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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

As a fella, I get well chuffed when I get a wink but im guessing you ladies get loads.. Do they actually register with you or do you just go with the messages.?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a fella, I get well chuffed when I get a wink but im guessing you ladies get loads.. Do they actually register with you or do you just go with the messages.? "

Wink away, unless it states on the profile that they dont like or acknowledge them. This is where reading profiles comes into play and sadly a lot of people dont which causes hostile email replies and blocked members.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a fella, I get well chuffed when I get a wink but im guessing you ladies get loads.. Do they actually register with you or do you just go with the messages.? "

I'm afraid I just hit the 'delete all' button.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like winks

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"As a fella, I get well chuffed when I get a wink but im guessing you ladies get loads.. Do they actually register with you or do you just go with the messages.?

I'm afraid I just hit the 'delete all' button. "

Yep, me too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just delete . I don't have time to reply to messages so not going to respond to a wink

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By *inktherapyCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


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I'm afraid I just hit the 'delete all' button. "

and me

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon

Winks to me are like photos being fab'd, it's nice and flattering but they don't prompt a response, if indeed that was what the winker wanted from the winkee

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We like winks. It brings forward people that we might not otherwise have seen as we don't go in for searches really. Then the winker can be looked over and if its someone we like, we'll wink right back. If not, we'll hit delete and no harm done. Think that if you approach it not expecting a response to a wink, then you're not going to be disappointed if you don't get one x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never looked at my winks or friend requests.

My view = if you want to talk to me, make an effort. I don't wink or invite at people, I expect the same in return.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We would prefer a message, can't say we have ever responded to winks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prefer messages. But it does get our attention.

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon

We use winks as a way of letting people know we like what we see, and hoping they like what they see when they check us out.

It saves cluttering up their inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just wink back if I like the profile and leave it up to them to send a message.

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By *lare GTV/TS  over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I get several winks each week. If the winker's profile says little I delete the wink. If the profile is of interest I will send a message saying 'thank you for the wink'. Occasionally someone will send a reply back.

Therefore, winks achieve little in my experience. As has been mentioned before a well written message is much more interesting and acceptable.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple  over a year ago

Herts

Admittedly, I don't even look at them. Same as friend requests, I just hit "delete all".

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mr sends winks often; I never send any.

When we receive winks I'll very occasionally view their profile but thats as far as it goes for me.

Its like everything else - what one person likes another finds pointless.

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By *er himWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"We use winks as a way of letting people know we like what we see, and hoping they like what they see when they check us out.

It saves cluttering up their inbox."

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By *inkyKentishCoupleCouple  over a year ago

London

winks from cpls are looked at while winks from single guys are deleted straight away.

Sorry guys but as there are so many you need to make an effort to be different.

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By *evilwolfCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire


"winks from cpls are looked at while winks from single guys are deleted straight away.

Sorry guys but as there are so many you need to make an effort to be different."

Upside-down look-no-hands winking perhaps?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We like winks, either a cheeky "hey look at me" or a flirty hey I'm checking you out, we often respond and it does bring people to our attention that wouldn't normally see

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By *olfcartweaselCouple  over a year ago

Melrose

We try and acknowledge them when we can x

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have my wink notification turned off so I would never know who has winked at me unless I go and look....but seeing as I never bother, it's pointless sending a wink to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm afraid I just hit the 'delete all' button.

and me"

and us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like winks"
we like winks too, feel free to take a peek at us and wink if you like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I respond to winks.

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