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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
Our current limit is 30-66 but it is a guideline. We are considering to make it 40-66, mostly because we find difficult to find common points of conversation with people of much different ages, so socials end up being no good for everyone involved. However, at organised socials, clubs or parties, we do not have any age limits, we would talk and even play with any couple that we fancy of any age if they fancy us and click with each other. |
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As an older male my limits are really based upon the person. If they’re able to hold a good conversation it’s a definite plus, age is irrelevant, I’ve had nice conversations with 25 year olds and 75 year olds. I’ve also found monosyllabic 50 year olds who I simply couldn’t speak to.
I’m not good with text speak, I simply don’t get exposed to it not having young kids. |
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"Our age range is 50 to 74.
We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that"
God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely  |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
The dot in the i |
I leave them at a decade either side of my own age although I prefer similar age to myself
I’ve had relationships with both older and younger and it’s just not my cuppa personality, each to their own and all that jazz |
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For longer solo meets in private or threesomes with me, Miniskirt prefers mature gentlemen, generally 40+.
Because she finds older guys more interesting for the 'date' part of solo meets. She likes men who can entertain her out of bed, not just in it.
But she probably wouldn't refuse a nice guy at a club or an outdoor meet just because he was younger, provided he ticked all her boxes (tall, well hung, handsome, interesting, intelligent, etc).
For me (Driver) I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable with a girl under 30 - but then again, if the chemistry is there, why refuse just because of age.
Also, I find women in their 50s who have kept themselves in great shape and are still very enthusiastic about sex extremely alluring.
Fortunately, I happen to live with such a woman  
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"35 to 60 for us.
We have a 35 year old son so the lower age will move year on year."
Quite recently, I had sex with a woman five years younger than my eldest daughter. It didn't actually feel weird at all - although I had previously worried that it would.
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"Our age range is 50 to 74.
We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that
God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely "
who are you, english teachers!!!!!! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Our age range is 50 to 74.
We will happy meet anyone of any age socially but understandably very few people are genuine here for just social interaction so we stick with that
God! Please replace happy with happily and genuine with genuinely
who are you, english teachers!!!!!!"
No. They're just intelligent people who don't want accidently to sound ignorant.
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"Do you set an age gap limit (younger/older) on the people you’re willing to meet with and if so what’s your range?"
Nothing set in stone but for me personally, I think if I was looking to meet with a woman under 25 at my age it would feel a bit creepy to me but regardless of age (older/same/younger) it’s them as a person that would be what drives my decision. So I’d be more influenced by things like if there a connection and how good that connection was that would sway me more  |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
The age range that men put on their profile is often derided ( by forum commentators) as being to wide because of the extremes when really it is often because they could not be bothered to change the default. However i have met all ages at social events,parties and clubs etc and don't want to be prescriptive. For women of course it's a useful tool to be able to cut down the amount of unsolicited messages to a manageable number of those within a few years of their sweet spot. |
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I (Mr) go by attraction more than age.
Mrs has a range of 25ish to 50. It tends to be a bit fluid depending on initial attraction but that is a rule of thumb.
We do get quite the number that still argue or get offensive when this is pointed out. |
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