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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have any guys ever had any success, by posting a meet request and someone replying and meeting up with you for playtime?
I can imagine it works for females and couples, but not so much for single guys? |
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Guess alot will depend on type of meet, timing, date and yes unfortunately what you are like. There's someone for everyone on here just not everyone will want you. Male,female, couple, CD or TV it won't make a difference, yes some will have more success than others but that's the way of the world unfortunately. |
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The meet feature on here can be hit and Miss. In part that’s because people often don’t bother reading the detail. Our only successful use of it was when we posted a meet whilst in Cornwall, clearly saying we were in Cornwall. We got loads of approaches from people who were near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.
Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you. |
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There problem with posting meets at a club, is there's no incentive to communicate in advance. I've posted where I will be, people know what I look like and can just turn up. If they start talking and we play unless the specifically tell us they saw the meet posted we don't know if that influenced them to go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It doesn't work for us! We'll put a meet up when we're going to a club and get little interest, which probably stems from the thread of the club night. "
Oh really? I thought you'd get plenty of interest, maybe if you were a bit closer to Bath. You'd get more interest  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The meet feature on here can be hit and Miss. In part that’s because people often don’t bother reading the detail. Our only successful use of it was when we posted a meet whilst in Cornwall, clearly saying we were in Cornwall. We got loads of approaches from people who were near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.
Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you."
Fingers crossed, I'm always up for being a 'third'  |
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"Nope never works women and couples get all the fun aha "
Given we exclusively meet single guys, I can guarantee that multiple guys have definitely had fun!
But I totally get your pain, having been on here as a single guy!
However my gf can add a status on her single profile and have a guy turn up and be fucking her within 15 minutes without any real effort! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I haven't actually posted any meets for a while, I think the last time I did, was over a year ago on my old profile. But nothing ever come/cum of it. 
I'm thinking of getting out there and putting more effort into this site lately, and was just wondering how succesful guys have been.
Maybe I can break the mould and get a meet from a request...  |
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"Have any guys ever had any success, by posting a meet request and someone replying and meeting up with you for playtime?
I can imagine it works for females and couples, but not so much for single guys?"
Always work for me. Usually people from friends list are first to approach and gets priority. |
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No nothing,
Will still occ’ly post one as I am the eternal optimist..
I honestly don’t think couples or single fems even look at them, why would they? they get enough attention as it is so don’t have to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been on here a few years now have tried different types of meete whether it be social, asking to get to chat to people to looking for a meet actively , non of which seem to get a response .
Don't know if I just don't tickle the fancy of women around here or if I get drowned out in the mass messages that apparently get sent.
As a generally average lookong guy with an average cock who can struggle socially at times due to being neurodivergent this site can defiantly be more of a hindrance on mental health than positive for someone who is genuinely looking to have a good time and enjoy others company |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The meet feature on here can be hit and Miss. In part that’s because people often don’t bother reading the detail. Our only successful use of it was when we posted a meet whilst in Cornwall, clearly saying we were in Cornwall. We got loads of approaches from people who were
near where we live offering to come round 5 minutes later! Luckily there was a very obliging chap 15 miles away and a fun evening was had by all.
Don’t give up OP, it’s ultimately a numbers game. If we’re in the market for a third, we might reach out to you."
And a lot of people put up m mm mf ff tv/ts then when you go to message them it says no to single guys and you can't message what is that all about don't get it. I put an event up for a hotel tomorrow i had booked an executive suite people were asking me questions and then blocking me so i took it down women and me couples would get attention all the time this site is 80% ,men |
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"Guess alot will depend on type of meet, timing, date and yes unfortunately what you are like. There's someone for everyone on here just not everyone will want you. Male,female, couple, CD or TV it won't make a difference, yes some will have more success than others but that's the way of the world unfortunately. "
There are also some on here who couldn't score in a barrel of fannies. |
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