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How much is too much?
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By *am OP Man
over a year ago
Ilford |
There have been a number of posts with people talking about liking longer or thicker dicks (or both). I'd be interested in exploring the other side - ladies, what would you consider too long or too thick and why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6-7" is perfect. My guy is 7" and that's about just perfect - sometimes slightly too big if he gets very very hard..."
Would a 5.75" in deep positions also be fun |
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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago
southeast , midlands, southern France |
I don't have that problem, I'm what you would call avarage size, both in length and girth. So what I lack in the cock department and more the make up for it in my oral skills |
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Being around the 7.5" mark and having been with a number of women I can say this.
They pretty much all say that the 6"-7" range is the sweet spot.
Occasional cervix banging (which is uncomfortable) but enough to fully fill.
A good girth appears to be favourable too.
But I've not measured so I've no idea of a range.
I myself like a bigger, and girthier cock but... I'm not a woman.
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By *r.XratedMan
over a year ago
Liverpool/New York |
"Kirsty says mine hurts her if I push it in more than half way
Either you are huge or she can't take big (or both). How big are we talking?"
I wouldn't say I'm huge but it's a good size. Other girls have said the same but others could take it well |
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There's a video clip about size that does the rounds which starts;
5in fine
6in fabulous
7in almost too big
8in definitely too big
I'm inclined to agree lol. Not that it's all about the length, girth is noticeable as well. Also ignoring size completely I'd much rather have someone who knows what angles to hit than someone who's just going to pound away. Get me at the right angle and I'll get so wet there's puddles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a video clip about size that does the rounds which starts;
5in fine
6in fabulous
7in almost too big
8in definitely too big
I'm inclined to agree lol. Not that it's all about the length, girth is noticeable as well. Also ignoring size completely I'd much rather have someone who knows what angles to hit than someone who's just going to pound away. Get me at the right angle and I'll get so wet there's puddles. "
Well at 5.75, im top end of fine and just off fabulous, ill take that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The older ive got the more ive come to appreciate being average as its good for balls deep oral, allowed for.anal and fucking hard in deep posutions is all good as the female enjoys it as they can relax knowing they arent going to get hurt. |
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6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.
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By *am OP Man
over a year ago
Ilford |
"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.
Mrs"
I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal? |
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I'd agree with the majority of the female posts on here, 7"-8" is the sweet spot for me. Bigger can really bloody hurt and can restrict positions for play, a wee bit smaller can be ok, not a diddy one though wouldn't do it for me. |
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"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.
Mrs
I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?"
Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo. |
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By *am OP Man
over a year ago
Ilford |
"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.
Mrs
I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?
Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo. "
Wow - at that girth I'm not surprised! At least with a dildo you could control the motion. |
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"6-7" is perfect. 8" is bashing my cervix. I had a guy recently who met us who was only just 5" but his bag of tricks has me squirting loads of times. Not all us ladies want a big dick. Id rather average but girthy around 6-7" girth as its the stretching feeling that gets me off more than length.
Mrs
I've heard that same point about girth and the love of feeling stretched before - although I've also had girls nervous about taking "too thick" when it comes to anal play. Is 6 to 7 inches of girth fine for pussy but too much for anal?
Anal depends how turned on i am. My partner is around 6" girth. Most times i can take him anally. Rarely we have to leave anal alone as i struggle to take him. Pussy wise 6-7" is ok. I did try a 8.5" girth dildo in my pussy once, after i was quite sore so even girth can be to much at that thickness. Jo.
Wow - at that girth I'm not surprised! At least with a dildo you could control the motion."
Yes and stop when you feel like. If it was a guy id struggle to go for a long time. |
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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago
South Yorkshire |
"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread
No point in taking a big cock if it's going to hurt. Rather pleasure over size any day. "
I get that entirely (I know exactly what you mean!) |
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"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread"
Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol! |
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"I could be a problem for a few ladies but appearances can be deceiving.
The art is in how to make it functional  "
It don't make a difference if the guy is over 7.5" i am not interested how skilled he is with his dick. One thrust too deep and pain is on the cards. No thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread
Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol!"
Flappy fanny !!! Lol
How tight are you ? |
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"I'm surprised at how few "size queens" are on this thread
Ah they may not be on this thread but they defo exist, I've been surprised at women specifying the need for a big cock, implies a rather flappy fanny! Lol!
Flappy fanny !!! Lol
How tight are you ?"
Mwhaha just totally normal, tight enough to feel an average member, too tight for a huge monster lol! I enjoyed writing 'flappy fanny', made me think of the old 'yer ma' jokes lol! |
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By *am OP Man
over a year ago
Ilford |
"About 7-8 inches would be just nice  "
Sounds like we have some consensus on length, and from the sound of it girth up to around 6 or 7, with maybe a little thinner for anal play. |
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By *am OP Man
over a year ago
Ilford |
"If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro."
 
Mine is 7.5 inch length, a little on the thicker side at 7 inch girth so "should" be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just a thought.. why is it always about the size of the wick and not the inkwell it is being dipped into?
Men take penis size far too seriously when good sex is made up of so much more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just a thought.. why is it always about the size of the wick and not the inkwell it is being dipped into?
Men take penis size far too seriously when good sex is made up of so much more."
I'd agree, I d say it matters more to gay and bi sexual guys on here from messages and comments on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she walks out the hotel room like Tina Turner, she's satisfied. If she needs to be wheeled out, your penis is too big for her bro.
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Isn't Tina dead? |
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What is too much girth? 
This can apply to vaginal, anal or oral play.