Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times! |
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By *eacsMan
over a year ago
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Had this issue all my life from the first time!!! Thought i was on my own but a friend from school, similar boat!!!! The sad thing is, the recipient doesnt think youre enjoying yourself or shes not hot!!!!!! |
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"Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times! "
There's all the obvious things like being relaxed, fully aroused etc but (without wanting to scare ya) there can be some medical issues that cause this so might be worth getting checked out if it continues? I'm hyper aware of it because I'm diabetic and I know it can cause issues for blokes in that department. |
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"Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times! "
We had this earlier this year with a guy we used to meet regularly. We always thought he just had immense stamina but the final time we met we realised he actually has a problem. |
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"Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times! "
I always have taken a long time to cum. So you are not alone bud. John |
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"Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times!
There's all the obvious things like being relaxed, fully aroused etc but (without wanting to scare ya) there can be some medical issues that cause this so might be worth getting checked out if it continues? I'm hyper aware of it because I'm diabetic and I know it can cause issues for blokes in that department. "
Not always. Can be you are not as sensitive also. My ex mrs use to take ages to cum by her me stimulating her clit. Present partner cums easily off everything. |
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over a year ago
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My wife always cums super quick so I then feel a bit of pressure to cum soon after which doesn't always happen.
I tend to lose a bit of interest once she's satisfied. |
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over a year ago
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Same here, always have been. It's as common as premature ejaculation but talked about less as its not a problem in the same sense.
Finding what works for you can help, but found the best thing is to stop worrying about it and just enjoy the journey instead  |
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over a year ago
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I’ve had this a couple times aswell, but it really depends on the situation for me, and like someone said earlier it doesn’t seem as much of a problem so I haven’t paid too much attention to it |
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You are not alone (and it is reassuring to see others in same boat). I have had this issue all my life also.
Some partners love that you can keep going, but downside is others may think they don't turn you on or get frustrated if they can't make you cum.  |
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I struggle to Cum through penetration unless I haven’t Cum for a few days.
Spent ages worrying about it but makes it worse. As others have said it can be mentally challenging for your partner.
Talk through it and work on it with your partner. |
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If you're fit, it could be sexual technique. When we're in club's we often see Men having sex at 100mph and struggling to cum. They get hot and sweaty, more blood rushes to the head and less to the penis. Going slower should be more pleasurable, causing more blood to flow down below, causing the sensations to gradually increase. |
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Viagra type meds can cause this. Also age. Undeniable fact the older you get the less you get a raging horn just by looking at a naked woman. Speaking from experience it can be very frustrating but I've found ways around it. Edging, outdoor sex and we were in a hotel sauna recently where a woman was topless. We both had a strong hunch she was an exhibitionist by her actions and chat so when she went for a shower we had a kiss as she walked back in. She made a comment how nice that it was . Next thing I knew I had my partners tits out , then she got my cock out and I came within minutes over her. Very exciting and unexpected. |
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I have the same issue too.. I can cum very quickly the first time, though the 2nd-3rd time takes a lot longer.. what works for me is being more rampant and or different angles and positions help ?? |
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I have this sometimes, and find that spicing things up helps.
Some women love it, as they are able to achieve multiple orgasms, but it can be very frustrating.
I've found that in a threesome, it is less so, possibly because of the extra visual and aural stimulation, but it can be a pain. |
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"Any other blokes have this issue? Can take upto an hour and a half to cum during sex! So frustrating at times! I’m sure the Mrs doesn’t mind some of the times but I can tell it’s frustrating for her too at times!
There's all the obvious things like being relaxed, fully aroused etc but (without wanting to scare ya) there can be some medical issues that cause this so might be worth getting checked out if it continues? I'm hyper aware of it because I'm diabetic and I know it can cause issues for blokes in that department.
Not always. Can be you are not as sensitive also. My ex mrs use to take ages to cum by her me stimulating her clit. Present partner cums easily off everything. "
Yeah that's what I meant by the "obvious" things, but it's true that some people do just take longer to cum, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm just hyper awareness the medical issues I guess, being diabetic myself. |
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Drink normally does it for me. Too much and sometimes i struggle to cum.
We once had a FB who just couldn't cum. He thought he was amazing and was a fantastic lover. He used to bang on about having amazing stamina and his first priority was the ladies enjoyment. He just didn't realise that women can get fed up of being banged for hours. It was a bit of a blow to his ego finding out that it's not normal. |
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I've been there and have had to finish myself off by hand. It was certainly no fault of my partners and turns out it was mostly psychological (anxiety, stress, pressure) and lack of sleep were big factors for me. I've even had a bit of ED because of it.
The mind is a powerful beast - maybe take a step back and assess what might be different or any life factors.
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I wish!
If I am in a group situation I literally feel like I want to cum the moment I get my cock out.
Less of a problem in one to one, although I can occasionally feel this way with a brand new meet.
But yeah, we met a bloke several years ago who really struggled to cum. Miniskirt took it as a challenge and met him five or six times - and eventually helped him across the line during a solo one to one meet. He was young, fit and not drinking or smoking, so it must have been all in his head and perhaps partly due to my presence in the room.
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He just didn't realise that women can get fed up of being banged for hours."
Can relate. Also, men must realise that some women get pleasure from seeing their sexual partner enjoying themselves too.
And some of us, like me, really get off on hearing/feeling/seeing a man cum.
x Miniskirt |
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Generally I cum in what I consider for me to be a normal time. Other times it takes F O R E v E R... This is whilst sober. As soon as I think 'hmm should I have cum by now?' it seems to shut off the tap entirely. Which makes the mind game even worse. I can go from being super sensitive and feeling the pre-cum tingle to it losing it all as soon as I think about cumming.
It's when you see your partner changing wanking hands to give their arm a rest, you know it's taking too long   |
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