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By *arkhelga OP   Couple  over a year ago

leeds

Which of the above do you love to receive and would you return the favour so to speak X

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By *he Gentleman 84Man  over a year ago

North East

I don’t mind any of them tbf!

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By *urenutsMan  over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I'm in

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By *rStroker69Man  over a year ago

wells

Messages all day long

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By *ragon1booMan  over a year ago

blackwood

Messages but I’m happy with all

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By *erseus1968Man  over a year ago

Rochdale

I like receiving all three, winks and fabs can promote a conversation too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do like a wink, certainly gives one an indication, followed by a nice message.

Messages are nice but a wink sets the mind wandering

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't mind. It's whatever the person feels comfortable with doing to start the conversation or show they are interested.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs "

They probably just don’t know what to say and are like oohhhh they winked back!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs

They probably just don’t know what to say and are like oohhhh they winked back! "

I've only ever winked 3 couples back and that was recently none messaged so I didn't see the point in them winking to start.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs

They probably just don’t know what to say and are like oohhhh they winked back!

I've only ever winked 3 couples back and that was recently none messaged so I didn't see the point in them winking to start.

Mrs "

Just don’t know what they’re missing,

Wink finger must have been damaged

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs

They probably just don’t know what to say and are like oohhhh they winked back!

I've only ever winked 3 couples back and that was recently none messaged so I didn't see the point in them winking to start.

Mrs "

Happens to me too on the rare occasion I get winked lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All three is good to give and even better to receive

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By *quirtyfun69Couple  over a year ago

Burnley

Winks and fabs

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By *ornycouplepzCouple  over a year ago

here and there

We like all three of them

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By *wistedsoul35Man  over a year ago

cumbria

I'm in for it all!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple  over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs "

We don't mind any but also prefer messages for this very reason

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By *hroatitboyMan  over a year ago

GLA

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By *atandasmileMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like all three: the attention is a stroke to the ego . All of them are rare enough on a male profile to be able to respond to all. Which I do except when the winker is clearly not within my stated preferences (sorry other men, it's flattering that you are interested but I'm afraid I'm not).

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By *atandasmileMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs "

I've seen the same. I presume these people are winking because they find it difficult to come up with what to say. And it can be difficult to be the one who starts the conversational flow. I think that's why so many initial messages just say "hi" or "how are you?" or similar.

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By *aughtynottsCouple  over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Started to ignore winks they never ammount to much. Prefer messages that have read and understood our profile nor just winked cause they saw a set of tits

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prefer messages but hsppy to be winked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Started to ignore winks they never ammount to much. Prefer messages that have read and understood our profile nor just winked cause they saw a set of tits "

I thought it was the alluring smile ….boobs…where lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fabs and messages we can't see the point in winks.

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By *wistedsoul35Man  over a year ago

cumbria


"Started to ignore winks they never ammount to much. Prefer messages that have read and understood our profile nor just winked cause they saw a set of tits "

Messages do always work better, most the time the reciprocated wink never goes any further!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is what I’ve been doing wrong

I should message more….doh!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always nice to get a fab and if we like a message will always message back.

But Don’t use the wink system always forget about it

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By *cott73Man  over a year ago

brighton

I'm not picky!

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By *asepaul71Man  over a year ago

Buxton

Any of the above

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By *heggMan  over a year ago

South Brum/Croydon


"Started to ignore winks they never ammount to much. Prefer messages that have read and understood our profile nor just winked cause they saw a set of tits "

Be fair; because they saw a very nice set of tits...

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By *ake_or_deathMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Any to be honest. I suppose a message gives more of an idea of the person, but it's always nice to be winked at.

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple  over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

We like all 3, but prefer a message.

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By *uddly GoblinMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Prefer a message but don't mind either to be fair

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By *ilth N KinkCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

We use winks to show interest but having read a lot of posts on here we are starting to realise they are a waste of time. We like a wink but love getting a message as the opening message can say a lot about someone. We also always try to reply to all our messages.

Kink (fem)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Winks are pointless in our opinion a message you read there profile see if you think you could jell and go from there xx

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By *untocum1000TV/TS  over a year ago

newmarket

Its good to talk !

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

im sure everbody would prefer a message,,

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple  over a year ago

leeds

All three are fine by us,winks are cheeky,fabs are very flattering,but messages are the ultimate if someone has taken time to look at you and your profile then wrote a message its ALWAYS worth a reply.X

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman  over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I don't mind but what I don't get is when you get blank or hidden profiles wink I just don't see the point

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By *aribbean King 1985Man  over a year ago

South West London

Surely a message would be the preferred option as winks and fabs are just a lazy way of getting someone's attention

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By *valanche1001Man  over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely a message for me

….. with a lovely face pic and offer of vast amounts of future naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always prefer a message. I do try my best to reply to all, sometimes the messages are that poor that they get an instant delete though...

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple  over a year ago

Camberley

Messages but we love winks too..... xx

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By *cnugatugMan  over a year ago

Chatham

I like to start with a wink then if I receive one back send a message I also love fans to so all 3 I guess

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By *94meeMan  over a year ago

Manchester

If I get a wink back then it's a match!

Positive messages though always make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All of the Above as well

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By *alsam1Couple  over a year ago

Caister

We prefer a wink. We can then go check out the profile and if we like it message.x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We tend to only respond to messages. It shows a bit of confidence to make the move and say hi. We don’t really respond to winks

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By *handlerMonicaCouple  over a year ago

Leicester

All nice to receive, but messages winks fabs

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By *handlerMonicaCouple  over a year ago

Leicester


"All nice to receive, but messages winks fabs"

Messages &gt winks &gt fabs

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By *k_123Man  over a year ago

Preston

Love a nice message but do like winks too. Message and wink away folks x

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By *IG G77Man  over a year ago

GATLEY

Be nice to receive messages, winks are usually to show interest

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By *bagainMan  over a year ago

fife

Happy to receive any to be honest

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By *irk_Dastardly.Man  over a year ago

Salisbury

Love sending a receiving nice messages. Also like fabbing pics

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By *arkhelga OP   Couple  over a year ago

leeds

We love this thread oh wait a minute we started it lolX

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By *ingerbeardman-Man  over a year ago

Sutton-in-Ashfield

I enjoy any type of interaction!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would just like any.

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By *orny IrishMan  over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Prefer messages the most, but happy with fabs and winks. If I wink of get a wink it means I am interested and willing to chat. So hopefully anyone sending a wink is thinking the same.

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By *orny IrishMan  over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs

They probably just don’t know what to say and are like oohhhh they winked back!

I've only ever winked 3 couples back and that was recently none messaged so I didn't see the point in them winking to start.

Mrs "

I agree with you there, in the odd occasion I have had a wink. I send one back or reply saying thanks that is it no more communication. Seems crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t mind any but I rarely respond to winks

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple  over a year ago

nearby

Messages for sure, winks often lead no where, they wink, we wink and that's it

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By *anSMan  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Much prefer messages we get winks, send one back & hear nothing so it kinda seems pointless.

Mrs "

Exactly this ..

Not adverse to winks and Fabs, but in most cases they don’t really go much further than a well composed message

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By *ocksareoffMan  over a year ago

Out n About

Fabs are nice but a message is better. It's more personal and shows the that the sender has made the effort.

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By *rotic daysMan  over a year ago

oxford

received winks which tells me they interested..write back thanking them for wink...and the nothing...why bother winking in first place..beyond me..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wink show's interested

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By *amcpl4Couple  over a year ago

Liverpool

We love getting fabs, the more the better lol x

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By *eartsmanMan  over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I always send winks , if I get one back then I follow it up with a message. .I prefer both. A wink tells me that person is interested.

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By *rystalsswingCouple  over a year ago

Galway

I like fabs

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By *ittle Miss PuddlesCouple  over a year ago

Your fantasies

I enjoying a good fabbing. Both giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All of the above

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By *xfordjohnMan  over a year ago

Oxford


"received winks which tells me they interested..write back thanking them for wink...and the nothing...why bother winking in first place..beyond me.."

Exactly my experience in the last few days so frustrating.

In general I like to receive anything and always respond even if it's a polite no thank you.

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By *oll_Face_xxWoman  over a year ago

Dollywood

Fab's I never see as an interest, I just assume they are kinda window shopping and hit fab as a like but not enough interest to message me...

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By *akbearMan  over a year ago

Newbury

Any or all 3 are good for me. If I then look and like the profile I'll message.

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By *ogan WillowCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

We love all 3

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By *orbidden eastMan  over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Any of them will do. Just please have a nice sense of humour and a lovely understanding of sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Happy to receive any of the three

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