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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognised a woman of a couple just a couple of days ago.
I did a double take, and then went on with my day.
Of course, for a moment, the fantasy of introducing myself and it leading to a great session entered my mind, briefly, but the reality is likely to be very different.
I just walked on by, thinking wow she's as hot as her photos.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
A bit cliche but If I saw you in the street I would probably smile at you and just say "have a bab day" and carry on.... Unless you said something back of course to acknowledge you knew what I was referring to |
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
It would be very difficult to recognise you from your photo's. |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
I've actually been noticed in the vanilla world at a underground rave withy username being shouted across a smoking area  needless to say as im a host I just automatically answered without thinking lmao  |
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
Walk on by, fab & vanilla life are totally separate, I wouldn't be impressed if someone came upto me in the street.
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I don’t think I would recognise you from your photos , unless you were naked!
The protocol here is not to acknowledge in the street as you might be alarmed or with others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been recognised a couple of times. Always had good interactions with them. One was a friend of a friend and one was a couple from the family of a friend who knew who I was.
Not had an issue with people coming up to me as long as they do it in a dignified way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I would say you both look fab. Them I would message you both later saying hi. |
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By *enk15Man
over a year ago
Evesham |
If I recognized someone in the street and had never spoken to them, I would walk on.
Not sure I would want someone who recognized me to come up to me in the street, I'm not a fan of surprise socializing lol |
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We’ve been messaged to ask if we were in a hotel foyer - it was us but we said no 
We’ve also been asked where our locations are for our pics…but we never disclose them - not that we’d take pics at the same place anyway
I would never approach anyone in the real world even if I recognised them as you don’t know if they want to be recognised and have a chat.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would certainly walk by, but might message you on here later.
I had to remove my photos after someone recognised me at Morrisons and followed me home. Knocked on my door to see if I wanted to have sex with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I would say hello. It might be a bit awkward, but its also nice to meet fellow swingers - it's like being in a secret society and acknowledging other members! lol |
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My ex secretary found me on here
I started chatting to her , not knowing . After a bit she said we knew one another and if I wanted to leave it there and not take any thing further
We didn’t and have meet one another a few fun times now !
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
It would be really hard to recognise you from your public gallery. There is one pic with a recognisable bedroom, so if somebody knew you already, they might put 2+2 together. Also the wrist watch and bracelet combo in one pic. Apart from that, you look great, but so do many other people!
If I did recognise someone, I would be really careful about how I would deal with that. If I was in a swingers club, then yes for sure I'd say something. In Tesco, probably not. If I was in a vanilla bar, I might drop a Fab hint, depending on the circumstances, but wouldn't push it.
I'd hate to embarrass someone or even worse, out them to others. But I would enjoy an impromptu shared moment if it wouldn't do any harm.
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I've been recognised by few people who work in same building as me.
As I was on our reception, and greet everyone, they have said hi, walked on and messaged me here afterwards, just to say they recognised me. I was fine with that. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"We've seen ppl when out in Notts. Would never say anything even slightly fab related unless they were to bring it up.  "
Is this a Notts thing ? I got recognised recently from a photo, in a club from the kids school once , there are various members living very close to me and at my gym ! Is it like this in other cities ? |
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I went to a swingers club and saw this women. Next morning went into work and walked in and saw her sitting a few desks away from me. Poor thing kept looking down every time she saw me. Well after a few days she looked at me and smiled. I think she’s aware that her secret is safe with me. |
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We had a guy message us a few times saying he knew who we were. He had the names all wrong, but he insisted he knew us. We suggested if he knew us he should come to the house and knock on the door with his cock out. It was a quiet evening and we didn't hear of any arrests. |
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We recognised our good friends which was amusing and a bit scary at the time. Now it’s just normal to talk about fab with them.
We’re more concerned that other friends have been shown pictures by someone else on here.. after we found out we changed our profile, tamed it down etc. Now we get little comments made about swinging by a few of our friends which is a bit embarrassing  |
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We’ve recognised a few people on here and just got on with our day. It’s fun for me and Kieran to ask would you have ever thought they’d be on here etc… but that’s it. We’d never approach them as we see this as completely separate to our vanilla life (I know not everyone does that).
I’m certain some people have recognised us but have hopefully kept it to themselves and not told others lol
Sarah xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got recognised at work, the guy messaged me and I deleted the message. He then called my workplace 70+ times to speak to me. 
70 times!!!! What did your work colleagues think of that, lol"
I wasn’t impressed and quite frankly was scared, our security guard was pissed off and was on alert if he came in  |
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"I got recognised at work, the guy messaged me and I deleted the message. He then called my workplace 70+ times to speak to me.
70 times!!!! What did your work colleagues think of that, lol
I wasn’t impressed and quite frankly was scared, our security guard was pissed off and was on alert if he came in "
What an awful thing to do.
I hope all is resolved now? |
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
Walk by, whats on fab stays on fab, surprised to find myself in the company of a couple I'd met in a club while on a birdwatching tour, even though Id played with the lady we never mentioned it all day. |
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"I recognised a woman of a couple just a couple of days ago.
I did a double take, and then went on with my day.
Of course, for a moment, the fantasy of introducing myself and it leading to a great session entered my mind, briefly, but the reality is likely to be very different.
I just walked on by, thinking wow she's as hot as her photos. "
I am praying it wasn't me lol. I would hate to be recognised in public, unless it's out of area. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"We’ve recognised a few people on here and just got on with our day. It’s fun for me and Kieran to ask would you have ever thought they’d be on here etc… but that’s it. We’d never approach them as we see this as completely separate to our vanilla life (I know not everyone does that).
I’m certain some people have recognised us but have hopefully kept it to themselves and not told others lol
Sarah xx"
I met people I know from vanilla world in swinging I did not (with the exception of being recognised from a photo).
A younger me be would have been scared but now I'm like oh did not expect you to be here. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?
Walk by, whats on fab stays on fab, surprised to find myself in the company of a couple I'd met in a club while on a birdwatching tour, even though Id played with the lady we never mentioned it all day. "
I think it matters of you are mates outside of fab. I have Fab freinds crib the scene that have become freinds in the vannila word. |
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By *riciaWoman
over a year ago
Blaydon |
Whilst shopping in TK MAxx a couple of years ago, a couple at the other end of the rail looked up and smiled, and said "you look different with clothes on!"
I then realised that the last time we had met was a week before on a four poster bed in our local club!
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Once saw the lady of a couple from fab while crossing the road, she was going in the other direction and as we crossed we did have some eye contact.
Initially was thinking I know her from somewhere but couldn’t place it, wasn’t until 10mins later that I clicked it was fab.
No idea if she recognised me or not but I wouldn’t dream of saying anything and not did I message their profile saying I’d seen her (find that just creepy lol).
My lasting thought was, she does look like her fab pics, but shorter than I imagined lol |
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I get recognised all the time , my hair is a giveaway
Gym, shopping , in work and even driving my car
Only times I haven’t liked it really was when I’ve been approached at the time with my 25 year old daughter where they thought she was my friend and spoke about fab !!!
Messaging me after you have seen me is ok but not out with my kids ffs lol |
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We once met a couple I knew at a swingers club. We all laughed and just took it in our stride. Chatted about the lifestyle and had a few drinks together. It was all good as we are all in the same boat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep this world and real world acres apart.
Unless I want to invite one from the other.
I don’t want to be recognised and if I did see someone who I recognised I feel there is an unwritten code of sorts of silence and respecting one’s privacy.
So one takes precautions, don’t meet or visit establishments too close to home.
Not putting oneself out there and attracting attention.
I can on occasion see in excess of 150 people in a day so mums the word |
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We were served in a restaurant recently by someone we’ve seen on here but apart from saying “that’s Fab” when she brought our food we didn’t let on. Think it would have been kind of unfair to put her in that position knowing she had to continue serving us!
We try and keep our photos incognito and hope we can’t be recognised but appreciate that with all hubby’s tattoos (and a couple of more conspicuous face pics we’ve added along the way) there’s a pretty good chance now lol.
Mrs B x |
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I would never approach someone from fab in a vanilla environment even if I recognised them , I’d maybe message them later on fab…
I’ve been recognised a few times now in my home town and was subsequently messaged about it and we had a giggle , I think I’d clam up if someone approached me face to face about fab in a vanilla setting  |
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"I got recognised at work, the guy messaged me and I deleted the message. He then called my workplace 70+ times to speak to me.
70 times!!!! What did your work colleagues think of that, lol
I wasn’t impressed and quite frankly was scared, our security guard was pissed off and was on alert if he came in "
It is very stalker like of them doing that.
Glad you managed to get rid of them. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
We would hope that, if anyone recognised us from here, they could respect people's discretion and maybe just message on here instead of trying to come over and speak. We certainly wouldn't ever just swan over to someone we've seen on here and pipe up about Fab...
C x |
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I used to work in the same business as someone (the female of a couple who met single males) who is on Fab. I never once considered letting them know I too was a member of Fab, as Fab and normal life are 2 separate things.
I also lived in the same village as a couple I used to bump into in clubs. Never once acknowledged them when I saw them around (pub or shops). They did say one night in a club that they apprieciated it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was walking down the street and spotted someone I recognised I'd walk on by , some people like to keep this life and their everyday life private and might feel uncomfortable being approached |
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We have been recognised, usually because it’s my hair that gives us away, one couple winked at us in a bar in town and just said.. hope things are fab with you guys.. no need to interfere unless invited as you don’t know anyone’s situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I'd deffo say hi but instead of out right blurting it out id drop a few cheeky little hints |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recognised a woman of a couple just a couple of days ago.
I did a double take, and then went on with my day.
Of course, for a moment, the fantasy of introducing myself and it leading to a great session entered my mind, briefly, but the reality is likely to be very different.
I just walked on by, thinking wow she's as hot as her photos. "
Best policy..most like to keep it separate....unless they said to say hi on profile...most probably would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We actually had a couple message us this morning, including a face pic, hubby straight away recognized them.... We politely made our excuses for not wanting to meet. Would have been very awkward.... x |
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Totally depends where it is... shopping, probably not, out at the nudist beach, at a social, club then yes and we've also had people approach us who have recognised us... thats totally fine if in the above context.
Wouldn't appreciate someone approaching me at tesco with my mum lol |
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Walk on by.
There’s public and private; Fab falls into the latter category.
No problem with someone messaging saying they noticed us on Fab providing they weren’t weird and cryptic with it (this has happened before and was most unpleasant). |
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It's all about discretion.
Most likely I would say nothing (especially to a single fem as it might creep them out). In most public instances I would guess that it would be normal not to have verbal communication so to do so would be odd.
If there was cause to say hello or some such I might say something like "Fab day today isn't is?" if they were not with other people, and see if they want to respond accordingly or just continue in a normal world way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't been recognised to my knowledge but have recognised a few, in particular a mature lass who worked in my local bookies. "
I just smiled and created small talk, ie, 'I'm sure I've seen you about' when she served me I said 'that's fab' |
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I display my face and recognised a guy I know who’d done the same.
Noticed he’d viewed my profile and waited to be blocked or messaged… when nothing happened I ended up messaging him to talk about the elephant in the room.
Best way I think. |
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By *M70Couple
over a year ago
fareham |
"Not been recognised but recognised quite a few people, but we are discreet as we hope they would be with us. "
This , seen a few in Asda and in town locally but never made any acknowledgment , it’s quite horny . |
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I was in a supermarket and recognised a couple from fab.
Didn’t say anything, till we met them a couple of times at socials. We had a great laugh about it.
Would never say hi in vanilla world and wouldn’t message either, happy if we meet in person. |
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"We sometimes wonder if we get recognised from our photos and what would people.
If you recognised us would you say hi or walk on by?"
I would do absolutely fuck all, except find your profile when I got home and fabbed a few pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have quite distinctive tattoos so we are terrified of this happening to us. Should we be? We have actually stopped seeing people in our local area because I've been recognised on here. |
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I girl mate of mine who I didn't know was on fab recognised me from the pics of my cock I denied it lol I asked why she thinks that is my cock and she goes because I can see your birth mark on your leg in the pics haha and not many people have got that mark lol |
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By *ullyMan
over a year ago
Near Clacton |
Surely that's the definition of discretion. I would never acknowledge someone I had had sex with if I bumped into them in a store or on the street, just in case someone with them was nosey or not a trusted "friend". If they acknowledge me (I am always alone) then that's different. |
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I've both recognised and been recognised but there's always been some kind of mutual respect by all not to acknowledge it.
One female neighbour eventually spoke to me after several nods, winks and smiles etc as she was on the site without her husbands knowledge and i knew him.
I reassured her that her business was nothing to do with me and she was eventually more bothered that I had seen her bits on her profile photos.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got recognised in ASDA once in Wisbech and the lady came up to us and said sorry but you look so much better in real life then on fab photos and then walked away lol... made our day to get a compliment liek that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been noticed once on a train by a girl sat opposite me. We chatted a bit and exchanged details and ended up meeting later.
Also been noticed and spoke to a few times on the local nudist beach it's great as long as its respectful, they understand boundaries and discretion. |
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"I've actually been noticed in the vanilla world at a underground rave withy username being shouted across a smoking area needless to say as im a host I just automatically answered without thinking lmao "
And this is why I adore you ! Xx |
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By *ltrMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
Recognised my old business partner and wife on here by a tattoo on his leg as had seen it loads of times when playing football , wasn't sure how to broach the subject of been on fab but in the end never got to ask him as passed away after a bike accident : ( |
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