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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago
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Sub
My partner is my mistress.very strict.im kept in chastity and expected to do as she says without question.
She also has child lock on my phone that she can see everything I do on it or lock it remotely.all porn and gambling sites are locked etc.
First started as a bit of play but now she loves the power and it's series.i have do all chores and get points or minus points for things I do or don't.she has set points to when I reach I can cash in for sexual acts from her..but it's hard.
As I said was a game at first between us bit of fun..then she slowly got series with it..I kinda wanted to stop but went with it..now I'm basicaly her servent and if I don't well no sex for me..she still gets hers tho..uses vibes Infront of me or makes me wear strapon.
Would I take it back maybe once but to far Into it now..we still are a normal couple but she wears the pants and rules everything.
I'm mainly domiyin my life so to give it up to another to be sub is very hard |
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I (Mr) would probably say I'm switch, but due to Mrs being almost 100% towards the sub end of the scale, I'm generally in charge most of the time.
Hence our interest in confident ladies who might be up for controlling the pair of us |
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All about being a switch.
More naturally a dom with wife, and previous sites I enjoyed meeting women who were dipping into bdsm and very new after a well know book/film made it ‘popular’
My wife isn’t great at switching, so me as a switch don’t get to explore sub side as much. Equally it’s not a must in a meet it’s like anything part of communication and bdsm is a wide ranging scale of being a sub or dom |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Neither as I am not really into bdsm so don’t adopt those monikers
I am either sexually active or passive with people. In regards to penetration or receptive sex "
Agree with this… all depends on the situation and who I’m with… |
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