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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"If they see me then they are like minded, so what is the issue?"
Not everyone here is "likeminded". Have read complaints from both men and women having been recognised and threatened to be exposed. It's great that you and many others feel safe, but many people don't and fear their lives ruined, so I guess that is all right that some people show their faces and others don't. |
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I don't have the 'balls' to post a face pic on here
Although I have sent full frontal nudes to people who I've chatted to and built up a bit of trust with
Have to admit though I do enjoy a face to face wank on Skype now and again
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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago
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I'm get why some people would rather not show Thier face , but I do, and if someone recognises me, then where are on here too doing exactly what I'm doing. And it fact that's a turn on  |
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"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?"
It’s a big no no for us!
Other people to consider, and of course ourselves. |
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We don't care at all. Our families know already what we do and have done for many years.
As for being recognised on here. Someone a few doors down from us messaged us lol. We've been recognised in shops but no one comes and says hi, they only send a message saying "seen u in morrisons at so and so time"
Life to short to be worried about being recognised and if they have a problem with us doing what we do, it's thier problem not ours. |
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"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?
It’s a big no no for us!
Other people to consider, and of course ourselves."
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Well personally we don't put our faces on here publicly. Mainly due to the nature of the site and more specifically to avoid creepy behaviour from certain users. How ever you have to accept the risk of any photo you put on here being misused and/or used to recognise you. It's a risk assessment. And yes someone did recognise Mrs still from our photos. It was someone who knew our eldest adult daughter a was very creepy about her being her mum. So this was unpleasant by part of the risks on here.
However it's not a secret we're swingers. Although we don't going telling everyone we don't keep it a secret, we're not ashamed. Lots of our freinds and family know. Also we are naturist in the vanilla world and not ashamed. We are happy to be naked in appropriate public spaces and would have no issue being in any publication or show covering naturism. So although we personally would do this on here we totally understand that to some it isn't a problem being seen and the accept the potential problems with this. |
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I totally agree. Always amazed at seeing graphic (but awesome) videos with peoples faces in them.
More power to them but I couldn’t imagine doing that. We are pretty conservative with sending face pics, as we have family to consider.
As far as nudity, we show what we feel comfortable with |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"There's some naïve people. And some people with no friends or relatives or kids or employment. "
Yep.
It's not just about you. Whatever your view on open-mindedness and whether you care who sees you as a swinger or not, there are usually other people in your life that have no choice in your decisions.
Especially family. |
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"There's some naïve people. And some people with no friends or relatives or kids or employment.
Yep.
It's not just about you. Whatever your view on open-mindedness and whether you care who sees you as a swinger or not, there are usually other people in your life that have no choice in your decisions.
Especially family. "
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The only reason our faces aren't public is because we've little ones and I don't want them impacted by what we choose to do in our spare time.
Am I afraid of anyone else seeing me on here, absolutely not they are here for the same reasons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always amazed at how many post face and nudity pics on here - not afraid of being recognised by family, friends, colleagues or employers?"
Some do and some don't |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"We are all here for the same reason so why not "
I do not think everyone is here for the same reasons. A majority might be here for sex with other people but many are just interested in the lifestyle and the forums. Many profiles do say "I do not meet, just here for the Forum" or similar, or not meeting at the moment, or taking a break, and yet they are active in the forums and looking at our profile. Others are simply here as voyeurs, using it as a porn site. So no, not everyone is here for the same reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all here for the same reason so why not "
I would not agree we all on here same reason. I not just talking men wanking. I had ex partner that like looking at swing site top shelf mags etc turned her on but no way would she consider swinging even soft swing . She found looking real people more turn on than porn sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know exactly what you mean OP.
I heard a horror story from an old friend and his wife who had face/nude pics on here. Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared all around, then shared around the estate they lived on. They took some grief for it and left Fab not long after |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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"I know exactly what you mean OP.
I heard a horror story from an old friend and his wife who had face/nude pics on here. Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared all around, then shared around the estate they lived on. They took some grief for it and left Fab not long after "
"Somebody from his work recognised the couple, and it got shared..."
This is why we do not share the views that we are all here for the same reasons and that anyone who recognises you here are like mindedpeople. |
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