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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say no…and personally if anyone proposed this to us it would be a instant block  "
not necessarily proposing but you are at your meet in a hotel for example and things are going great but want to spice things up a little |
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"When you meet someone for the first time who is open to having anal on the first meet or is that something that will never happen ? "
Go with the flow, if she initiates then go with it but personally I'd wait for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say no…and personally if anyone proposed this to us it would be a instant block not necessarily proposing but you are at your meet in a hotel for example and things are going great but want to spice things up a little "
That is not something we would ever do or ask at a meet and if it was asked from the man the meet would stop. I would find it very disrespectful
But before a meet we always discuss boundaries what we are all looking for ect…
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"When you meet someone for the first time who is open to having anal on the first meet or is that something that will never happen ? "
It's happened with me on more than one occasion and she was very receptive, but in communication I had expressed how much I liked anal before had. |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
Hinckley |
If anyone has any sense, anal is the individuals choice. We allow it but only if the mrs wants it. If a guy gets to enthusiastic, a simple no would be enough as the pavement is a bit to hard to land on. |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
Hayling Island |
Only time I've had anal on a first meet was when they had a specific fantasy of her watching him getting fucked. I've done that scenario a few times, and it's especially horny when it's the guys first time  |
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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago
London & Leeds |
Like so many questions on the forum, the answer is “it depends”.
I only look for anal meets. And so the women I contact are those that openly advertise that they enjoy it too. I’ll talk with them about what I’m looking for and some are also happy with that arrangement too. And so I’ve had anal and anal play with 100% of the women I’ve met (some on this profile, some on an old one, some from other sites). But of course, my experience is completely skewed. |
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I wouldn't be against it but it wouldn't be something that I would push for. This is why I like to chat for a bit before meeting somebody. That way you get an idea of what each party wants and likes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only time I've had anal on a first meet was when they had a specific fantasy of her watching him getting fucked. I've done that scenario a few times, and it's especially horny when it's the guys first time "
It'd be funny if she asked, shove the hammer up yourself then its all free for u whatever u want..
In that I love an arse shoved in my face time & again.. People wont admit normally matter how cute
Seem to remember Piers Morgan liked Cricket bat in there & something else - Probably Ronnie 7/11 1997
Here's to Hiresuite & Butt pumping Good dream
Maybe he's got horny niece watching isn't ringing 999
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Totally the lady's call on that at all times never mind first meet. As mentioned in other posts it is something that should be discussed before a meet, if profiles mention anal then that at least allows the matter to be discussed and agreed before any meets. Just my opinion. |
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When I was a single guy I had a social that ended up back in my hotel room. Just to check in and pop my bag in my room but she insisted on coming up with me the see what the rooms are like. There was some passionate kissing, heavy petting then the clothes started flying off. Things where naturally heading towards penetration and out of the blue she quite assertively said fuck me in my arse. It was a total surprise and I was so turned on by those words that came out of her mouth. It was a all very hot and very intense. Definitely one of the more memorable social meets 
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"When you meet someone for the first time who is open to having anal on the first meet or is that something that will never happen ? "
You could always Ask them to bring a strap on to your meet, just incase you are in the mood to spice things up with them. |
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It all depends on the situation. I met a woman back when I was on Adult Hub, we chatted, then cammed and arranged to meet at her flat around 80 miles way from me. We even discussed what she would wear and how she would look, hair and makeup etc.
We talked on the handsfree a couple of times during my drive up. I arrived, knocked on the door, she looked with the security chain on, confirmed it was me, from the photos and camming and o my me and we went straight into the bedroom where she got on the bed on all fours with a mini vibrator in her wet pussy and I buried my head in her pussy and arse, all in under 30 seconds. I was her first meet in 3 years as she'd "retired" from swinging and I'd been fully tested, and she had previously, so we elected to not use any protection.
She refused to kiss, as that was too intimate! But l we spent the next four hours having the most dirty mind, blowing sex in every opening, culminating with me finally exploding my load deep up her arse bareback.
She wrote me the most amazing review (veri) detailing everything including the bareback anal finale, very descriptively!
We saw each other for a couple of months with the idea of going to clubs etc, but once the kissing started she changed her tune and wanted me to be exclusive, which wasn't what we both originally signed up for. In the end all we had was the sex and that's all we used to do all weekend. She became possessive and accused me of giving her a STD, when in reality it was a bad case of thrush. I was clean and exclusive with her at that time.
We split acrimoniously, but my next girlfriend contacted me due to that review and on our second meet we did anal and that was her mission, for me to cum up her arse bareback and we used to regularly do it too throughout our time together.
So yes, anal can happen on a first meet and it's happened on a second meet for me too. It's just the way things sometimes work out.
The amount of attention I received from that review. Loads of dreamers of course just wanting to go over it again. I left that site and the review went with it when I closed my account.
I've met other women since who won't let me go near their bum, but converted quite a few along the way too. There's something very erotic about anal for me especially cumming bareback. The woman is totally giving herself to me in my mind. I do love a woman who loves anal.  |
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Had anal on a first meet once or twice.
Once playing around with my toys and a guy lubes up my glass ridged dildo and rams the whole thing up my ass, I screamed the bloody house down in pain, safe to say that meet was over an now I don't do anal anything on a first meet lol |
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Depends on the person, their tastes, and the communication.
Most people I’ve meet - here and in more mundane circumstances - don’t. But then both have also turned out a notable minority who actively want it and have asked for it.
As ever, communicate. I’ve found it useful for teasing information out of unhelpful potentials. You know the type I’m on about “you’ll find out what I’m into when we meet” I’ve genuinely had a previous partner complain that I didn’t pin her by her throat. Closest discussions had come on the matter was “I like to be held down, but not be restrained”. Girl, I’m not going to throttle my dates and playmates on the off chance. Com-mu-ni-cate .
Anal is bland and widespread enough a thing no one gets offended or awkward talking about it, and is a handy door to helping ensure folks get what they want, and don’t what they don’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did anal on my first meet with my last FwB. We'd spoken about it before as he was a newbie but he was completely respectful and listened to my instructions and we never looked back. "
Think you hit two important points, first you’d spoken about it so communication was already good. Second, he was respectful.. and then back to the first, communicating you instructed, he listened.. that just seems hot in itself! |
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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago
Colne |
"I did anal on my first meet with my last FwB. We'd spoken about it before as he was a newbie but he was completely respectful and listened to my instructions and we never looked back.
Think you hit two important points, first you’d spoken about it so communication was already good. Second, he was respectful.. and then back to the first, communicating you instructed, he listened.. that just seems hot in itself!"
Exactly. I couldn't have asked for better in a play partner and anal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did anal on my first meet with my last FwB. We'd spoken about it before as he was a newbie but he was completely respectful and listened to my instructions and we never looked back.
Think you hit two important points, first you’d spoken about it so communication was already good. Second, he was respectful.. and then back to the first, communicating you instructed, he listened.. that just seems hot in itself!
Exactly. I couldn't have asked for better in a play partner and anal. "
Oh wow! That is so good to hear, it seems like you’re a pretty perfect play partner yourself, open & comfortable in communicating your needs.. |
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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago
Colne |
"I did anal on my first meet with my last FwB. We'd spoken about it before as he was a newbie but he was completely respectful and listened to my instructions and we never looked back.
Think you hit two important points, first you’d spoken about it so communication was already good. Second, he was respectful.. and then back to the first, communicating you instructed, he listened.. that just seems hot in itself!
Exactly. I couldn't have asked for better in a play partner and anal.
Oh wow! That is so good to hear, it seems like you’re a pretty perfect play partner yourself, open & comfortable in communicating your needs.. "
That comes after an abusive relationship where my needs weren't met. I now communicate what I want and need to make it pleasurable for me. |
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By *dogg80Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
If definitely does happen. My first ever meet on here which was over 10 years ago now ended with me anally fisting her. I had just come out of a 17 year relationship and only ever been with 1 girl since leaving school.. that night certainly opened my eyes lol |
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"Had anal on a first meet once or twice.
Once playing around with my toys and a guy lubes up my glass ridged dildo and rams the whole thing up my ass, I screamed the bloody house down in pain, safe to say that meet was over an now I don't do anal anything on a first meet lol "
what an arseh*le some have no clue x |
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It happened to me once and takes a lot of trust. We met in a hotel and discussed anal. She said yes but only if she could tie me up first and get me close to orgasm and edge me. I agreed. She tied me up. She then pulled out a 12" strap on and gave me anal. Laughing maniacally as she pumped.
Another true story brought to you by 'Spin and Win' productions. |
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I met a girl on a tinder date about 5 years ago. Leaving the bar she tripped and fell down the stairs, then invited me back to hers anyway. 20 minutes later I was bumming her in her flat.
Great first date! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did anal on my first meet with my last FwB. We'd spoken about it before as he was a newbie but he was completely respectful and listened to my instructions and we never looked back.
Think you hit two important points, first you’d spoken about it so communication was already good. Second, he was respectful.. and then back to the first, communicating you instructed, he listened.. that just seems hot in itself!
Exactly. I couldn't have asked for better in a play partner and anal.
Oh wow! That is so good to hear, it seems like you’re a pretty perfect play partner yourself, open & comfortable in communicating your needs..
That comes after an abusive relationship where my needs weren't met. I now communicate what I want and need to make it pleasurable for me. "
Relationships where needs are met one way at best are never good..  i like what you’ve taken from it though, and that you are able to express what you need & want. It can be so hard sometimes, but it’s so worthwhile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely in every encounter we have had, no one has ever tried anal. In the heat of the moment, there is no chance either of us would turn it down I doubt if it happened "
You saying you couldnt say no if a couple offered eh? |
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We did it once about twelve years ago, at our suggestion, and it was thoroughly enjoyable at the time.
Mrs D will no longer do anal with anyone including me, however, and hasn't for about seven years. |
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I’ve had first time meets in the past with anal sex happening but we had discussed it beforehand and the women were very willing. Also ensured enough playtime first to make sure they were relaxed and horny enough plus a decent amount of lube. Last thing I’d want is to put her off doing it again so we took our time and it was explosive  |
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