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Do you kiss, when swinging?
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I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker. |
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For me it's what starts the whole thing going. The passionate build up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. |
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I like kissing, it's a big part for me. Tbh without would feel more like a wank just mechanical release |
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"No we don't "
Can understand that |
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"Very much so"
Nice, it's super sexy |
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"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "
I understand that... But many believe the opposite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
we choose to kiss xx A & G |
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Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!
People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback  |
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By *cott14Man
over a year ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
Absolutely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watching Mrs kissing someone while their hands are all over each other will always be amazing, just the right amount of naughtiness and jealousy |
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We like to kiss - sex without it just feels a little strange to us! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like to kiss - sex without it just feels a little strange to us! X"
I agree!!! |
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"Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!
People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback "
We don't prefer bareback but I struggle to see the hypocrisy in our choice not to kiss |
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Absolutely! Love a good kiss and it’s an instant panty wetter if it’s really good.
Kink (f) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, we don't either. It's something we prefer to keep for ourselves. We know it's not for everyone, so when guys pass up the chance to meet because of it we fully understand. But they are missing a whole lot more than a kiss when they do.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely, it's part of the foreplay for us!
People who don't kiss but are are happy to fuck are hypocrites in our eyes! Especially when they say they prefer bareback
We don't prefer bareback but I struggle to see the hypocrisy in our choice not to kiss"
We don't do bareback either, or kiss. We haven't got anything to say about those that do. Each to there own, definitely doesn't make us hypocrites.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe kisses are great. |
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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago
Romford |
We always said no kissing but it just happened naturally ! Looking back it was strange for us to feel kissing is personal but it’s alright for a guy to lick Ranes pussy ! |
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We both love the kissing side of play, adds to the build up for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be the odd one out, barely kiss my wife lol just feels a tad weird lol |
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Yes, Normally the 1st thing that happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, Wife never kisses others - only me!
She thinks that is far to intimate but has no worries about taking a cock? - Nowt strange as women
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Yesssss, always. It's one of the most important things for us. It just sets the whole sex thing up to follow.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes…… there has to be intimacy  |
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"Yesssss, always. It's one of the most important things for us. It just sets the whole sex thing up to follow. "
Agree as I've said before, it's not a deal breaker but it is rather sexy |
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"Yes…… there has to be intimacy "
Yes agree with that |
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"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "
There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry"  |
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"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is.
There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry" "
... but yes, we do kissing  |
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"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is.
There's nothing wrong with "keyless entry" "
Ha, you beat me to it!  |
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"Very much so"
Very glad to hear that  |
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We do, we also kiss when we're not swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous."
We are exactly the same
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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago
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As new people to this life style
We have discovered this is a thing ….or more important
It’s a not allowed thing for some people
Each to their own
But if our lips can’t touch then your genitals are absolutely not getting touched
It’s just fuckin weird
In our humble opinion |
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Kissing is a big part of the whole build up, it's not a deal breaker for us though if they don't as we respect others need's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As new people to this life style
We have discovered this is a thing ….or more important
It’s a not allowed thing for some people
Each to their own
But if our lips can’t touch then your genitals are absolutely not getting touched
It’s just fuckin weird
In our humble opinion "
Calling people ‘fuckin weird’ when you’re new to the lifestyle might not be the best approach? Everyone has a right to choose what they allow or don’t, surely?
HW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, we don’t. We like to keep a little something for ourselves and we’re not really arsed if some think that’s ridiculous.
We are exactly the same
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So are we x |
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Our first meet was without kissing, it lacked something.
Kissed on every meet since, it's part of the foreplay and a big turn on.
Being kissed whilst another guy kisses my neck, sucks my nipples or is eating me is going to get me gushing ?? x x |
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"Our first meet was without kissing, it lacked something.
Kissed on every meet since, it's part of the foreplay and a big turn on.
Being kissed whilst another guy kisses my neck, sucks my nipples or is eating me is going to get me gushing ?? x x"
What an extremely sexy reply to the post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy kissing but it’s not a deal breaker |
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Kissing is a must for me. Tried meets before without kissing and it just did not feel right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way people get all worked up about couples that don’t kiss kind of proves the point of how important kissing is and why some choose not to do it with others. |
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Huge turn on for me. I have played without but I felt the fact that we didn't - and I was conscious of having to remember. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can definitely see a point on both sides of it, kissing is great in the lead up to sex but for that reason I can see why couples would like to keep that to themselves |
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"Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own. I'm not a big kisser only with certain people. And I also don't give a fuck what strangers on the Internet think about that.
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Lool Amen!!! |
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With woman 100% yes! Guys 50/50. Passion is a must with woman. |
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As Hot Chocolate once sang:
It started with a kiss.
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We have no issues with kissing but we get why others don’t and it’s no one else’s business anyway.
We have friends that don’t kiss and they don’t have any problems finding meets.
I’m not sure why some people have such strong feelings on this subject if you like kissing then don’t meet people that don’t it’s really that simple.. |
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Kissing is good for us. We both think it makes it more intimate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We respect others boundaries but do prefer to include kissing |
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Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx |
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Of course because it’s a great indication  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like trying to Drive a car,without the key.
Sexual penetration is far deeper,than kissing is. "
You are being ironic aren’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx "
Who said romance was Dead? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As Hot Chocolate once sang:
It started with a kiss.
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It was Errol Brown who actually sang it ! |
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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago
42 Wallaby Way Syndey |
No kiss, no meet. Id be drier than the sahara |
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I’m single and prefer not to kiss.
If it’s someone super hot and they prefer it I can, but wouldn’t ever chose too really  |
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No kissing no meeting.
We’ve even been known to snog on a social.
Girly snogging in front of a posh pub full of muggles who’s faces were a picture  |
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Sex without kissing wouldn't feel right for me.
Amy |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."
Always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing i find very important |
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Kissing is so damn sexy. Kissing while fucking… even better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We kiss. A lot. |
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Would only plan to meet with folks I would kiss, but wouldn't necessarily snog in a club setting etc all depends on attraction |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker.
Always. "
Totally! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."
We didn’t at first but now we do and it’s a huge turn on for all involved. |
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I was so pleased when I finally persuaded the wife of the couple I meet to kiss me properly - it made a lot of difference. I sor tof understand why husbands can be against it but I never was when it was my wife kissing other men, in fact I found it a turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not really a kissing person, it doesn't add anything for me but I don't mind if the other person wants to, I can play along with it
The Mr loves kissing but will only do it with me, though he's not overly into play with others anyway |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I really love kissing do used to say i wouldn’t meet couples who doesn’t kiss, but tried it and it was quite hot not being able to kiss her as long as good eye contact . No kissing and no eye contact is awful
What bugs me is when you meet a no-kissing couple for a social and the man starts slobbering over my partner. Married men not behaving as usual ! |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker.
We didn’t at first but now we do and it’s a huge turn on for all involved. "
I guess it's about exploring and finding out what turns you on doesn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both love kissing xx |
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We didn't when we started but we do now  |
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"Watching Mrs kissing someone while their hands are all over each other will always be amazing, just the right amount of naughtiness and jealousy "
This 100%
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
It’s an essential for us, but completely understand why others would choose not to kiss on meets. |
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"It’s an essential for us, but completely understand why others would choose not to kiss on meets."
It's just about respecting isn't it! That's pretty much it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely! Ibl9ve kissing. Don't get why some think its fine to stick their cock I'm my mouth or their tongue I my pussy bit we can't kiss on the lips  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Always kissed on the meet during and afterwards |
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Yes kissing a definitely for us, get the juices going  |
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Yes, kissing is a massive turn on for me. B |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do kissing is the best like good kissers |
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Yes we love kissing however we are also respectful of other people’s boundaries so it’s not a must have for us...... |
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"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx
Who said romance was Dead?"
Romance isn't something I'm here for.. just fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love kissing on meets, would change it a lot for me if someone wasn’t keen on kissing
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By *zlakMan
over a year ago
Lowestoft |
Yes i like to kiss on meets think its all part of the build up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I like to kiss when I meet someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing.. alot of kissing....tongue playing with tongue |
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Kissing is paramount however I have to respect people’s wishes when they state no kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We Yet to try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love kissing….. every time I kiss passionately with a woman who kisses in return with the same passion, it sends my senses into overdrive…….but even without kissing, the intense eye contact with a woman on the same page is just as exciting……without either one sometimes sex is just sex……but with it…..OMFG…..it’s something you will never forget x |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
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"Kissing is a must for me. "
Same for me |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."
Absolutely I do as I love kissing and how much more enjoyable it makes the experience. However I completely understand other peoples or couples might not be comfortable with that and that’s completely fine as well and I’d never presume  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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if i dont fancy someone enough to kiss then we sure as hell are not going to fuck ...
kissing is essential to have sexual fun they go together along with 4play
i would not meet anyone who did not kiss
ive seen cucky cum in his knickers just from watching me kiss without even touching himself thats how powerful a kiss is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if i dont fancy someone enough to kiss then we sure as hell are not going to fuck ...
kissing is essential to have sexual fun they go together along with 4play
i would not meet anyone who did not kiss
ive seen cucky cum in his knickers just from watching me kiss without even touching himself thats how powerful a kiss is "
Gotta agree ..
Kissing is the key to anything that may follow.
Sensual and passionate… |
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Never have and never will . God forbid  |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is one of the best parts! |
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"Very rare I kiss on a fab meet xx
Who said romance was Dead?
Romance isn't something I'm here for.. just fun "
Came here to say this, kissing is romantic for a lot of people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes…… there has to be intimacy
Yes agree with that "
100%...have always kissed when meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a yes from us, kissing isn't a deal breaker but definatley our preference. |
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I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx"
I agree kissing is so important. If the kiss isn’t good or enjoyed… 9 times out of ten the sex is shit aswell |
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"I understand why some people don’t (mainly couples ) , however, I couldn’t play without kissing , for me it’s essential , plus I’m bloody good at it . Xx
I agree kissing is so important. If the kiss isn’t good or enjoyed… 9 times out of ten the sex is shit aswell"
100% agreed xxx |
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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago
Grimsby |
Defiantly it's happens naturally and is part of the build up. Each to their own but I'd find it strange not to in the moment. Hey she is going to let you kiss her all over so why not on the mouth? Just our take but understand we are all different xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they don't kiss you properly, the sex won't be worth it. |
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I love a good snog so a must for me....i even happy with just a snog meet xx |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
What's the point in having sex if there is no kissing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the point in having sex if there is no kissing ."
This! Probably couldn't get to sex without kissing tbh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely. I couldn’t progress without kissing! |
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Yes, I couldn't have sex without kissing it's the best build up.
Mrs |
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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago
SF, NY, London (in that order) |
Kissing is sex for us. Its essential. |
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Absolutely. It’s probably the most important part for me xx |
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We both agree kissing is more intimate
And should be kept to a minimum
Sounds silly but we both could feel a little jealous about kissing but watching each other have sex will somebody else
Is a real turn on for us both
That might sound strange but anything else is a real buzz
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By *ariadx2Couple
over a year ago
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By *ariadx2Couple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
"We both agree kissing is more intimate
And should be kept to a minimum
Sounds silly but we both could feel a little jealous about kissing but watching each other have sex will somebody else
Is a real turn on for us both
That might sound strange but anything else is a real buzz
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
We do kiss. We both love kissing. Feels odd not too kiss to someone attractive when having sex with them. Plus a turn on and huge part of foreplay before getting naked. |
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For us:
Outdoor random quickie meets don’t need to feature kissing.
For longer indoor and solo one to one meets, it seems strange not to kiss.
Not everyone is skilled at kissing though, we’ve met some guys who think kissing is just about exploring larynxes with tongues.
We will always respect other peoples’ choices though and won’t kiss if it is unwelcome.
As for the ‘keep something for ourselves’ part - we choose to keep LOVE for ourselves  |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I love kissing it's one of things I look forward to in a meet   |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
We love kissing it brings the intensity to it all and its definitely in the build up to everything else  |
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Used to have threesomes with a mate and his Mrs. She used to kiss, then decided she wanted to keep it for him. As horny as the sessions were, they definitely lost something, as I love kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like kissing it’s part of the action if that’s what the other person wants to |
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We always ask as we prefer it but some don't, we find it adds to the excitement |
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As for the ‘keep something for ourselves’ part - we choose to keep LOVE for ourselves "
This bit perfectly sums up how we feel about it.
We love kissing!
It's a great indicator of your potential sexual chemistry, and it makes everything so much hotter.
In fact, not kissing would actually be a deal breaker for us,
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then? |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."
I think there are many ways to form a good connection with someone and kissing is only one. If a person or couple want to meet and bring imagination, an open mind and acceptance of others boundaries to the table very good connections can follow. To us this swinging lark is a bit of light hearted fun, we don't want or need to kiss our casual partners, we don't want to make deep connections with people who we'll probably never see again or who will move on to their next meet without a backward glance.
In the past people have told us that sex with us must be cold, robotic, like being with a sex worked the film Pretty Woman is often mentioned and various other rude comparisons. We laugh and think they'd be darn lucky to ever get a chance to find out with that attitude .
The bottom line is some people prefer not to kiss. |
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"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?"
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs? |
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"I have to admit, kissing a woman turns me on. It's not a deal breaker if we don't, but it doesn't half get be going!
I know some ladies don't kiss which is to be totally respected. Especially when meeting a couple.
Do you kiss when swinging or meeting for naughty meets?
Would you say that there's more of a connection through kissing. I find it incredibly sexy but not a deal breaker."
Yes, and yes. |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?"
Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ? |
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"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?
Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ? "
I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question. |
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over a year ago
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Aye … |
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Exchanging saliva and bodily fluid through food hole is so sexy  |
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We both kiss others if we have a meet ,I can't imagine not doing.
I do understand why some couples keep it for themselves,but I wouldn't be able to get warmed up so to speak without a good old snog.
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?
Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?
I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question."
The answer is in your own reply
If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.
I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.
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"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?
Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?
I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question.
The answer is in your own reply
If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.
I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.
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I'll admit to being confused but that's nothing new.  |
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not always but sometimes, depends on the mood of the meet at the time, neither of us have an issue with the other one engaging in it so it's more down to who we are meeting if it's within their comfort zones. Only if its ok with them. |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
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"We know a couple who don't kiss and no BJ's. We thought what's left then?
Does your sex life consist entirely of kissing and BJs?
Yes. Our sex life is just like yours. Dont you kiss or do oral in your sex life ?
I only kiss my husband and I dislike receiving oral. You asked what's left that's why I asked the question.
The answer is in your own reply
If we were to just meet cpls for penetration sex then , it's mechanical . Sex meet is basically everything involved in reaching that climax and I believe kissing and sucking licking included.
I will tell you what is unnecessary, the bifem play is completely waste of time I believe in a play meet.
I'll admit to being confused but that's nothing new.
Your sarcasm seems very primitive dear. need to improvise a bit "
Ok. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
I couldn’t imagine not kissing when meeting someone whether that’s been on a one to one or when I’ve met a couple
On my old couples account when playing out a cuckold scenario kidding was withheld but that was part of the dynamic
I love the intensity of kissing and eyes locked on each other  |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
We respect choices people have here regards to meet . If it fits in our criteria then we meet them .
No issues with people not kissing ,it's just not for us.
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Kissing adds passion- I understand why some couples don’t like that but a recent meet had so many stipulations (don’t kiss, what I could touch, how deep, how hard, what position… where to finish) that I felt that I was just present as a cock for them. Robotic, soulless.
Not meeting them again despite requests  |
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By *tlwMan
over a year ago
Bermondsey |
"I couldn’t imagine not kissing when meeting someone whether that’s been on a one to one or when I’ve met a couple
On my old couples account when playing out a cuckold scenario kidding was withheld but that was part of the dynamic
I love the intensity of kissing and eyes locked on each other "
I couldn’t agree more with you, gorgeous lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very enjoyable with a couple as part of sucking hubby's cock with his wife |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
Smallville |
Love kissing but there are times I’d happily forgo it - like during GBs, swinging parties where the lady has probably has a few before me, or when oral hygiene and teeth is not appealing! In those instances, I thank God I don’t have to do it.
But then again in those instances I probably wouldn’t play as kissing is integral to me.. |
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"I have to kiss.
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Are you the president of the Spanish FA? |
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Kissing is so underrated on here! Love a good kiss |
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over a year ago
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Maybe Fab needs to add kissing to the list of interests.
For me it's essential, a good passionate kiss with hands all over each other is the perfect way to start the fun. |
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over a year ago
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Big fan of kissing personally. Gets the blood pumping and temperature rising in all the right ways |
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Yes! How the hell do you have sex otherwise! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We kiss, both with couple meets and single. I couldn't imagine having a meet and not kissing but I can understand those that prefer not too, keep something back for themselves (anal is "our thing")
Danish x |
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