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over a year ago
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So, what's the most effective opening messages you all have? Small talk or straight to the chase? Compliments or questions? I'm intrigued
Also, what would you say is an opening message that would simply never work out for you? |
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"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count "
I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there |
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"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count
I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there"
Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count
I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there
Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means. "
Hahaha, I'm with you on that |
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"The initial message isn't really significant as far as we're concerned. If we like the look of a person we'll reply. Its the subsequent messages that count
I like this, makes a lot of sense. I guess it's just about standing out from the first message and the profile and personality show from there
Some people request an interesting first message. I literally have no idea what that means.
Hahaha, I'm with you on that "
I would find little known facts about Henry the eighth interesting ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
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Most single women get bombarded with:
Hi
How are you?
Up to much?
Plans for the weekend?
Let's fuck
Its boring. For me, I do summarily dismiss these messages.
Ask an interesting question.
Read the person's profile and try to gauge what they might be interested in and maybe ask a question about that.
Its not a magic formula for a reply but its so much better than anything listed above.
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