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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had a video of a big cock wanking over our latest video earlier and absolutely loved it. We didn’t ask for it or expect it but made us both really horny.
So much better than just a cock pic, to know someone is wanking over me and surprised us with the video was such a turn on.
Some people don’t like it but we love surprise tributes x   |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t really appreciate anything that is unsolicited, however horny it might make me in the moment.
It’s disrespectful, it’s most definitely boundary crossing! Furthermore it definitely adds more accounts to my block list.
If you really enjoy unsolicited anything… please advertise so on your profile and you can be inundated  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t really appreciate anything that is unsolicited, however horny it might make me in the moment.
It’s disrespectful, it’s most definitely boundary crossing! Furthermore it definitely adds more accounts to my block list.
If you really enjoy unsolicited anything… please advertise so on your profile and you can be inundated "
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"We had a video of a big cock wanking over our latest video earlier and absolutely loved it. We didn’t ask for it or expect it but made us both really horny.
So much better than just a cock pic, to know someone is wanking over me and surprised us with the video was such a turn on.
Some people don’t like it but we love surprise tributes x "
Depending on my mood I would be aroused, flattered or indifferent. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"We don’t have any problem with that at all. Not that anyone sends any!"
Would do but out of your age range apparently.
There should be a “tick-box” for those who do and those who don’t like tributes. It would make life far simpler…
As for unsolicited, I always now ask first unless it’s someone I know who appreciates them. |
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"We had a video of a big cock wanking over our latest video earlier and absolutely loved it. We didn’t ask for it or expect it but made us both really horny.
So much better than just a cock pic, to know someone is wanking over me and surprised us with the video was such a turn on.
Some people don’t like it but we love surprise tributes x "
Its easy to see why they did it |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised. |
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"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised."
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me personally would never just send ... yes the ladies here are ALL sexy hell and i have no problems getting excited by all the public pics of them, personally i feel that i never meet the ladies accepted features and i am just constantly passed by  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?"
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag! |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!"
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation."
I think you are bypassing the bigger point..... consent!
Anything non consensual isn't welcome.
In the case of the op it was welcomed but for many it wouldn't be. So to take the 'argument' a step further, if the guy had come up to the couple in a club and started wanking over her without asking, I wonder their reaction then? It could be argued that is an extreme example, but it could happen
Your argument of, it's online how would anyone know might be relevant for fab, with their no naming and shaming policy but for many other sites particularly kink that isn't always the case. Word gets round quite easily as it could on fab by people pm-ing and asking who it was. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation.
I think you are bypassing the bigger point..... consent!
Anything non consensual isn't welcome.
In the case of the op it was welcomed but for many it wouldn't be. So to take the 'argument' a step further, if the guy had come up to the couple in a club and started wanking over her without asking, I wonder their reaction then? It could be argued that is an extreme example, but it could happen
Your argument of, it's online how would anyone know might be relevant for fab, with their no naming and shaming policy but for many other sites particularly kink that isn't always the case. Word gets round quite easily as it could on fab by people pm-ing and asking who it was. "
All your points are valid and I agree re; consent but this is the anonymous world of fab where nobody knows you (unless you choose otherwise) so little chance of ostracisation among the “real world” community. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation.
I think you are bypassing the bigger point..... consent!
Anything non consensual isn't welcome.
In the case of the op it was welcomed but for many it wouldn't be. So to take the 'argument' a step further, if the guy had come up to the couple in a club and started wanking over her without asking, I wonder their reaction then? It could be argued that is an extreme example, but it could happen
Your argument of, it's online how would anyone know might be relevant for fab, with their no naming and shaming policy but for many other sites particularly kink that isn't always the case. Word gets round quite easily as it could on fab by people pm-ing and asking who it was.
All your points are valid and I agree re; consent but this is the anonymous world of fab where nobody knows you (unless you choose otherwise) so little chance of ostracisation among the “real world” community."
Who's talking about the real world, vanilla community?
Are we not on fab, discussing something that happened on fab? The fab community? And I also bought in the kink community as a comparison. So you could be ostracised within those community's.
Try doing a tribute to someone in the 'real world" and I think ostracisation would be the least of your worries! |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation.
I think you are bypassing the bigger point..... consent!
Anything non consensual isn't welcome.
In the case of the op it was welcomed but for many it wouldn't be. So to take the 'argument' a step further, if the guy had come up to the couple in a club and started wanking over her without asking, I wonder their reaction then? It could be argued that is an extreme example, but it could happen
Your argument of, it's online how would anyone know might be relevant for fab, with their no naming and shaming policy but for many other sites particularly kink that isn't always the case. Word gets round quite easily as it could on fab by people pm-ing and asking who it was.
All your points are valid and I agree re; consent but this is the anonymous world of fab where nobody knows you (unless you choose otherwise) so little chance of ostracisation among the “real world” community.
Who's talking about the real world, vanilla community?
Are we not on fab, discussing something that happened on fab? The fab community? And I also bought in the kink community as a comparison. So you could be ostracised within those community's.
Try doing a tribute to someone in the 'real world" and I think ostracisation would be the least of your worries! "
No, obviously not the vanilla world, honestly!!
It was you who mentioned the real world and ostracisation when you referenced meets and munches, which literally has nothing to do with tributes on fab.
Over and out, I’ve had enough lol. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Personally I don't see the point of them.
Having spent and still spend time in the kink community, anything unsolicited is a very big no and likely to have you ostracised.
18 positive and 9 negative comments on here about this so maybe it’s more popular than you think. And how would you be ostracised?
I did say 'personally' which means that's what I think not necessarily others.
You would be ostracised by being banned from events and munches, your name would go around the community for being untrustworthy as doing anything without consent is seen as a big red flag!
But the thing with tributes is that they are performed online so there is a certain amount of protection from anonymity. Nobody is going to know who the hell anybody else is so little chance of ostracisation.
I think you are bypassing the bigger point..... consent!
Anything non consensual isn't welcome.
In the case of the op it was welcomed but for many it wouldn't be. So to take the 'argument' a step further, if the guy had come up to the couple in a club and started wanking over her without asking, I wonder their reaction then? It could be argued that is an extreme example, but it could happen
Your argument of, it's online how would anyone know might be relevant for fab, with their no naming and shaming policy but for many other sites particularly kink that isn't always the case. Word gets round quite easily as it could on fab by people pm-ing and asking who it was.
All your points are valid and I agree re; consent but this is the anonymous world of fab where nobody knows you (unless you choose otherwise) so little chance of ostracisation among the “real world” community.
Who's talking about the real world, vanilla community?
Are we not on fab, discussing something that happened on fab? The fab community? And I also bought in the kink community as a comparison. So you could be ostracised within those community's.
Try doing a tribute to someone in the 'real world" and I think ostracisation would be the least of your worries!
No, obviously not the vanilla world, honestly!!
It was you who mentioned the real world and ostracisation when you referenced meets and munches, which literally has nothing to do with tributes on fab.
Over and out, I’ve had enough lol."
Meeting and going to munches are real world?
Having looked briefly at your profile, compared to someone webcamming they are real world I guess, certainly not online. I can understand where you are coming from a little more but still think you are confusing real world with fab and online reality. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"I really think you’ve confused yourself lol.
Anyway enough of this nonsense, cheerio  "
Don't think so! Munches and meeting people are usually done through the community, ie fab or a kink site, so while real, they are only known about through the communities involved. As someone who is involved with both communities and have had many meetings, attended many munches, I have only done so through those communities, not the 'real world!'. You don't have to spend your life on t'intenet, get out there and meet people. Much more fun! Certainly more fun than wanking over someone's photo. In my opinion! |
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"ME TOO X"
Started to read this then gave up. Consent ?
If you don't consent, and you see an attachment on the mail...don't open it.
If you open it, you opening Pandoras Box. Fab is a place where you aren't sure of what you will see, but it def won't be a p8c of a bunch of flowers and a link to the Sonnets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ME TOO X
Started to read this then gave up. Consent ?
If you don't consent, and you see an attachment on the mail...don't open it.
If you open it, you opening Pandoras Box. Fab is a place where you aren't sure of what you will see, but it def won't be a p8c of a bunch of flowers and a link to the Sonnets. "
I’m saying I love tributes? |
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