"The term isn't well liked we are learning
Of course, we are in an era full of snowflakes! X"
It's often the women who are termed unicorns who don't like the name. Calling them snowflakes won't make them easier to meet.
Are you messaging single women? It's often recommended that couples looking for a single woman to to a club, is there one near you you could try? |
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"The term isn't well liked we are learning
Of course, we are in an era full of snowflakes! X
It's so ironic how often people complain about snowflakes! "
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I’m classed under fab as a ‘unicorn’. It’s not a badge I wear with pride. I prefer open meeting. I have been a guest to many couples and have one fantastic couple I see regularly. Same as single guys, to win me over requires trust and respect and mutual attraction. |
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"The term isn't well liked we are learning
Of course, we are in an era full of snowflakes! X
It's often the women who are termed unicorns who don't like the name. Calling them snowflakes won't make them easier to meet.
Are you messaging single women? It's often recommended that couples looking for a single woman to to a club, is there one near you you could try?"
Yes we have had a few but we are picky. We haven’t yet we’re newbies but looking to try one. Just not wanting to go to one and it be mainly single males Any recommendations? |
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"I’m classed under fab as a ‘unicorn’. It’s not a badge I wear with pride. I prefer open meeting. I have been a guest to many couples and have one fantastic couple I see regularly. Same as single guys, to win me over requires trust and respect and mutual attraction."
Understandable! X |
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" We haven’t yet we’re newbies but looking to try one. Just not wanting to go to one and it be mainly single males Any recommendations?"
Most clubs have one night per week which is couples and single females only |
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"The term isn't well liked we are learning
Of course, we are in an era full of snowflakes! X"
Insult the same people your looking for because they don't like being referred to as an object, I don't think that's the best way to go about finding a woman 
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"Why are unicorns so hard to find! X "
Use that word and you cause a stir! Search all the Bull threads, what a difference. In our experience of many many club visits, very few single Ladies go to the nights for couples and single Ladies only. However the nights open to all attract a lot more single Ladies and many are open to playing with couples. |
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"I’m classed under fab as a ‘unicorn’. It’s not a badge I wear with pride. I prefer open meeting. I have been a guest to many couples and have one fantastic couple I see regularly. Same as single guys, to win me over requires trust and respect and mutual attraction."
Just this! X |
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Can’t really say if single women are hard to meet or not as we aren’t looking to meet one .
But when have been to clubs always see lots of single women attend that play with couples.
Maybe that the best way to try and memt some |
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"The term isn't well liked we are learning
Of course, we are in an era full of snowflakes! X
It's often the women who are termed unicorns who don't like the name. Calling them snowflakes won't make them easier to meet.
Are you messaging single women? It's often recommended that couples looking for a single woman to to a club, is there one near you you could try?
Yes we have had a few but we are picky. We haven’t yet we’re newbies but looking to try one. Just not wanting to go to one and it be mainly single males Any recommendations?"
https://m.fabswingers.com/clubs
Have a look here and you will see reviews of clubs in all areas.
Of course you're picky, most people are.  |
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Most couples are seeking the same thing on fab ie a bi fem to join them ,so they have a lot of choice.
It's hard because there has to be a 3 way attraction and you have to offer them something that makes them want to meet you ,so they don't feel as if they're putting on a show or there to fulfil your fantasy only.
Clubs do seem to be a better place to meet single bi fems , judging by other threads.
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When I was single I would very much avoid the first time three some situation. (Not worth the potential fall out)
You also say that you are picky - most people are and single women on here have their choice more than most! |
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"Can’t really say if single women are hard to meet or not as we aren’t looking to meet one .
But when have been to clubs always see lots of single women attend that play with couples.
Maybe that the best way to try and memt some "
Definitely easier as then you can see the interaction between the couple.
Some couples just want woman on woman fun for the man to watch. Many times the woman isn't even bi at all. |
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We’ve been lucky enough to meet several single women.
But we’d just see them as humans and not something mythical.
In terms of FAB, they have the choice of everyone, if they desired, so I would say to make your profile appealing, pics showing both of the couples and be the right mix and respectful, engaging and filth - knowing when to be one or all 
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I can only speak for myself but I would be reluctant to join a couple with no experience. It’s a potential minefield and can and does frequently go wrong.
My advice is to visit a club a few times and get some verifications from single women who have joined you both.
Also include on your profile what a woman could expect if she were to meet you.
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Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people  |
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people "
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn  
Your photos are stunning btw
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn
Your photos are stunning btw
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I'm genuinely of the belief that people look to be offended.
Why people get offended over a non offensive term is beyond us. |
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn
Your photos are stunning btw
I'm genuinely of the belief that people look to be offended.
Why people get offended over a non offensive term is beyond us."
When you force others to wear a label you insist on despite them saying they dislike and are uncomfortable with
Then shout down single women for having an opinion
Then you complain single women don’t want to get naked and vulnerable with you
When you clearly don’t want to hear what we say
You’re looking for a doll, a voiceless toy, that’s your unicorn
Not a single bi women, single bi women have an expectation of being heard, listened to and prioritised as much as you both expect to be
Personally I avoid meeting any couples or singles who don’t take my wants into account and I’d expect anyone else to be the same
Yet in this instance someone is about to copy this and tell me how wrong I am as usual instead of actually listening constructively and maybe even learning
Sad really
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn
Your photos are stunning btw
I'm genuinely of the belief that people look to be offended.
Why people get offended over a non offensive term is beyond us.
When you force others to wear a label you insist on despite them saying they dislike and are uncomfortable with
Then shout down single women for having an opinion
Then you complain single women don’t want to get naked and vulnerable with you
When you clearly don’t want to hear what we say
You’re looking for a doll, a voiceless toy, that’s your unicorn
Not a single bi women, single bi women have an expectation of being heard, listened to and prioritised as much as you both expect to be
Personally I avoid meeting any couples or singles who don’t take my wants into account and I’d expect anyone else to be the same
Yet in this instance someone is about to copy this and tell me how wrong I am as usual instead of actually listening constructively and maybe even learning
Sad really
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No one is forcing anyone to 'wear a label', if someone interacts with you and calls you a unicorn, you are within your rights to ask they don't refer to you as said. If they don't respect that, you're within your rights to cut contact.
If you cut contact and use the block feature, it's actually impossible to be forced on this site.
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn
Your photos are stunning btw
I'm genuinely of the belief that people look to be offended.
Why people get offended over a non offensive term is beyond us.
When you force others to wear a label you insist on despite them saying they dislike and are uncomfortable with
Then shout down single women for having an opinion
Then you complain single women don’t want to get naked and vulnerable with you
When you clearly don’t want to hear what we say
You’re looking for a doll, a voiceless toy, that’s your unicorn
Not a single bi women, single bi women have an expectation of being heard, listened to and prioritised as much as you both expect to be
Personally I avoid meeting any couples or singles who don’t take my wants into account and I’d expect anyone else to be the same
Yet in this instance someone is about to copy this and tell me how wrong I am as usual instead of actually listening constructively and maybe even learning
Sad really
No one is forcing anyone to 'wear a label', if someone interacts with you and calls you a unicorn, you are within your rights to ask they don't refer to you as said. If they don't respect that, you're within your rights to cut contact.
If you cut contact and use the block feature, it's actually impossible to be forced on this site.
Why get offended by something that has zero impact on you?"
Kinda just completely missed my point there didn’t you
I won’t be replying again, there isn’t a point when you’re purposely misunderstanding is there |
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people
Exactly !!!
I was a Unicorn on here for years before being in a couple. The term never offended me but then I am not looking to be offended haha
I was very proud of my unicorn horn
Your photos are stunning btw
I'm genuinely of the belief that people look to be offended.
Why people get offended over a non offensive term is beyond us.
When you force others to wear a label you insist on despite them saying they dislike and are uncomfortable with
Then shout down single women for having an opinion
Then you complain single women don’t want to get naked and vulnerable with you
When you clearly don’t want to hear what we say
You’re looking for a doll, a voiceless toy, that’s your unicorn
Not a single bi women, single bi women have an expectation of being heard, listened to and prioritised as much as you both expect to be
Personally I avoid meeting any couples or singles who don’t take my wants into account and I’d expect anyone else to be the same
Yet in this instance someone is about to copy this and tell me how wrong I am as usual instead of actually listening constructively and maybe even learning
Sad really
No one is forcing anyone to 'wear a label', if someone interacts with you and calls you a unicorn, you are within your rights to ask they don't refer to you as said. If they don't respect that, you're within your rights to cut contact.
If you cut contact and use the block feature, it's actually impossible to be forced on this site.
Why get offended by something that has zero impact on you?
Kinda just completely missed my point there didn’t you
I won’t be replying again, there isn’t a point when you’re purposely misunderstanding is there "
Did I miss the point? I'm not sure I did.
You've said you won't respond, that's the exact same thing you can do to anyone who tries to 'force' anything upon you on the internet.
BTW, just a note on you're previous point, we're definitely not looking for a doll, nor a unicorn. If we're looking for a single lady, we will refer to her as a single lady.
Imagine being offended by something but prejudging someone you don't know. Enjoy your evening |
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"Why are people so vexed by the word unicorn?
Unicorns are rare, and whilst single bi women aren't exactly rare, it's rare a couple can find one to play with...
There is zero malice in the term, chill out people "
Completely agree. We don't use the term specifically, we don't have a problem with it either. It's just a word and someone using it to convey a message.
Hot profile btw
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"Most couples are seeking the same thing on fab ie a bi fem to join them ,so they have a lot of choice.
It's hard because there has to be a 3 way attraction and you have to offer them something that makes them want to meet you ,so they don't feel as if they're putting on a show or there to fulfil your fantasy only.
Clubs do seem to be a better place to meet single bi fems , judging by other threads.
Miss "
Yes, this! So many couples message and it all seems to be about how I fulfill their needs rather than seeing me as a person who also has needs. Or they get frustrated because I can't meet quickly and get passive aggressive and accuse me of not being real. I have verifications from couples, I clearly am real!
It gets annoying after a while and I currently have message filters on for couples despite FFMs being a big favourite of mine. |
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"Why are unicorns so hard to find! X
Why are couples so entitled.
Entitled for simply asking a question ? 
Exactly  "
Have you read the thread or just this post? |
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"Why are unicorns so hard to find! X
Why are couples so entitled.
Entitled for simply asking a question ?
Exactly
Have you read the thread or just this post?
They gave up!
Sorry... he gave up."
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Like many couples a single bi lady is a fantastic treat, which we enjoyed last week.
She commented that she rarely engaged with couples as the predetermined expectations to be a turn off and stifled the fluidity of the experience. Her words, but understand fully, we're just flattered she wants to meet us again. |
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