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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
During sex / intense play , almost uncontrollably and hurt your man? Or feel like you want to, or even warn him you think you will ?
How do you like to be treated in those intense moments ? Restrained ? Allowed to be free and go for it ? Taken off the boil and calmed ? |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I like you to succumb.
Stop worrying about what’s being done to you and surrender- enjoy exploring the pain/pleasure threshold "
That sounds more experienced and controlled though , it’s different , that’s what I do.
All Your senses are engaged and alert , you’re thinking ahead, intensifying carefully etc this is a different thing it’s like a volcano erupting. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I accidentally bit the Mr's shoulder during a very intense orgasm, it didn't go gown well 
Woops.
Mrs "
Awww that’s forgivable. I quite like being covered in bites and bruises after a good session  |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
No I never have done but when things do get intense I am careful of how hard I am with my nails
As for me more with intensity I definitely like restraint, even better if you’re looking into the other persons eyes |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"No I never have done but when things do get intense I am careful of how hard I am with my nails
As for me more with intensity I definitely like restraint, even better if you’re looking into the other persons eyes "
Yeah that’s hot locking eyes and giving that ‘you’re not going anywhere’ look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I’d never want to hurt him and that definitely wouldn’t be a turn of for him. He’s more dominant than me in bed.
But moaning loudly and biting my lip that’s something else  |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"During sex / intense play , almost uncontrollably and hurt your man? Or feel like you want to, or even warn him you think you will ?
How do you like to be treated in those intense moments ? Restrained ? Allowed to be free and go for it ? Taken off the boil and calmed ? "
Maybe this was a bad idea to post.
Anyone saying yes that’s me! feels like they are putting an ‘avoid me ‘ sign up ? Fuck no , a bit like squirting, crying, hypersensitivity, letting your body fully take over is good, it’s a privilege to have someone so liberated.
Probably best not to just surprise him , talk about what might happen when you get the intensity and how you like to treated in those moments , definitely no need to start apologising during sex when you feel it starting |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say lashed out but sometimes it's quite primal and animalistic and I enjoy sinking my teeth into someone as I come. My nails scratching them as they fuck me. That sort of thing.
Right now I'd probably say I'm a bit cautious about it? The penultimate time I did it I was told not to leave marks due to fairness on others... only to be sent bruise photos from them, from someone else a week later.
I like sex where I can be myself. Can talk about things and then relax and go with the flow. I don't always have that sort of primal sex because it depends on the dynamic I have with a person.
I also think I'm probably a bit wary and tend to hold back a bit because of the aforementioned experience but I think that in the coming months I'll rediscover that freedom to just be myself. |
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