"Where all the people who don’t want commitment and all the other boring stuff who’s actually on here to just meet and fuck based on looks? "
It's what most people are here for really, if we actually boil it down. If you're not finding you're getting anywhere, perhaps it's time to start considering why that is? |
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere "
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not? |
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not? "
Most of the time I’ll speak to someone we speak we arrange things but they start thinking it’ll be a regular thing rather then just a one off or they’ll expect more then just a NSA meet |
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not? "
3 out of 5 interms of ratio |
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not?
Most of the time I’ll speak to someone we speak we arrange things but they start thinking it’ll be a regular thing rather then just a one off or they’ll expect more then just a NSA meet"
Expecting it to be a regular hook up is still just looking for sex. Pretty normal as alot of people feel this is safer aswell where STIs etc are concerned. Plus there can be the assumption that they'll enjoy the meet.
I've never seen any person looking for anything more than a NSA meet though unless they want a social first, again, usually for safety. Do you mean women are asking you for dates? |
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not?
Most of the time I’ll speak to someone we speak we arrange things but they start thinking it’ll be a regular thing rather then just a one off or they’ll expect more then just a NSA meet
Expecting it to be a regular hook up is still just looking for sex. Pretty normal as alot of people feel this is safer aswell where STIs etc are concerned. Plus there can be the assumption that they'll enjoy the meet.
I've never seen any person looking for anything more than a NSA meet though unless they want a social first, again, usually for safety. Do you mean women are asking you for dates? "
No I could understand the first meet for safety but my NSA is like just a once off I don’t expect them to think it’s 100% going to happen again but in response to what you said i guess that’s fair enough |
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"I'd say though, if you're not finding the types of meets you want on fab, why don't you try a different avenue?
Any recommendations "
Clubs for one... easier to get talking, socialise. So you've combined the initial social in straight away then and can often find people going in the forums. And there's a possibility of play whilst there, it's not guaranteed but then, sex during any meet isn't guaranteed either.
I know it's not for everyone though but is something to consider.
Another option is gloryholes... there's lots of profiles on fab advertising gloryholes across the country.
Lastly, perhaps is a sex worker that you're looking for? No shame at all in looking for this service if all you want is to empty your balls and disregard the other party. Not saying that's what you want to do however it's what many what to do |
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"Where all the people who don’t want commitment and all the other boring stuff who’s actually on here to just meet and fuck based on looks? "
Probably at a swingers club.  |
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I'd be inclined to believe that most in the forums at least, are looking for some kind of connection first. A FWB relationship. If a one-off NSA bangathon is what you're after, then you're probably best heading to a club.
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"Not really most people say they want that but in reality they think it’s leading somewhere
We're having extremely different experiences then honestly. Most single fems we know on here end the link if feelings become involved, couples aren't looking for a poly dynamic in most cases either. People want NSA fun.
Perhaps it's the type of people you're chasing? How many have wanted a relationship from you in comparison to not?
3 out of 5 interms of ratio"
How hard do you need to work to get them to agree to sleep with you |
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By *ortisiaCouple
over a year ago
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"Where all the people who don’t want commitment and all the other boring stuff who’s actually on here to just meet and fuck based on looks? "
Having no public photos won’t be doing you any favours for a start. |
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Much prefer longer meets with lots of kissing and touching. End results much better I find. Of being a bloke do some fuck and go. Can be horny but sometimes it’s too easy and no thrill of getting the fuck |
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I want nsa meets, but prefer to meet the same people regularly, as I'm in the lifestyle, I want friends with benefits, who I can meet in clubs and have nsa fun with. Thing with fuck and go it doesn't turn me on.. so it's not fun.. thats just me everyone is different.. Mrs M x |
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By *kmegoodWoman
over a year ago
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I’m open to fuck and go but there needs to be a level of respect before meeting If that’s a few chatty messages before finding a mutual way to meet then that’s fine
I find most people say Fwb but actually want a fuck buddy
I’m happy to meet in whatever context If the connections there then it’ll develop into fwb or fuck buddies but if not so be it |
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I think people like nsa fun and they love the idea of fuck and go with people they find attractive and who will treat them with the respect they deserve. Most people don't want to leave that to chance with any random old Tom, Dick or Harry off the streets who's just after one thing (granted for a few its the opposite and part of the fun). They want to get before hand that a guy will be good, clean and have the right attitude, respect and decency. So they want to suss people out in advance or go off word of mouth (which makes complete sense). I'm sure once people find the right Gent they're happy to arrange many fuck and go's with them over time. Having a good reliable guy in the bag is gold dust. That's why there is always those few guys on here who just get it and in return are always very popular and busy. |
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"I'd say though, if you're not finding the types of meets you want on fab, why don't you try a different avenue?
Any recommendations
Clubs for one... easier to get talking, socialise. So you've combined the initial social in straight away then and can often find people going in the forums. And there's a possibility of play whilst there, it's not guaranteed but then, sex during any meet isn't guaranteed either.
I know it's not for everyone though but is something to consider.
Another option is gloryholes... there's lots of profiles on fab advertising gloryholes across the country.
Lastly, perhaps is a sex worker that you're looking for? No shame at all in looking for this service if all you want is to empty your balls and disregard the other party. Not saying that's what you want to do however it's what many what to do "
Yeah thanks for your feedback clubs is a good shout but gloryholes I like to see the person I wouldn’t be able to get hard without seeing the person first I need to be sexually aroused by them and no way I’d never pay for pussy in my opinion I can just get it for free but I just wanted to try different ethnicities and ages but it’s not offering what I was expecting it would it’s usually the same people or a lot of fake profiles on here especially the couples mainly the couples are fake profiles |
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"Where all the people who don’t want commitment and all the other boring stuff who’s actually on here to just meet and fuck based on looks?
Having no public photos won’t be doing you any favours for a start. "
There’s a lot of fake accounts on here and people that use other peoples photos so I don’t just put my stuff up for it to be taken but I can show my face and video call anyone to verify myself |
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"I want nsa meets, but prefer to meet the same people regularly, as I'm in the lifestyle, I want friends with benefits, who I can meet in clubs and have nsa fun with. Thing with fuck and go it doesn't turn me on.. so it's not fun.. thats just me everyone is different.. Mrs M x"
Yeah see to me that’s like a open relationship or a friend you sleep with |
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I used to fuck and go. It felt pretty hollow tbh, and not fulfilling. These days if I only meet a guy once its because the experience wasn't that great that I'd want round 2! |
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