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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have met people who have said good and bad things about certain clubs but we have decided just to go ourselves an make up our own minds, what do you do ? Do you listen to others or make up your own minds ? |
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We use the review sections, the great book by the sex in the city's guys as well as quizzing them when we can.
We also will take a look at the website and speak to those that have gone and then take the plunge.
club nights are expensive and going to one you know is "crap" or wont be for you seems a tad pointless.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We always try and make informed choices and of course there are some clubs that would just not suit us but the club review section can be quite biased by the regular club goers leaving repeated comments, we've got different friends gone to the same club and both had polar opinions about it so we just go and make our own mind up |
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By *ingerjoWoman
over a year ago
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make your Own minds up
every day ot night at a club is totally different first visit you may have may be good or bad, but i always say try a club at least 3 to 4 times to make your own mind up
thanks jo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"make your Own minds up
every day ot night at a club is totally different first visit you may have may be good or bad, but i always say try a club at least 3 to 4 times to make your own mind up
thanks jo x"
Agree to above , we have been to the same club three times now and it has been completely different on each occasion . We treat a club visit as a night out and if we meet nice people for fun then that's a bonus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like clubs i have been to some very good ones and so i would never visit again
I like clubs because they are just so much easier than meeting off here, you could spend a week plus talking to someone on here, swapping pics, chatting on the phone, etc or whatever you do only to find in the flesh you dont really connect or their car breaks down half a hour before the meet, where as at a club you get ready and go, theres already lots of men there for you to talk to, have a chat and go to a room, and if sparks dont fly there go find another one lol
For me its just the convenience i like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like clubs i have been to some very good ones and so i would never visit again
I like clubs because they are just so much easier than meeting off here, you could spend a week plus talking to someone on here, swapping pics, chatting on the phone, etc or whatever you do only to find in the flesh you dont really connect or their car breaks down half a hour before the meet, where as at a club you get ready and go, theres already lots of men there for you to talk to, have a chat and go to a room, and if sparks dont fly there go find another one lol
For me its just the convenience i like"
Couldn't agree more with the above - clubs are the perfect environment for our style if swinging .
No pretence , no long winded establshishing a friendship first , no let downs , just good old fashioned fun .
And yes , we listen to what folk say about clubs - we learned early on about the reviews being crap as the same old faces keep bugging the club up - the reality is often totally different  |
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go and make your own minds up is best. Swinging is a very varied idea and what suits some does not suit others. 