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By *ubyMoon OP Woman
over a year ago
Newport, Isle of Wight |
for anyone who does anal, how much do you clean up beforehand? i've had guys try to sink a finger in the back door without checking if it's clean and. well. a) ASK first, jeez but b) i'm surprised they're not squeamish about encountering any you-know-what. i know i would be, especially if any rimming was on the table.
what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care? |
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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago
Tamworth |
I think I read that professionals don't eat for so many hours before doing it and then take Imodium too on the day. Obviously you need to clean it all out throughly if it's planned. But something like this isn't always planned is it lol
I think for a guy, if you're willing to play in that area you better suck it up if something happens. Not literally lol . I've heard stories of guys being real jerks after an accident has occurred because planning didn't take place. If it bothers the guy that much don't do it. Simple as that. And if something does go wrong, be a fucking gent about it. |
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Fully douched until clean but also take a supplement called ‘flawless for men’ that cleans the pipes.. 
Have played with ladies that enjoy anal but have always stopped any play if not prepped. Totally understandable.
But, be prepared to get sandy if you play in the sandpit.  |
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Fully douched and clean for every meet/ club even though i don’t do anal there.
Just in case 
Don’t find it particularly onerous to do if you’re already showering, doing make up, hair and a cute lingerie outfit. Don’t understand why anyone wouldn’t always be prepared lol x |
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Fully douched is the best way for anal play. Accidents can still happen then even when well douched. If you're going up the chutney tunnel you have to accept you may get a bit of goo on your dick no matter how well prepped the taker has tried to be. |
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Ours is almost always unplanned and spur of the moment. Any you-know-what is just gonna be there. If it's a deal breaker, don't do anal. And as for rimming, her ass is usually well cleaned by me rubbing my cock on it for at least a few minutes before any thoughts of penetration. So any rimming will be much more likely to be my pre_cum, rather than fecal matter. |
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If it's planned, I don't eat for the day, clean out thoroughly.
If it isn't planned, then I expect the partner to be grown up enough to understand shit happens tbh.
If people can't deal with bodily functions and fluids from holes, they probably have no business being near them at all. You just clean up, laugh about it together and move on |
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"for anyone who does anal, how much do you clean up beforehand? i've had guys try to sink a finger in the back door without checking if it's clean and. well. a) ASK first, jeez but b) i'm surprised they're not squeamish about encountering any you-know-what. i know i would be, especially if any rimming was on the table.
what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care?"
Definitely clean do not need no peanuts on my dong
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If you're (the one giving) squeamish about a bit of natural contents of the ass, then you shouldn't be shoving anything in there. As long as the outside is appropriately freshly cleaned, it's just a expected consequence of adhoc spontaneous fun. That said, if you're planning an anal meet, I'd suggest there's an expectation you've put some effort into cleaning out said contents. |
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Anal with my ex was usually spontaneous. Sometimes there was a bit of mess but I always have tissues or toilet roll to hand to sort it out. As others have said, if you’re squeamish about it, don’t do it. Personally, having period sex gives me the ick so I stay away from that. |
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Tangential to the topic, but anyway...
I once literally "fisted the shit out of a lady"
(we are talking about vaginal fisting here).
Mercifully it was on a club "leatherette" bed with plenty of cleaning spray and paper towel available.
It caused me a crisis about "where am I going with all this?!", but I got a lot of supportive messages from both male and female respondents - so I weathered that one-off. |
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Obviously douched and fresh is best, but sometimes spontaneous anal doesn't allow for that. Enjoy the passion, and head for shower straight after.
Mo fuss, and mutual shower normally sets up round 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for anyone who does anal, how much do you clean up beforehand? i've had guys try to sink a finger in the back door without checking if it's clean and. well. a) ASK first, jeez but b) i'm surprised they're not squeamish about encountering any you-know-what. i know i would be, especially if any rimming was on the table.
what do you guys think, do you need someone to be properly cleaned up, in and out, before anal? douching etc? or do you not care?"
Dont care, its a ass at the end of the day cant expect people to be douched all the time.  |
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The wife enjoys anal but has said no to douching, end of the day clean or not there is a risk for accidents. As for playing anally with anyone spontaneously it's a risk you just have to take, personally I've never really let it bother me much. |
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I do so love my bum fun.
If I’m playing on my own, but if meeting and expecting some mutual fun, will always douche beforehand, and tend to be careful with my diet for the previous 24 hours or so.
So far it has worked - touch wood xx
R xx |
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