got out the car with him slamming the door really hard. |
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Due to illness I cannot drive so chatted to a lady for a month or so and agreed to meet for a social. It was a two hour trip each way but I hardly used to get any response so I was obviously keen to meet to chat and go with the flow.
After 90 mins on the bus we messaged on here and she said she was in the bus station waiting for me. When I got there lo and behold no sign of her. Naturally I thought she may have nipped off to the loo so I waited. Half an hour later a message appeared she apologised and said she would meet me in Costa.
After finding the Costa I sat down with a brew and yet more waiting. Then yet another message, this time from a man who said she had no intention of coming and threatened me for trying to hit on his missus ( on her profile she said she was single ) and told me in no uncertain terms to **** off home quick.
So disconsolately I went to board the bus for the two hour journey home tried her profile to find out I had been blocked. Unfortunately this has sapped my confidence on here and as a consequence have never had a meet since. My trust in people has taken a battering.
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Our first meet almost put the stop on future meets.
Arranged a social pub meet around 6pm at a place not too far from home.
All seemed well for this mid 40's chatty, funny, sexy couple (their words, not mine).
So, off we went scrubbed up, excited, ready and willing to explore new found adventures of sexual freedoms.
Then reality slapped us around the chops.
She was pissed, early 60's, dressed in a bright red plastic number, couldn't wait to tell me of her invisible and visible medical issues and medication prescribed.
He looked very late 60's, pale, terrible smokers cough for someone who didn't smoke but reeked of cigarettes, stained grey suit and wanted his lady to tell us what sexual shenanigans he wanted to watch her partake.
Think that was his drift but it was difficult to nail down during the fits of coughing.
Needless to say, we didn't end up in the bedroom.
I often wonder if his undies were as stained as his suit !!
Never did 121 meets for a long time but discovered clubs and then party invites came along and the rest, as they say, is history.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Nothing bad springs to mind but a few weird ones.
Was having an MMF. The lady turned up first, and we started playing while on the phone to the guy who was on the way from work. He arrived came up, joined in for a few minutes, then said he had to go and move his car as he’s blocking someone’s drive and just never came back |
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over a year ago
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" Alexis snapped and said in a loud voice "NO now fuck off". I was shaking with laugher at that point as they got out the car with him slamming the door really hard."
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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago
St Margaret's at Cliffe |
"It's amazing all these awful people actually seem to get meets yet some of us decent people never even get responses let alone dates ??
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That was one of the three meets l have had, the other two, a BBW and a couple, were fine, thank God! |
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Well after reading this thread it never ceases to amaze me how many people are willing to go into a complete strangers house and suprised when things go pear shaped.
Crikey it's safety 101 always meet in a public place first.
And if you are continuously meeting up with bad people maybe change the way you vet people before meeting up.
Just a suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met with girl off Bumble. Perfect date, very flirty, lots of dirty talk and then she asked me back to hers.
We enjoyed a couple of hourse of really aggressive amazing sex.
Roughly 5 mins after we had finished she started to cry and shout at me because i had let her sleep with me on the first date. I tried to calm her and point out that she had odviously enjoyed her self. She continued to get ever more aggressive until she went down stairs and started smashing her house up. I started getting dressed ready to leave when i heard her going through the cuttlery draw. I jumped out the window onto the grass and she continued to come outside, screaming and tried to chase me with a small knife. Neighbours called the police and it wasn't her first violent offence.
2 weeks later she called again and asked if i wanted to go round"
Whoa, you win so far |
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By *ortisiaCouple
over a year ago
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I’ve had the very very dirty house experience as well. It was a nice normal road with normal house - then the address I was given was for that one house which is a total eye sore and you know the neighbour hate it. I made the mistake to give him the benefit of the doubt and not just drive away - turns out he was living with his mum and it was the worse house I’ve ever seen. Ewe
Another one was a guy who turned up at mine, didn’t look like his pics, and was nervous as hell, pretending he was all experienced but obviously not. The death armpit stains from nerves killed the vibes.
But that said I’ve had even worse tinder dates hahahah - the guy who opened his mouth and had 4 front teeth missing, the guy who was 20 stone heavier than his pics, the guy who looked like an absolute slob. The list goes on and on…
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Oh lord I can so relate with dating apps! The 20yr old picture is a classic, I always ask for a selfie now! Catfish isn’t just women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a social with a guy who i got chatting to on the forums. He seemed a nice guy.
I went there by train, he met me at the station. He smelt of alcohol and he smoked almost constantly.
Went to his home, there appeared to be people doing drug deals close to his home. His flat was disgusting, i wanted to have a quick cup of tea and go home. He was drinking alcohol at 11am. He suggested we went to a pub, i thought that was better than his flat. He insisted on holding my hand but i kept moving away. There were some people he knew were in the pub and he introduced me and told them what website he met me on . By this time i'd had enough, checked the train times, there was one in 30 mins. I told him i wanted to catch that and would he point me in the direction of the train station. He kept saying he would in a minute. In the end i asked his friends for directions (they were lovely and clearly unhappy with his behaviour), i said bye and left, i wasn't sure i was going the right way so asked a couple who were telling me but then the guy i'd met came running up yelling at me for making a fool of him in the pub, the couple looked unsure what to do but i could see the station by then so ran towards it with the guy i'd met trying to hold my hand, asking to meet again, it was easier to just agree, i didn't want to miss the train so was rushing, then i went through the barriers at the station, i knew he couldn't follow as he was skint, his words, so at last i felt safe. I had to run to get the train. I was shaking, scared, upset.
He later messaged me asking for a veri, i told him no, he thought the meet had gone well !!!
I blocked him. He continued to talk to me through the forums for a while. |
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' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more. |
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Oh I also forgot the one where it was over in a flash and the guy kept kissing me with the condom half hanging off and resting on my leg and when I asked him to take it off and throw it away, it was cold and feeling it on my leg was making me feel sick, he replied "yes in a bit" and tried to carry on kissing me.
Left straight away after that |
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"I once had a social that was going so well, into each other, laughing, joking, great vibe. So we decided to head back to hers but when we go there her flat was just disgusting!
Food plates everywhere, crisps and food bits on the sofa, odd smell, two indoor only cats, dirty toilet. I just made some excuses and left."
Oh I have had this as well lmao |
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more."
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove? |
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"Met a guy for a social at a pub. He decided to loudly ask what I was into, question after question while there was a family with young kids next to us. I quickly made my excuses.
He never got the hint and insisted on walking me to the train station, continuously asking me to go back to his. When that didn't work, I was pushed against a wall, groped slightly and kissed. I got the hell out of there quickly.
Had the nerve to message me a few minutes later looking for another meet. Not only no but hell no.
Blocked and reported "
I am far from perfect but some of the things I'm hearing about guys behaviour on here is genuinely cringe worthy and surprising |
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more.
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?"
Own what sorry? |
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more.
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?
Own what sorry?"
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more.
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?
Own what sorry?"
sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted? |
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more.
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?
Own what sorry?sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted?"
I'm not interested in anyone proving a point after I've already been disappointed
In ny eyes all I'm doing is setting myself up to get disappointed a second time |
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"' There was one where I got 'dick fished'
- The one where the guy was in a hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in an alcohol hole and couldn't perform
- The one where the guy was in a rush to have sex and then lasted about 4 thrusts, and insisted on a 'round 2' and the same thing happened again.
- the one where the guy thought he was going to cum and actually pissed instead
- there's been plenty where guys have said how amazing they are at head/fingering and have actually been incredibly awful
I could go on, needless to say I don't meet new men any more.
I'm genuinely curious..... don't many own it and soldier through? You know, come back fighting with a point to prove?
Own what sorry?sorry, i mean cum early with confidence and continue with a point to prove. Or don't stop pleasing you whilst they get sorted?
I'm not interested in anyone proving a point after I've already been disappointed
In ny eyes all I'm doing is setting myself up to get disappointed a second time "
aww that's sad to hear. I'm sorry those experiences have made you feel like that. It should never be like that and isn't nice to hear alot on here |
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Having read through this thread, I am astonished at how people behave, and it seems mostly men. Why don't people actually make an effort, and then show some respect for the people they are meeting? As for some of the behaviour, it's just awful; nobody has any right whatsoever to have sex with someone, so it is staggering to hear some of these stories. |
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Mine never got to the meet...
So I had been chatting to this couple for a few days when they said they were in the area (fab on android showed they were within 5-10 miles), and that they were interested in meeting, They told me they wanted a hotel for the meet, We looked around and chose one that was reasonably cheap.
They asked me if i'd be willing to go halfs in the hotel (was only going to be about £20) so was happy enough to chip in. 10/15 mins later they told me they had booked it and asked me to send my cut. Stupid me got their bank details and sent over the funds, within 5 mins of confirmation, I was blocked on here and whatsapp, and never saw or heard from them again.
Now if people want to meet at a hotel, They can pay, and IF im asked to chip in, I'll consider chipping in then i'm there. Lesson Learnt. |
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Another time i was meeting a 'single' guy near his house. He then asked me to get in the boot of his car so his neighbours didn't see me go into his house and tell his wife ! |
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"Another time i was meeting a 'single' guy near his house. He then asked me to get in the boot of his car so his neighbours didn't see me go into his house and tell his wife !"
Omg |
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This still angers me to this day.
We invited a guy in his late 50s to our home. I explained very clearly condoms was a MUST.
The bastard tried to bareback me doggy style. Thankfully hubby saw and stopped him!!!
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A guy I was seeing fairly regularly arranged a mfm at my place. The new guy arrived first and we started having some fun and I thought it was going well but when my regular guy arrived the first one got dressed and left no explanation, was a great pity as I found him attractive. |
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Think I’ve explained this before but - 4 years ago I met a couple, they had great verifications and great photos etc.
When they turned up in person they didn’t look like their photos and one of them was clearly going through withdrawal and asked if asked if could inject hard substances into themselves.
Needless to say they were told to leave immediately. (To make it clear, they were out the door within 2 mins of arriving)
I deleted my last profile because of that meet. Truly awful!!! |
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"This still angers me to this day.
We invited a guy in his late 50s to our home. I explained very clearly condoms was a MUST.
The bastard tried to bareback me doggy style. Thankfully hubby saw and stopped him!!!
Mrs C "
He should consider himself lucky that he didn’t leave with his balls in Tupperware. |
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Cpl we met the guy got really rough. Bit my boob so hard he left his teeth marks. Pulled my hair so hard it was pulled out from the roots. Tried to push wand vib end up my bag with force.we lost the plot and arguments ensued as he passed boundaries set.he kicked is out naked in the street and got dressed there.his Mrs went apeshit with him and was crying and apologising. Never will meet anyone who has been drinking ever again.
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"This still angers me to this day.
We invited a guy in his late 50s to our home. I explained very clearly condoms was a MUST.
The bastard tried to bareback me doggy style. Thankfully hubby saw and stopped him!!!
Mrs C
He should consider himself lucky that he didn’t leave with his balls in Tupperware."
It all happened so quickly, I was quite upset, the rush was just to get him out. I felt so violated. I won't ever host at home again
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"Well after reading this thread it never ceases to amaze me how many people are willing to go into a complete strangers house and suprised when things go pear shaped.
Crikey it's safety 101 always meet in a public place first.
And if you are continuously meeting up with bad people maybe change the way you vet people before meeting up.
Just a suggestion."
Good advice, I'd also reccomend having a phone call first, if they don't sound like your type over the phone, you can leave it there without a wasted journey. |
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We met a couple for a social, got on like a house on fire and decide to meet a week or 2 later for a bit more. Met them in a local pub and it was a bit awkward, he didn't speak for the first hour because she had left their extra drinks in the daughter's van. Once he'd calmed down and we'd collected said drinks and gone back to ours things went OK for a while, we played and had fun. As soon as he came that was it, tonic and her went into the kitchen to get more drinks and he caught them having a crafty snog. He lost the plot and walked 4 miles from our house to theirs. Left her with no phone or way out of there and deleted every form of social media in his way home. |
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