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What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile? |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
All the demands and specifics of desire. |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
I'm not keen on the hi without a photo. I hate some usernamez! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yes really close up fanny shots 
I quite like close up fanny shots. Is that a man thing?"
Must be?
There's fanny pictures and then there's fanny pictures!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn offs are usually things like people being hairy or people that are overweight.
Ill insta delete messages from people that are either self identified sissies or people calling me a sissy as I can't stand either. |
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
Blow jobs with loads of saliva |
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
Profile with “ Queen” names
Only bbc
No meeting just for forum
Delete
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Smoking or creampie pictures, and long lists of requirements to the point that there's literally nothing about them in their profile. Oh, and the ones clearly just looking to peddle their "content". Those are probably my biggest ones.
LvM |
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Over perscriptive requests on profiles without actually meeting face to face. Too many tattooes or piercings. Smokers. People who say 'babe' or 'darling'? Oh, stocking with hold ups and no suspenders. |
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By *illie69Woman
over a year ago
leeds/wakefield |
57 dick pics from different angles
Cum shots
Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over perscriptive requests on profiles without actually meeting face to face. Too many tattooes or piercings. Smokers. People who say 'babe' or 'darling'? Oh, stocking with hold ups and no suspenders. "
You don't need a suspender belt with hold ups. Hence the name?
Stockings however do require a suspender belt.
Just felt I needed to point this out  |
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"57 dick pics from different angles
Cum shots
Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either "
So 56 dick pics is the magic number then? |
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
I’m sick of getting messages asking me if I’m free right now, like I don’t have a life or anything even worse when I’ve never even spoken to her before  |
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Got to agree with the close up shots, sexy underwear is always more appealing than no underwear in a strangers pic.
Also couples who say they won't reply unless you send a face pic yet they have little or no pics on their profile. |
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By *illie69Woman
over a year ago
leeds/wakefield |
"57 dick pics from different angles
Cum shots
Messages asking if I wanna meet now obv not read my profile . Also the same messages over and over copied and pasted . If I didn't reply the first time I'm not gonna reply the tenth time either
So 56 dick pics is the magic number then? "
Maybe 55  |
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Won’t send face pic.
Negative profiles. Lots of restrictions on profile example age 40-41, circumcised, 10plus inch manhood, six pack, with no grey hairs. Lol. Be easier to mount a 747 in a snowstorm |
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What I find a turn off on a woman’s profile is when they push hard for the list of things they don’t want to receive in their DMs.
On one hand it’s understandable they try hard to filter out the insane amount of messages they receive every day. Still I feel like often it’s about common sense. There is no point to add obvious items to the few of us caring about their profiles. The less caring guys are most likely the same guys with lack of common sense.
I want to know what they really want, not all the names they don’t want to be called with. They are giving away useful information to dumb competitors of mine |
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Couple profiles full of just the woman ,when they're looking to meet other couples.Makes it so hard to see if there would be any sort of attraction.
In messages anyone calling me baby/hun/nawty etc.Or messaging again when I've deleted or said no thanks before.
Asking wuu2/in2.
Profiles of men with more women featuring in than them & just their hand /cock in the pic.
Profiles with no pics that add pics so they can bypass the filter and message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
Men crying about women having preferences
Ultimate turn off
Ask those man if they have preferences though and they most definitely will but it seems to be OK |
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So, summary so far ...
* 57 dick pics from different angles (56 might be the magic number though lol)
* close up fanny shots (agreed)
* negative profiles listing loads of 'don't wants' (tiresome)
* little or no pics - especially when asking for messages to contain pics
* cum shots
* pics or vids with others (yeah I've wondered about the consent thing too)
Did I miss any? |
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Messages from single men fhat totally ignore the fact that we're a couple and just messaging me about how they can offer me x,y,z that noone else can.
Read the profile and acknowledge the both of us is always a good start lol |
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Not really a profile thing. We were at a club a while ago, had arranged to meet another cpl. All was going well.
We all went out for a smoke & he proceeded talk to his partner like something he'd stepped in.
Now that might be thier thing, but it really isn't ours.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pubes, I can't stand big ol' bushes. Too many noises, like I get voicing your pleasure, but making too much noise seems like acting and is off putting.
On a different note, in porn, I can't stand smaller dicks, like it doesn't get me going ya know. |
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?
Blow jobs with loads of saliva "
Nah blowjobs with loads of saliva are the best |
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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago
Fantasy land in the SW |
"Pubes so thick and hard they clean up the burnt fat of the BBQ grill with them."
Hahahahha, def this too
Close up pics of fannies
And dquirting is def not my thing either - I just dont get it  |
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A lot of women's profiles are just lists of things they don't want. I get it, the men on this site have worn down your patience, but the negativity emanating from these profiles puts me off immediately.
Also close up pussy pics, especially the hairy ones oozing cum. Makes me feel ill to look at them. Pussy pics only work if the pussy is IMMACULATE, and even then, one pic is enough!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything mentioning bareback
Anything mentioning meet now
Anyone who has fully nude photos.
To put a positive spin on I like photos that tease the imagination enough to make you want more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just the arrogance from some men in couples profiles. Most are sound with a sense of humour but a small minority think they’re gods gift to the world. I can’t be bothered with folks like that tbh, we’re all human and we’re all looking for a similar thing on here there’s no reason to be a dick. |
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"Got to agree with the close up shots, sexy underwear is always more appealing than no underwear in a strangers pic.
Also couples who say they won't reply unless you send a face pic yet they have little or no pics on their profile. "
Have to agree with this. Less is soooo much more and ignites the imagination.
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When they want me to rearrange my schedule to suit theirs, when they say "what are you going to wear for me?" I literally want to scream. Biggest turn off ever!!
The whole "I'm local and free can you meet now?"
Or I'm staying in a hotel near you on such a date and would you like to join me?!
Or that they "need" to experience one of my bjs.. Wtaf do they think I'm a charity??
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Sooo much I'm probably more turned off than on scrolling fab, where to start.....
Entitelled people.
Rude, demanding profiles.
The any holes a goal crew.
Close up cock pics.
Dirty fingernails in pics.
Gaping arsehole pics.
Areshole pics with piles.
Close up vag pics.
Pics where someone needs to tell the poor fucker they need a Dr.
Dirty backgrounds.
Kids belongings/pics in photos.
Them men that think all they need is a cock pic to get laid then cry no one wants to meet.
The bunny boilers that won't take a polite no thank you.
The couples that think I'll fuck the man without seeing him.
Women that assume I'm attached to them because I'm bi (believe it or not I'm not attached to every man & woman)
That's probably it, reminder to self don't comment on forums when having a bad day.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's
Photos with mess in the background
Single guys hanging out of women
Couples only showing the women
Messages of the ilk, hi, hows yous, etc
Regarding dick pics, we like and close up shots of fannies, I (Mr) like but the Mrs doesn't.
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"Profiles that state no "overweight" people when it is clear that one of them is obese.
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Hey, just to play devil's advocate here, just because you're overweight, doesn't mean you have to fancy overweight people lol!
I'm a woman and don't fancy women , I'm also overweight and tend not find overweight guys up my alley, you like what you like |
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Being msg from people who think are smart like work or ex work colleagues
People who request face picture
People who request penis pictures
People who ask for web camera
People who are too perfect
People who have dolphin tattoos :-
D in their bellybutton or celtic theme tattoosin their lowerback or bee's in their arms just kidding
Nothing put me off till they put me off |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Profiles that state no "overweight" people when it is clear that one of them is obese.
Hey, just to play devil's advocate here, just because you're overweight, doesn't mean you have to fancy overweight people lol!
I'm a woman and don't fancy women , I'm also overweight and tend not find overweight guys up my alley, you like what you like "
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
Any profile with a list of demands
Copy and paste messages |
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Picking partners based on height gives me the ick and I’m not even short before you come for me!
Demanding pics but has no pics themselves Is super annoying
Adding and not chatting
The list could go on… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us it's
Photos with mess in the background
Single guys hanging out of women
Couples only showing the women
Messages of the ilk, hi, hows yous, etc
Regarding dick pics, we like and close up shots of fannies, I (Mr) like but the Mrs doesn't.
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Couples only showing the women. That's 90% of couples profiles unfortunately  |
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-Pictures that contain more of who you're fucking than you, especially when you're not wearing a condom in ANY of them.
- Gaping fanny or anal pictures.
- Long and/or dirty fingernails.
- Messy backgrounds in pictures.
- Spunking cock pics.
- 10,000 pictures of your cock and not much else.
- Refusing to send a face picture but trying to convince me that I WILL find you attractive. |
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"What turns you off in this scene?
Guys, what kinda thing on a womans profile makes your gag?
Ladies, what kind of thing on a mans profile makes you hurl?
And both, what kind of message makes you hit delete without even checking out the profile?"
On a womans profile, lots of gyni shots. The pussy held wide open.
On a blokes, nearly every picture is of his cock. Is he saying, he is a prick?
As for deleting a message, the usual one line copy and paste message. |
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Instant delete are
1) Any messages that talks about meeting up for a social /getting to know me.
2) Any messages that offers to meet up in a hotel.
3) Messages from Wales as they have not read my profile
But the biggest instant delete is using the word Lady . |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
Explicit pics especially cum pics are huge turn off for us.
Asking for something which we don't do despite clearly mentioning in the profile .
One line questions like " what you into ?"
Hidden pics on profile .
Mentioning "No Asians" on profiles
(That's instant block from us ) |
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We find profiles with nothing my gynaecological pics or dozens of dick pics a turn off.
DMs with zero effort, or those that only address Mr are instantly deleted, as are ‘fancy a fuck’ and ‘meet now’ messages. Put some effort in and we’re likely to reply! |
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